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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, i notice the status update on here along the lines of 'too many messages, deleted, starting again'.

Being the nosy type i am i check the profile out only to see the statement 'no one liners, make an effort'

Those guys who pulled out all the stops in their messages only to be deleted within an instant.

I'm not saying she is wrong or should be lamented for it, each to their own, i just can't help but notice this type of irony is common place on here.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"So, i notice the status update on here along the lines of 'too many messages, deleted, starting again'.

Being the nosy type i am i check the profile out only to see the statement 'no one liners, make an effort'

Those guys who pulled out all the stops in their messages only to be deleted within an instant.

I'm not saying she is wrong or should be lamented for it, each to their own, i just can't help but notice this type of irony is common place on here."

I've read it twice.

Can't make head nor tail of it.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Flummoxed. Are we sorry for the lady deleting messages, or the chaps sending them, or anyone left home alone without Joe Pesci trying to break in?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Don't send messages. It's easier.

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I myself often make an effort. Still get deleted and blocked so a waste of time. So give a small introductory message and then a longer one if any rapport is built up. Spend time composing long messages is sometimes not worth it so know what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody women!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Bloody women!"

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah poor poor blokes

Shoot all the women

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Bloody women!

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh "
CHOO!!!!!! Bless you.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yeah poor poor blokes

Shoot all the women "

The men will have to message themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah poor poor blokes

Shoot all the women

The men will have to wank themselves"

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"Bloody women!"

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Yeah poor poor blokes

Shoot all the women

The men will have to wank themselves

"

I do that anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may have read the ones that stand out and answered them. I have 61 unreads I'm going to look at later. Most will probably be a thanks anyway type message or part of a message thread I didn't open

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Flummoxed. Are we sorry for the lady deleting messages, or the chaps sending them, or anyone left home alone without Joe Pesci trying to break in? "

I think he is taking about the chap. Well if he serches the forum he should know what he needs to do to get meet.

Seriously I don't know why Fab just dos not have section or guide to swinging lending helpful tips and information on anything to do with swinging even if it is an extension of the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wasn't a post designed to categorise ALL women, just to clarify, for those ready to wage war.

Just find it funny some expect a guy to send them something well thought out & relevant (ie: no one line messages) only for them to be deleted without being read.

Feel a bit for the guys who go to all this effort only for his message to go unread purely because she got too many messages & nothing to do with the content of his message.

Also makes me wonder if it's worth paying for a site membership. Just my view of course.

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By *lligator3Man
over a year ago

Dundee

Something you just have to roll with on this site, it's all good

I love how this site allows women who don't stand a chance generally, to fight fellas off with a stick here...you go those particular ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol...do not get it twisted. I'm not asking for help on how to find a meet, just getting some opinions.

I didn't message her myself

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Wasn't a post designed to categorise ALL women, just to clarify, for those ready to wage war.

Just find it funny some expect a guy to send them something well thought out & relevant (ie: no one line messages) only for them to be deleted without being read.

Feel a bit for the guys who go to all this effort only for his message to go unread purely because she got too many messages & nothing to do with the content of his message.

Also makes me wonder if it's worth paying for a site membership. Just my view of course.

"

I always personalise my messages to the individual profile, and currently have several lengthy messages that have sat unread in my sent box for a week or more now. It's the way fab is though, just have to accept it and carry on. Can understand the frustration from the male side but it's hard for women too having to sift through tons of mail each time they login.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"Wasn't a post designed to categorise ALL women, just to clarify, for those ready to wage war.

Just find it funny some expect a guy to send them something well thought out & relevant (ie: no one line messages) only for them to be deleted without being read.

Feel a bit for the guys who go to all this effort only for his message to go unread purely because she got too many messages & nothing to do with the content of his message.

Also makes me wonder if it's worth paying for a site membership. Just my view of course.

"

Sexule attraction then comes to mind. or maybe missed the message and bulk deleted the rest. it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't send messages. It's easier. "

Absolutely this!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"So, i notice the status update on here along the lines of 'too many messages, deleted, starting again'.

Being the nosy type i am i check the profile out only to see the statement 'no one liners, make an effort'

Those guys who pulled out all the stops in their messages only to be deleted within an instant.

I'm not saying she is wrong or should be lamented for it, each to their own, i just can't help but notice this type of irony is common place on here."
. It is her profile and her decision . We do not have to worry about messages being deleted . If you send a message , you do not necessary exoect it to be read .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't send messages. It's easier.

Absolutely this! "

Got me thinking actually! New thread a cometh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Something you just have to roll with on this site, it's all good

I love how this site allows women who don't stand a chance generally, to fight fellas off with a stick here...you go those particular ladies "

Thank you very much! Go me indeed!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There really is no need to moan about too many messages, filters help immensely. I get around 10 messages a day which is more than easy to cope with. If I remove all my filters I get in excess of 50 a day which I really don't need but if people are happy not to apply filters then they really shouldn't moan about message overload.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

cliques in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"cliques in "

Just ignore them & open a window...the smell will soon disappear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its attention seeking pure and simple.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've got the solution to this message problem.

Noone send messages at all, to anyone ever on here

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"cliques in "

Aye....don't sweat it.

Anyone who has sent a message that clearly isn't a copy & paste job and is tailored to me will get a response, even if it's a no thanks. Otherwise, they go in the bin.

Some ladies like to pop themselves on pedestals here but we do get plagued with messages and can take our pick.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"cliques in "

Why so sad ?

Whassup ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"cliques in

Aye....don't sweat it.

Anyone who has sent a message that clearly isn't a copy & paste job and is tailored to me will get a response, even if it's a no thanks. Otherwise, they go in the bin.

Some ladies like to pop themselves on pedestals here but we do get plagued with messages and can take our pick. "

I see how that works, i guess some eager guys encourage that also by trying again & again until deemed a weirdo by someone they prob wouldn't look at twice in the street.

Oh the joys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its attention seeking pure and simple. "

Seems like Planet Zog has the most suitable answer so far

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