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Lovely, polite, single guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Big hugs to all the lovely, polite, single guys.

Love it when I've answered with a 'no thanks' or a 'sorry, I'm back down south' or some such and get a message thanking me just for replying.

Go guys. You're the bestest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big hugs to all the lovely, polite, single guys.

Love it when I've answered with a 'no thanks' or a 'sorry, I'm back down south' or some such and get a message thanking me just for replying.

Go guys. You're the bestest "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try our best

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I love single guys, the polite ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally with you! For every, say 50 messages from single men we might get one arsey reply, the rest are always lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pooch and I always believe in behaving like jolly nice gentleman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I will Thankyou ladies, and I met one online just last night, who take the time with no risks to share a few in boxes before making a decision about us.

There are many half decent single guys out there but we seem to get a lot if bad press.

The other thing while were on a relative subject. How hard is it to reply to an inbox with a no thanks? Manners cosy nothing and I was raised to answer any enquiry with an appropriate reply but always a reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seen lots of threads about the rude guys but, in my experience, 99.9% of guys are really polite.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

I had to chuckle at this. The vast majority of the second messages I send are along the lines of 'thanks for the reply and good luck'. I seldom get the opportunity to send a second message though because I seldom get a reply to the first. Its nice to be appreciated though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fan of single guys here..

Nice post op

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

When I send a "no thanks but good luck", a good third reply with a "no worries".

Some noble chaps on here.

Shame about the minority who taint it for the others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankfully the ones who 'spoil it' really are a minority's group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering the percentage of messages that I send that don't get replied to (I understand why) I do say thanks for letting me know to those who reply telling me they're not interested.

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area

Thank you. It also feels sometimes that ladies are only looking for bad boys. Let's hear it for nice and normal!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Yes, some of us are rather nice. We just tend to get a lot of bad press that's all.

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Always polite. Manners cost nowt

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

We've had lots of decent messages recently from some very sexy guys so lots of messaging going on. Still get random weird one liners but usually laugh at em.

So thank you sexy, polite men if fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not only that...some can even read profiles! wtf!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always polite .

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By *ullbackbuttMan
over a year ago

Purton


"When I send a "no thanks but good luck", a good third reply with a "no worries".

Some noble chaps on here.

Shame about the minority who taint it for the others"

When do you stop the messaging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point being bitter about rejection is there, I just say fair enough, have fun. and then move on

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Nice thread OP. I'm always polite on fab.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Nice thread OP. I'm always polite on fab. "

So you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners make a man and cost nothing, always polite here

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Yay....go me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone up for a quicky?

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

Aw shucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many gents on fab, in fact speaking to some of you lovely blokes has restored my faith in men after bad past experiences

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Nice to know that we are appreciated really.

I know the ladies on this forum still only want us to objectify though (get yer bums out, get yer torsos out etc)!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurrah for not being an asshole!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aim to please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ears burning....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even when I'm being an arse.....I'm a frightfully polite arse!

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"Big hugs to all the lovely, polite, single guys.

Love it when I've answered with a 'no thanks' or a 'sorry, I'm back down south' or some such and get a message thanking me just for replying.

Go guys. You're the bestest "

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By *iceguymkMan
over a year ago

aylesbury

Thanks ladies xxx feel kinda wanted now lol xxx

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By *osmicplusMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

This is a refreshing thread

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER


"Nice thread OP. I'm always polite on fab.

So you are "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Big hugs to all the lovely, polite, single guys.

Love it when I've answered with a 'no thanks' or a 'sorry, I'm back down south' or some such and get a message thanking me just for replying.

Go guys. You're the bestest "

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I am so lovely, polite and single that my opening message is 'Not to worry, thanks anyway', thus saving the recipient from even having to go to the trouble of sending me a 'thanks but no thanks.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seen lots of threads about the rude guys but, in my experience, 99.9% of guys are really polite. "

Its the 0.01% of the rude single guys that can ruin it for all the other polite single guys bummer ain it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always polite and never send any "fancy a fuck" messages, is always nice to get a thanks but no thanks I return.

I sent a message to a couple ( couple of days after joining )after reading their profile and fitting what they were after and got in return " no pics, no veris, no fucking chance of meeting us"

Seems being polite doesn't always work, but that won't stop be being polite in a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm always polite and never send any "fancy a fuck" messages, is always nice to get a thanks but no thanks I return.

I sent a message to a couple ( couple of days after joining )after reading their profile and fitting what they were after and got in return " no pics, no veris, no fucking chance of meeting us"

Seems being polite doesn't always work, but that won't stop be being polite in a message "

That's really rude!!! We have lovely messages and never had anything bad from single guys. Couples can be funny though and have had the odd nasty message from them x

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I'm always polite and never send any "fancy a fuck" messages, is always nice to get a thanks but no thanks I return.

I sent a message to a couple ( couple of days after joining )after reading their profile and fitting what they were after and got in return " no pics, no veris, no fucking chance of meeting us"

Seems being polite doesn't always work, but that won't stop be being polite in a message

That's really rude!!! We have lovely messages and never had anything bad from single guys. Couples can be funny though and have had the odd nasty message from them x"

I agree ... just wait until you are in a couple yourself, and those rude couples will soon change their tune. I do wonder if its the male of female being rude ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice thread.

Single guys rock- they make my fab fabbier!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice thread. Nice to see us polite guys getting some credit. More often than not, there's more attention paid to the halfwits, time wasters and rude people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always reply with no probs but thanks for getting back

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"So many gents on fab, in fact speaking to some of you lovely blokes has restored my faith in men after bad past experiences "

This is true for me too

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Nice thread. Nice to see us polite guys getting some credit. More often than not, there's more attention paid to the halfwits, time wasters and rude people.

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In the forums & chat yes, but we're actually having sex with you guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice thread. Nice to see us polite guys getting some credit. More often than not, there's more attention paid to the halfwits, time wasters and rude people.

In the forums & chat yes, but we're actually having sex with you guys "

I think that's overlooked by a lot of people on here. There are lots of men having sex on here.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Big hugs to all the lovely, polite, single guys.

Love it when I've answered with a 'no thanks' or a 'sorry, I'm back down south' or some such and get a message thanking me just for replying.

Go guys. You're the bestest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm exactly like that xD

At least the person replied right? Politeness costs nothing at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us do try to be polite and courteous and take a no thank you with a nice reply. Certainly I get a lot of practice at it ...

But as I was told when I first started all this "As a single bloke if you can't take a knockback get out of Swinging!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can honestly say I have always been polite and never gave anybody any abuse, if you have got to resort to getting nasty instead of just leaving it then they are very sad individuals lol

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Big hugs to all the lovely, polite, single guys.

Love it when I've answered with a 'no thanks' or a 'sorry, I'm back down south' or some such and get a message thanking me just for replying.

Go guys. You're the bestest "

good evening rachael hope all is well in life, also poke

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya. Ouch. Mind where you poke me with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nice thread. Nice to see us polite guys getting some credit. More often than not, there's more attention paid to the halfwits, time wasters and rude people.

In the forums & chat yes, but we're actually having sex with you guys "

Not me personally though!

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By *orkDefenderMan
over a year ago

Just East of Wakefield


"Always polite. Manners cost nowt "

Exactly!!

I always try to be civil & polite, be it in a PM, or when meeting, particularly if it's a first one

Treat as you would like to be treated - in real life, not a fantasy scenario (unless by pre arrangement!)

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Hiya. Ouch. Mind where you poke me with that "
hehe, looking forward to celebrating Christmas are we and having a good time with the family etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are more polite,single men than women on here.

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By *onah10Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Nice thread. Nice to see us polite guys getting some credit. More often than not, there's more attention paid to the halfwits, time wasters and rude people.

In the forums & chat yes, but we're actually having sex with you guys "

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

A 'thanks for reply good luck and take care' is a standard reply and should be at all times...It is nice to read here that it is more common than sometimes stated on forums, so thanks for mentioning it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are more polite,single men than women on here."

So there should be with the ratio of men and women on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners cost nothing - probably more so when asking for sex. It's one of life's most sacred gifts, so the least you can do is reply!

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