FabSwingers.com forum: friend requests

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The amount of friends requests I receive probably outweigh the messages. So, I was wondering does anyone actually accept a friend request on here, if they haven't even had any form of communication with the person?

Also curious as to why people do it, can't really be just to see friends only pics

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Social Media to some is about popularity, feeling popular, appearing popular and all that shite.

If they are happy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I want to talk to the person first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore them

There's nothing amazingly perverted or sexual in my friends gallery anyway,it's only face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept friend requests from people that just want to perve my friends only pics, i have to chat with them first, I rarely accept requests from 'normal fabbers' anymore even if we have chatted because quite frankly I have no intentions of meeting them at any stage.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

If it's a request from a single male with no prior message it's all about the pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Social Media to some is about popularity, feeling popular, appearing popular and all that shite.

If they are happy

I get that to some extent, but that only works for the first 20 friends on here and decide to publish the list. Unless it's just the individual knowing it, rather than everyone else knowing.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"The amount of friends requests I receive probably outweigh the messages. So, I was wondering does anyone actually accept a friend request on here, if they haven't even had any form of communication with the person?

Also curious as to why people do it, can't really be just to see friends only pics

If I've not swapped any emails with the person and they send me a random friend request I don't add them. Don't decline either because then they can send another. Just leave them languishing in sent friend request no man's land.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chat first jeez, I'm not that easy!

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Unless im expecting a friends request I don't go in there. I never delete requests as it prevents repeat requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i like to chat first simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait until they are off line. Accept the request. Perv their pictures. If you don't like what you see, block them.

If you do like what you see, message them.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Unless im expecting a friends request I don't go in there. I never delete requests as it prevents repeat requests

I'm the same and to quote another... Only really face pics in my friends only, so nothing to perv there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also curious as to why people do it, can't really be just to see friends only pics

I'm very much the same here. I get loads and the majority of them are males only wanting more wank material. I will not delete the request nor accept until contact is made.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We only accept from someone who has read our profile and with a potential to meet and obviously, those we have met and are likely to meet again. Get quite a few from people who live miles away, where there is no likelihood of meeting. I think sometimes they are looking to see private pics, with face pics, we have no face pics in there, so they would be disappointed, if that were their intention.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I usually say no until I've met the person (however, someone from my hot list just sent a me a friend request so I'm like, oh ok...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The friend request thing annoys me!!!

Every profile says don't add me unless we have talked and you know me!!

So I don't add.... Then they just randomly add me.. Even though my profile clearly says the same as theirs!!

Don't just add me. let's talk first etc haha

Some people just can't practise what they preach!!!

And no I deliberately don't add people who can't be bothered to read my profile..

I have had loads of people to delete in the F requests box!!!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I accept them. If someone is daft enough to want to keep up to date with my inane status updates then more power to their giddy elbow. It's not like I'm expected to get them all a Christmas present or anything

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I accept them. If someone is daft enough to want to keep up to date with my inane status updates then more power to their giddy elbow. It's not like I'm expected to get them all a Christmas present or anything

Wtf?!

you can bugger off then!!!

In fact, ladies and enter men, Tina forced me to accept her friend offer. It was a very 'in ya face' message.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Wtf?!

you can bugger off then!!!

In fact, ladies and enter men, Tina forced me to accept her friend offer. It was a very 'in ya face' message.

Yes, but you demanded that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also curious as to why people do it, can't really be just to see friends only pics

I keep my friends list to those I know in real life, with just a couple of people I'll hopefully meet. There's people I chat to quite a lot who aren't on my friends list.

Everybody does it differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny enough I put that on my profile yesterday and received 2 requests from people I have never chatted with or even seen their profiles before

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Also curious as to why people do it, can't really be just to see friends only pics

No, I only accept friend requests off people I keep in touch with off here in general speaking..

as for the sending random friend requests or messages don't really do that either unless me and said person have prior communication and it's usually them who sends me the friend invite first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I keep my friends list to those I know in real life, with just a couple of people I'll hopefully meet. There's people I chat to quite a lot who aren't on my friends list.

Everybody does it differently. "

Agreed.

My friend list is single figures and is those people I've met or will hopefully be meeting soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always chat before and if I wont to add as a friend I always mail them to ask if I can request them as a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are very few people on mine. I don't get many spurious friend requests but I don't have any friends only photos so I think that's part of it.

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

OP - We too, get more friend requests than messages! If we like someone we message them, seems strange that others think sending a friend request is better than a message!

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

As a single male, I generally accept Friend requests or any attention at all really, does me no harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i delete i always think they just wanna perv on my friends pics hoping to see some naughtier than my public pics.

So they have to message and i still make em work for it for at least a cpuple of days usually ...and in the end there not any naughtier and it doesnt half amuse me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP - We too, get more friend requests than messages! If we like someone we message them, seems strange that others think sending a friend request is better than a message!

Must be some secret code of chat!

Appears women and couples never accept without prior communication, but many still try their chances. I wonder why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't accept friend requests from people that just want to perve my friends only pics, i have to chat with them first, I rarely accept requests from 'normal fabbers' anymore even if we have chatted because quite frankly I have no intentions of meeting them at any stage."

Glad I wasn't too normal gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No i delete i always think they just wanna perv on my friends pics hoping to see some naughtier than my public pics.

So they have to message and i still make em work for it for at least a cpuple of days usually ...and in the end there not any naughtier and it doesnt half amuse me

You're a naughty girl lol xxx

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

if there profile is interesting then I'll sometimes accept without any messages before hand. though I probably delete more than accept, if they only friend me to perv at my friends only pics there gonna be disappointed,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never accept friend requests without chatting first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No i delete i always think they just wanna perv on my friends pics hoping to see some naughtier than my public pics.

So they have to message and i still make em work for it for at least a cpuple of days usually ...and in the end there not any naughtier and it doesnt half amuse me

You're a naughty girl lol xxx"

Shhhh i will get loads now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also curious as to why people do it, can't really be just to see friends only pics

Accept, look at their friends only pics, unfriend before they come back online ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get them frequently. But we never accept them unless they ask first. We really don't mind people asking so they can perv our pics. ( it's the exhibitionist in us.) If they can't read our profile where it says ask first, they don't get approved.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm happy to accept friend requests, I say so in my profile, there's a picture or two of me nude.. it's likely to Give the folk more giggles than my status updates

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