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"I will its not a problem of going to a club I can manage that I went back to check the name of the club, as in today's times ![]() Should we call u inspector clusoe .... not every one is a liar thankx xx | |||
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"dignity at all costs" ^^^^^ this Find something you love doing, not something you did with your ex, but something you can do alone, be good to yourself and kind to your spirit, things will get better ![]() | |||
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"Keep your chin up, keep active and look for small victories ![]() Or small Victoria sponges, there ain't been a damn thing they can't fix ![]() | |||
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"dignity at all costs ^^^^^ this Find something you love doing, not something you did with your ex, but something you can do alone, be good to yourself and kind to your spirit, things will get better ![]() A wank comes to mind lol Yes will try thankx mate | |||
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"dignity at all costs ^^^^^ this Find something you love doing, not something you did with your ex, but something you can do alone, be good to yourself and kind to your spirit, things will get better ![]() Hey, what ever gets you through my man ![]() | |||
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"I will its not a problem of going to a club I can manage that I went back to check the name of the club, as in today's times ![]() I never assumed you were lying about being newly single. Just that 2 weeks and 3 veris...I was a little unsure as to where the upset was coming from. But hey whats ten years after 2 weeks on fab as a single Jim and I'm sure all is forgotten. | |||
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"Was in your shoes 10 months ago, and every one said time will heal and it didn't seem possible, but I hurt less now than I did do seems time really is a great healer.... All I would say is try not to jump from frying pan into the fire.... It's too easy to look for a replacement, be kind to yourself, and cry.... Better out than in..... And that's not a phrase I tend to use on fab!!! ??" /\ what she said. I'm addition.....gin. Gin helps a lot. | |||
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"Thank you for all your support I might go out for a drink tonight with a few school friends" Jesus your still at school? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Thank you for all your support I might go out for a drink tonight with a few school friends Jesus your still at school? ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Lol reunion | |||
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"be around people ..... go to places where there are shit loads of people and strike up a conversation with as many of them as you can. you can't beat positive human interaction with people you've never met before for making you feel valued again. hanging out with existing friends is all well and good but they'll naturally try to say the right thing out of compassion and it won't help in the short term. i'm not saying ditch your mates though as they are still important. going to gigs is usually a good place." Thanks that s a good idea | |||
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"Allow yourself to feel shit then put effort into things that make you feel good. Like spending time with mates. Don't drown your sorrows with booze, that only makes things feel worse. And time really does make all the difference ![]() Thank you xx | |||
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"Hi guys I have just broke up with my partner of ten years. Am really struggling to deal with it as I loved her very much. Any words of advice. Please don't take piss am really feeling down atm." Look up the phases of grief and understand its journey, one door closes and another opens, time for change go give it your all ![]() | |||
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"Hi guys I have just broke up with my partner of ten years. Am really struggling to deal with it as I loved her very much. Any words of advice. Please don't take piss am really feeling down atm." good luck. it's not something i've dealt with well in the past. | |||
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"It's a fucking pain" have you tried keeping yourself busy be it from work, hobbies etc as that can take you're mind off it be for a few hours a day.. try talk to you're family members too or friends and clear you're mind mate, all the best. | |||
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"Hi guys I have just broke up with my partner of ten years. Am really struggling to deal with it as I loved her very much. Any words of advice. Please don't take piss am really feeling down atm. Look up the phases of grief and understand its journey, one door closes and another opens, time for change go give it your all ![]() Thank you xxx | |||
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"Hi guys I have just broke up with my partner of ten years. Am really struggling to deal with it as I loved her very much. Any words of advice. Please don't take piss am really feeling down atm." Ten years is a long time, my friend. They often say that if a friendship can last ten years, it would last a lifetime. Try to see that this is what's best for both of you, rather than staying together dishonestly. And appreciate how good the last decade was for you. And as a matter of fact, you can consider yourself wealthy, because when you're gradually ready to move on, you'll have wisdom and experience of such a long term commitment to take with you, and if there's one thing women appreciate in a man, it's maturity. ![]() | |||
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"Hi guys I have just broke up with my partner of ten years. Am really struggling to deal with it as I loved her very much. Any words of advice. Please don't take piss am really feeling down atm." Well for a start I think I would be not looking for sex as a temporary relief as you will just cause your body and mind to be less in Union which will cause lots of issues. Obviously nobody knows what has occurred between you and your partner but after 10 years it will hurt a bit but get back in touch with yourself and do things in your own way and you might quite like the 'you' that you get back in touch with ![]() | |||
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"dignity at all costs" Yes the only thing of value you can leave a relationship with is dignity | |||
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"Get a dog, it won't help you initially but it will take your mind off things slightly as it will need looking after." Got 3 labradors now And no room on the bed | |||
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"A couple of years down the line I am in a better place I am still single . I appreciate all the kind words you guys gave me thank you very much . God bless you all you were there in my bad times xxx" Glad to hear you're in a better place As devastating as it must have been - its not the end of the world | |||
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"When it's hard, remember why you broke up. As time passes the grief will fade but so will the memory of why you left. It's important that you remember this elsethere will be a constant temptation to go back. Splitting up is genuinely like a death - the person may not be dead but in a way they are to you. Whatever made you split, you were together 10 years and that's gonna include a lot of happy memories. No need to dismiss them, they were and are real - just as the sad ones that made you split are too. Time is a healer- and it may take a long time but if you stick with it you will get there. Mr" So true thanks for that I was thee a few weeks ago | |||
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