FabSwingers.com forum: True Love VS Wanton Sex

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Firstly no, this isn't a shot at swinging as a whole, I'm sure couples can still enjoy an active swinging lifestyle whilst maintaining the warmth and affection of a more traditional relationship.

My question is, if you could only have one or the other, ie, a choice between only ever having sex with one person for the rest of you life, albeit one you're head over heels in love with, or an endless string of hotties with otherwise no emotional attachment, which would you choose...and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One special person to love and share my life with - no question...!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

One person who truly loves me as I them. No one has come close to how I felt whilst with my husband.

I've had "better" sex, but not the total emotional feeling. After a while sex with random playmates lost its appeal.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Can't we have both?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"One special person to love and share my life with - no question...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take the sex, love always ends badly for me, and sex always has a happy ending

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

Love doesn't exist.. People will always let you down.. bring on the wanton sex....

hello.. anyone there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One special person, quite easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One special person. No contest. X

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'd chose jay, but God forbid anything happened to us then I'd never get in the position of falling in love again so it would then be a strong of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One special person please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I finished things with my partner, of 15 years for the latter. No plans on changing it, at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't we have both?"

Kinda agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Firstly no, this isn't a shot at swinging as a whole, I'm sure couples can still enjoy an active swinging lifestyle whilst maintaining the warmth and affection of a more traditional relationship.

What about you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the one special person for me .......................to share sweet & sour wantons with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better to have loved to the stars and lost, and to live with sweet memories, than never to have loved...

But when there are times in your life when there's no-one to love, then a nice no-strings bonk from a stranger will do nicely, thank you!

(Still rather be in love though!!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One very special person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I really know what wanton sex is, so true love, even though there have been times when I thought wanton sex was what I wanted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Firstly no, this isn't a shot at swinging as a whole, I'm sure couples can still enjoy an active swinging lifestyle whilst maintaining the warmth and affection of a more traditional relationship.

What about you OP"

True love, easily. As much as I do value sex, there are other things in life outside of it which excite me equally, that I wish to pursue with electricity in my eyes and fire in my heart, had I a warm pair of arms always waiting to hold me at the end of each day so I can recharge, that would be wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

Then they probably wouldn't be your 'True love' if that was the case, but even so, sometimes it's just the warmth and affection I crave more than the sexual release, we wouldn't have to have SEX as often, so long as I could count on kisses and cuddles whenever I need them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

I guess then my answer is i need the cuddles and affection... but i really really enjoy the wild sex

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Once you gather opinions will you get anything from this poll? Or is this just another who likes salt n vinegar/cheese n onion type query.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?"

Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?"

yes. .....& I'm very fond of venison too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

Then you work together and build a life that is centred on other things...

So long as they are still that Special Person, then it's love that matters..!

But if the love goes, then all the sex in the world isn't going to bring the magic back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?

Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter

he just needs a bit of egging on then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?

Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter

he just needs a bit of egging on then!

I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Love to find that special someone that knows im not perfect but treats me as if I am.. but until then this suits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?

Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter

he just needs a bit of egging on then!

I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits

Ah, so he's Warren, eh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Once you gather opinions will you get anything from this poll? Or is this just another who likes salt n vinegar/cheese n onion type query. "

The results will be fed into my magnificent Romeo engine to produce a burst of vanilla smelling flowers and butterflies, which will then unite humankind into a new age of tender perfection, where we'll all skip merrily hand in hand through verdant green fields, beneath glorious blue skies and shimmering rainbows, singing merry songs and wearing little hats.

...actually, it's more like the crisps question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?

Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter

he just needs a bit of egging on then!

I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits

Ah, so he's Warren, eh! "
who told you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?

Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter

he just needs a bit of egging on then!

I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits

Ah, so he's Warren, eh! "

Easter Bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if that special person goes off sex and it becomes a once a year thing....

is he Santa?

You mean once a year, sliding down your chimney, shouting 'HO HO HO!' then emptying his sack?

Haha unfortunately not christmas just easter

he just needs a bit of egging on then!

I just dont understand we used to be at it like rabbits

Ah, so he's Warren, eh! who told you?

Cock Robin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love doesn't exist.. People will always let you down.. bring on the wanton sex....

hello.. anyone there

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've already chosen the wanton sex. Doesn't have to be a stream of hotties though, just sexy people who aren't arseholes.

I already have people i love in my life, and i feel romance isn't love anyway.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am not interested in the whole looking for love thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the sex with all the hottest women in the world could not compare to a single true loves kiss. IMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One true love who Id teach to become my sex God

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

One true love that's gives me wild wanton sex

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"One true love that's gives me wild wanton sex

Absolutely, make mine a double!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me sex with out feelings is like going to the loo very boring .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One true love that's gives me wild wanton sex

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