FabSwingers.com forum: It's a truly emotional experience...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well for me it is anyway!

To totally let go and experience the dizzy heights of real sexual pleasure. How is it for you guys?

I enjoy sex (don't we all?). I can have a great time even if I don't reach orgasm. But for me to have a truly pleasurable experience I have to let someone into (what I call) my inner most sanctum, let down my barriers in order to really be able to have the ultimate sexual experience including mind blowing multiple orgasms. This leaves me emotionally wrecked!! This has only happened a few times for me.

Are you able to just 'let go' with anyone or does it have to be with someone special?

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By *eamperveCouple
over a year ago

South West

Morning-

I can only truly let go with my partner.

I'm naturally a control freak and so he has broken those barriers through bdsm and through me trusting him in so many other ways.

I agree with enjoying the sex with others ( a lot) - but the mind blowing sex like what you're describing happens with Mr. Perve

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning-

I can only truly let go with my partner.

I'm naturally a control freak and so he has broken those barriers through bdsm and through me trusting him in so many other ways.

I agree with enjoying the sex with others ( a lot) - but the mind blowing sex like what you're describing happens with Mr. Perve

Morning, thanks for the reply.

I'm also a control freak, mostly in order to protect myself. So letting go like that really takes a lot for me.

So glad you have found some one to be able to do that with. Are you in a relationship with mr perve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there has been loads of times when this happens - as i think a lot will say with someone they know well etc and for me is with W - there is one time i will never forget - just stands out from any other time in my life - just thinking it about it affects me and will stay with me forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex but reaching that moment when you feel yourself gonna pee when in the throes of foreplay, I always push whoever away, so I don't think I ever really get the highest pleasure I can achieve, even with my ex husband who I have known all my life I pushed him away too, I dont know if it's a trust thing or what, it bloody annoying I know that much!! Having said that when actually having sex I do get the most mind blowing orgasams x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No I don't let myself " go" completly all the while but when I do its about just having that wow connection. It can be the first time I meet someone or over a build up of time and yes it is emotional. But I'm good at putting the emotions in the here and now, taking the moment, living it. Then going back to the real world until the next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure if it isthen same letting go, but I've none times when my lover and I have been so connected we've cried as we have cum together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well for me it is anyway!

To totally let go and experience the dizzy heights of real sexual pleasure. How is it for you guys?

Are you able to just 'let go' with anyone or does it have to be with someone special? "

Depends on the person, for me but I do agree it can be emotional x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I've only experienced that with my ex husband.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

I build the same sort of barriers which can only be broken down with a deeper connection and with trust. Once you can truly open up and let yourself go, the sex can be mind blowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only once experienced this with 1 partner. It happened through bdsm. Although I can get this experience when I play alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't let go and I've never orgasmed because of it, am too afraid to let go and I'm now at the stage that its no big deal, 'what you've never had you can't miss', so long as I enjoy sex, what does it matter

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Are you able to just 'let go' with anyone or does it have to be with someone special? "

Oh I can just let rip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex is bonus if you connect on a mutual level. Both fancy each other. One am comfortable with.

No I do not go all out.. But yes enjoy the pleasure.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Both myself and hubby can reach multiple orgasms, and regularly have mind blowing sex lasting for hours together.

But as to wether it leaves me emotionally wrecked ??? No it has never left me feeling emotional, Just wanting more, haha...

So, that is why we started swinging...

xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies. I'm glad it's not just me.

I have experienced this twice, the most recent on Monday and I'm still feeling the emotion of it!! At the time I wanted to cry but had to hold back as I didn't want to ruin things between us.

It's a massive thing for me to be able to let go that much, something I'm not sure he fully understands

. I tried to explain it after but not sure if he really understood!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Thanks for the replies. I'm glad it's not just me.

I have experienced this twice, the most recent on Monday and I'm still feeling the emotion of it!! At the time I wanted to cry but had to hold back as I didn't want to ruin things between us.

It's a massive thing for me to be able to let go that much, something I'm not sure he fully understands

. I tried to explain it after but not sure if he really understood!

I often let go and sometimes cry, and no-one has ever minded. It's wonderful if you can both let go emotionally and physically at the same time, that's my very favourite.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Thanks for the replies. I'm glad it's not just me.

I have experienced this twice, the most recent on Monday and I'm still feeling the emotion of it!! At the time I wanted to cry but had to hold back as I didn't want to ruin things between us.

It's a massive thing for me to be able to let go that much, something I'm not sure he fully understands

. I tried to explain it after but not sure if he really understood!

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raw emotions are powerful things, sometimes when we hear bad news we act inappropriately.

My default after orgasm is to giggle, I often just burst in to fits of laughter, but I have also been known to cry.

You shouldn't need to hold any of it back I don't think I could hold back my natural reactions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the replies. I'm glad it's not just me.

I have experienced this twice, the most recent on Monday and I'm still feeling the emotion of it!! At the time I wanted to cry but had to hold back as I didn't want to ruin things between us.

It's a massive thing for me to be able to let go that much, something I'm not sure he fully understands

. I tried to explain it after but not sure if he really understood!

raw emotions are powerful things, sometimes when we hear bad news we act inappropriately.

My default after orgasm is to giggle, I often just burst in to fits of laughter, but I have also been known to cry.

You shouldn't need to hold any of it back I don't think I could hold back my natural reactions.

I think I do it because I fear my reaction and his reaction to me. I so wanted to tell him I loved him at that point (even though I don't) I just feel that much emotion and not sure how to express it! That would defo have messed things up between us

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By *eamperveCouple
over a year ago

South West

"Morning-

I can only truly let go with my partner.

I'm naturally a control freak and so he has broken those barriers through bdsm and through me trusting him in so many other ways.

I agree with enjoying the sex with others ( a lot) - but the mind blowing sex like what you're describing happens with Mr. Perve

Morning, thanks for the reply.

I'm also a control freak, mostly in order to protect myself. So letting go like that really takes a lot for me.

So glad you have found some one to be able to do that with. Are you in a relationship with mr perve? "

Yes- we get married next year and our anniversary is today! Whoop whoop

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Morning-

I can only truly let go with my partner.

I'm naturally a control freak and so he has broken those barriers through bdsm and through me trusting him in so many other ways.

I agree with enjoying the sex with others ( a lot) - but the mind blowing sex like what you're describing happens with Mr. Perve

Morning, thanks for the reply.

I'm also a control freak, mostly in order to protect myself. So letting go like that really takes a lot for me.

So glad you have found some one to be able to do that with. Are you in a relationship with mr perve?

Yes- we get married next year and our anniversary is today! Whoop whoop

Aww congratulations, that's lovely news.

Get the hats out fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I will ever trust anyone enough to let all my walls down in order to truly let go like that. A fact that even as I type it upsets me as I wish I could.

The moment I think I know someone well enough to start to trust them they always go and prove I shouldn't.... Oh well lol.

A good hard fuck from time to time is enough to blow the cobwebs away and remind me I'm still a sexual woman... I can live with that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Thanks for the replies. I'm glad it's not just me.

I have experienced this twice, the most recent on Monday and I'm still feeling the emotion of it!! At the time I wanted to cry but had to hold back as I didn't want to ruin things between us.

It's a massive thing for me to be able to let go that much, something I'm not sure he fully understands

. I tried to explain it after but not sure if he really understood!

raw emotions are powerful things, sometimes when we hear bad news we act inappropriately.

My default after orgasm is to giggle, I often just burst in to fits of laughter, but I have also been known to cry.

You shouldn't need to hold any of it back I don't think I could hold back my natural reactions.

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the reason I'm so interested is because I had the exact conversation with someone last night.

For me its understanding the here and now, this is the emotional release I'm feeling which is the end product of our time we have just spent together

You should both be content that you've been able to get to that point and I'm sure he does understand but we can't always explain things properly.

Oh and I did tell someone I loved them once and I felt a right twat but he knew and understood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for this thread op. I for reasons that are my own struggle with intimacy and yet with Mr I can let him in and its something that is so different from the sex high.

And I don't mean because of feelings its because I can let go totally. Lose myself to the moment. Abandon myself to every pleasure... And yes it can leave me exhausted..

I can't share this with just anyone .. it's took me a lifetime to find my sexual ying to my yang. And while we May not always have time to have a earth stopping moment... It's always a step above ....

I however at times wish I could give myself more to people when I know I'm safe... But that inner sanctum just isn't for everyone x

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Well for me it is anyway!

To totally let go and experience the dizzy heights of real sexual pleasure. How is it for you guys?

Are you able to just 'let go' with anyone or does it have to be with someone special? "

I certainly would not let go with anybody

However anybody could be someone special, ie a first encounter could happen to be with a very special person xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you for this thread op. I for reasons that are my own struggle with intimacy and yet with Mr I can let him in and its something that is so different from the sex high.

And I don't mean because of feelings its because I can let go totally. Lose myself to the moment. Abandon myself to every pleasure... And yes it can leave me exhausted..

I however at times wish I could give myself more to people when I know I'm safe... But that inner sanctum just isn't for everyone x "

I am so glad that it posted this and have had some really positive feed back, thanks.

I thought long and hard about posting this thread as there is so much on this site about NSA, no feelings, just fucking and moving on. That's perfectly fine and I have no problem what so ever with people using this site for their own needs. For me, I don't want a full on relationship with all the crap involved, I did that for more years than I care to mention, but and it's a big but, I am a human being. I have wants and needs. I am a sensitive soul (sometimes) and I need friendship and intimacy with another human.

I have hang ups like most people surrounding intimacy and allowing anyone close enough to see the real me and let myself go and feel the sexual pleasure and complete satisfaction that I now know I can.

I hope I've chosen wisely this time??

Thanks for sharing your experiences with me, it's been good to know not everyone on here is cold to emotion!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well for me it is anyway!

To totally let go and experience the dizzy heights of real sexual pleasure. How is it for you guys?

Are you able to just 'let go' with anyone or does it have to be with someone special? "

To truly get to that point it's all about trust so it isn't something that's ever going to happen without a strong bond. When it does it can be very emotional for me. For that reason, it's good to be safe in the knowledge the person will just hold me tight after and let me come back down to earth so to speak.

It's incredible when it happens for us both I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't truly let go until Iv developed a close bond .... But when it happens omg it's totally amazing & leaves me in a total daze .... Mind & Body Delights !

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