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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have noticed in the last month that there seems to be a lot of people who are joining Fab, only on site for a brief few hours before leaving again, have people got no patience these days, if they don't get a meet within a couple of hours they are off or am I driving them away lol, I have had 4 this week contact me and do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you playing "hard to get" again Simone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably had arguments at home with their other halves during the holiday period, and decided to be a bit naughty and take their chances and play away etc...

Then their conscience got the better of them when they sober up etc...

Nothing new!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some people got a new lappy for Xmas and wanted to 'see what was out there' - and now Mummy & Daddy have found out what they've been upto and taken it away from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few ladies do the same a few months ago, message, say hi, chat for a while then scoot.... didnt think I was that scary lol

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

It's something i have noticed as well. I assumed they decided we was all ugly and left

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Some have even gone without moaning that I hav'nt read their messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had the same recently....before I get time to reply, they have gone, makes me wonder how they found Fab in first place. I started visiting swingers sites about 2 years ago, never found Fab on Google search, got a pm about it on another site, best message I ever received! but I suppose there has been a lot of publicity about swingers recently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meh, no worries, plenty of genuine gorgeous girls to go round...

all a bit odd though tbh. guess like the earlier post said they got cold feet when reallised its more than flirting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Are you playing "hard to get" again Simone? "

You sussed me out lol

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

to the OP i have had this as well message you and then find out no longer on site, has happened a few times now

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Had a few ladies do the same a few months ago, message, say hi, chat for a while then scoot.... didnt think I was that scary lol"

It's not just you, fella. I've had the very same thing and wondered what the fuck I'd done to scare 'em away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny I've had a few of these this week. only on the site for a matter of minutes i've read the message and the poof gone!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some i think are just after pics, then they just disapear or user no longer on site?? a bit scary...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a few ladies do the same a few months ago, message, say hi, chat for a while then scoot.... didnt think I was that scary lol

It's not just you, fella. I've had the very same thing and wondered what the fuck I'd done to scare 'em away!"

lol thank god it wasn't just me. Didnt even get close enough for me to blame the aftershave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny I've had a few of these this week. only on the site for a matter of minutes i've read the message and the poof gone!!!! "

Freudian slip? hehe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have new users blocked through the filters so don't suffer from this problem!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I have new users blocked through the filters so don't suffer from this problem!"
Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have new users blocked through the filters so don't suffer from this problem!Me too! "

And the old and used too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have new users blocked through the filters so don't suffer from this problem!Me too! "

.

Me three!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I have new users blocked through the filters so don't suffer from this problem!Me too!

And the old and used too... "
They have an old duffers filter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have had the same recently....before I get time to reply, they have gone, makes me wonder how they found Fab in first place. I started visiting swingers sites about 2 years ago, never found Fab on Google search, got a pm about it on another site, best message I ever received! but I suppose there has been a lot of publicity about swingers recently! "

Sydney University put me onto this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't leave. They just discard the recently purpose built profile. i.e they poked you around under another name then dump the profile. They are still here .

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"They don't leave. They just discard the recently purpose built profile. i.e they poked you around under another name then dump the profile. They are still here . "

See 'my pissing contest the other night' with mr blank profile...

...who i won't name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have new users blocked through the filters so don't suffer from this problem!Me too!

And the old and used too... They have an old duffers filter? "

Yeah... But Soapy showed me how to get past it...

{Sorry Soapy, I aint lettin' on it was BB really...}

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I have noticed the trend, think its always been here just more people doing it, my "looked at me "page is full of em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed in the last month that there seems to be a lot of people who are joining Fab, only on site for a brief few hours before leaving again, have people got no patience these days, if they don't get a meet within a couple of hours they are off or am I driving them away lol, I have had 4 this week contact me and do this"

Its the same at the gym the first couple of weeks after New Year!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be that people think it might be easier for a single bloke but once they join and find out the reality on here, they polish off their chat up lines and head to the nearest bar instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be that people think it might be easier for a single bloke but once they join and find out the reality on here, they polish off their chat up lines and head to the nearest bar instead."

I think that's a forum topic in itself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have new users blocked through the filters so don't suffer from this problem!Me too!

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Me three! "

Me four!

I think it's a good idea they delete their timewasting profiles. There are a lot of dreamers and wannabes out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And dont forget its been the school/college/university holidays, i always get an influx of young lads sending me messages at this time, more than throughout the year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have new users blocked through the filters so don't suffer from this problem!Me too!

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Me three!

Me four!

I think it's a good idea they delete their timewasting profiles. There are a lot of dreamers and wannabes out there. "

I'm dreaming of a white christmas tra la de la

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have noticed in the last month that there seems to be a lot of people who are joining Fab, only on site for a brief few hours before leaving again, have people got no patience these days, if they don't get a meet within a couple of hours they are off or am I driving them away lol, I have had 4 this week contact me and do this"

Its not a case of no patience, I would guess a lot come here for a look around.

See if they know anybody on the site, general perv around.But to see that they have to join. They join, look around then never come back.

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