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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww keep looking and be fussy take your time .

Your gorgeous

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's like waiting for a bus......give it time and I'm sure 3 will come at once x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park "

how common. Fancy a 3sum outside Waitrose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you can't see the woods for the trees

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Well i don't find that. There's plenty of nice decent guys on here, you just got to sort the wheat from the chaff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot depends on how you come across and interact with people as well as who you choose to interact with. I've never found anyone that I've chatted to that just wanted a quickie in Aldi car park.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park

how common. Fancy a 3sum outside Waitrose?

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Make it M&S and you're on haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think a lot depends on how you come across and interact with people as well as who you choose to interact with. I've never found anyone that I've chatted to that just wanted a quickie in Aldi car park.

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Yes, but I am from Liverpool after all haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot depends on how you come across and interact with people as well as who you choose to interact with. I've never found anyone that I've chatted to that just wanted a quickie in Aldi car park.

Yes, but I am from Liverpool after all haha"

I'm cabin crew I can always fly up lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sometimes I think I'm on a different site to everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been looking for years and still looking but not as much anymore lol

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

I agree it is hard to find a regular fb on here. Its just being patient and chatting to the nice people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park "

Free Sunday? I quite fancy seeing the Martian. Also Liverpool is the easiest place to get to from my town (buckley ) but I've never really been lol could do with a guide ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aldi? Pfft, they should at least offer to take you to 'Poundland'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I think I'm on a different site to everyone else."

Me too lovely x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

What put me off several women was their outwardness for buddy relationships.

My buddy relationships developed over time. It was a case of meet, leave it for a few weeks, message again and meet up - some women or couples only wanted it as a one night affair.

The women / couples that I met on a regular basis became fiends due to time. and then more regular daily meets and trust was built up as a result.

I was put off women wanting immediate buddy relationships (as attractive as they were) simply because I had just met them and straight after sex they were inviting me to clubs or nights out with mates - or phoning me up to pick them up. Buddies are built on time and trust as neither one of you knows the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park

Free Sunday? I quite fancy seeing the Martian. Also Liverpool is the easiest place to get to from my town (buckley ) but I've never really been lol could do with a guide ^_^"

And that ladies and gentlemen is how its done. Ask and ye shall receive!!

Now I'm after a million pounds...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I think I'm on a different site to everyone else."

In terms of...?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Sometimes I think I'm on a different site to everyone else.

In terms of...?"
never in my entire time on here has anyone asked me for a "quickie in a carpark" in don't get the abuse that some women get, I don't seem to get the same messages as everyone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What put me off several women was their outwardness for buddy relationships.

My buddy relationships developed over time. It was a case of meet, leave it for a few weeks, message again and meet up - some women or couples only wanted it as a one night affair.

The women / couples that I met on a regular basis became fiends due to time. and then more regular daily meets and trust was built up as a result.

I was put off women wanting immediate buddy relationships (as attractive as they were) simply because I had just met them and straight after sex they were inviting me to clubs or nights out with mates - or phoning me up to pick them up. Buddies are built on time and trust as neither one of you knows the other. "

Yeah, never really thought of it like that - you could be right x

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park "

My wife said I reminded her of a supermarket,.. I said "is that because I've everything you want and need??"... She said "no! It's because you're lidl..!)

Ladies of Leeds I'm looking as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I think I'm on a different site to everyone else.

In terms of...?never in my entire time on here has anyone asked me for a "quickie in a carpark" in don't get the abuse that some women get, I don't seem to get the same messages as everyone else"

I'd be more than honoured to take you up the ASDA...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What put me off several women was their outwardness for buddy relationships.

My buddy relationships developed over time. It was a case of meet, leave it for a few weeks, message again and meet up - some women or couples only wanted it as a one night affair.

The women / couples that I met on a regular basis became fiends due to time. and then more regular daily meets and trust was built up as a result.

I was put off women wanting immediate buddy relationships (as attractive as they were) simply because I had just met them and straight after sex they were inviting me to clubs or nights out with mates - or phoning me up to pick them up. Buddies are built on time and trust as neither one of you knows the other. "

My fuck buddy relationships are completely different from what a lot describe on the forum. I can go months without talking to mine. We aren't answerable to each other we just have awesome sex now and then without the need to be part of each others lives. Many seem to want so much more. That doesn't sit well with me and the fuck buddy relationship.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Sometimes I think I'm on a different site to everyone else.

In terms of...?never in my entire time on here has anyone asked me for a "quickie in a carpark" in don't get the abuse that some women get, I don't seem to get the same messages as everyone else

I'd be more than honoured to take you up the ASDA... "
can i wear a space suit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it difficult to find someone who wants regular fun let alone anything else

I would be fine with trying different clubs to my regular one in stanley with my Fwb but I need to find him first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I think I'm on a different site to everyone else.

In terms of...?never in my entire time on here has anyone asked me for a "quickie in a carpark" in don't get the abuse that some women get, I don't seem to get the same messages as everyone else

I'd be more than honoured to take you up the ASDA... can i wear a space suit? "

Are you a saying there would be no atmosphere between us?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest I've never called anyone a fuck buddy even the one I've known nine years.

I refer to!them as gentlemen friends, they are friends that I have sex with, some more than others

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Sometimes I think I'm on a different site to everyone else.

In terms of...?never in my entire time on here has anyone asked me for a "quickie in a carpark" in don't get the abuse that some women get, I don't seem to get the same messages as everyone else

I'd be more than honoured to take you up the ASDA... can i wear a space suit?

Are you a saying there would be no atmosphere between us? "
* groans* if your like this now for help!me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to call them FwB's.

Or is that not what the cool kids are calling them these days?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park "

Haha tho aldi is a great place to get some meat - can also get two veg to go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes I think I'm on a different site to everyone else.

In terms of...?never in my entire time on here has anyone asked me for a "quickie in a carpark" in don't get the abuse that some women get, I don't seem to get the same messages as everyone else

I'd be more than honoured to take you up the ASDA... can i wear a space suit?

Are you a saying there would be no atmosphere between us? * groans* if your like this now for help!me "

No I'm better / worse* in person

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*Delete as applicable

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


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My fuck buddy relationships are completely different from what a lot describe on the forum. I can go months without talking to mine. We aren't answerable to each other we just have awesome sex now and then without the need to be part of each others lives. Many seem to want so much more. That doesn't sit well with me and the fuck buddy relationship. "

Thats what I have, each have their lives. You seem to be keeping at arms length which is your choice and probably a wise decision for you. With me, we are both cool - there are no hang ups or agendas, we still do our own thing but there is just a mutual respect and stupid sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm struggling to find a regular fuck buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park "

Fancy a drink sometime?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park "

I know the feeling all the offers I've had are miles away.. Where are all the locals looking for a FuckBuddy ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it difficult to find someone who wants regular fun let alone anything else

I would be fine with trying different clubs to my regular one in stanley with my Fwb but I need to find him first "

I agree. Would be nice to find someone likeminded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddy here lol

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

You are hot so give it time. Happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say both mine came óot of the blue the bestie I've known going on over 3 yrs and I'd never refer to him as a fuck buddy as for me he's one of my best friends first N foremost who happens to be an amazing lover and then there's my new friend with benefits hoping for lots of debauchery N boundaries broken together.All I can say for me I didn't go looking for them but I do say on my profile I like reg meets so I guess these two actually read a profile.

There are some lovely guys óot there you just have to step over a few to find them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now let's see the direction the conversation goes next time a man poses a similar question

It's a social experiment, I'm sure, and this is the 'control' group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a question of what you're after. The various distinctions that people are making fall into different categories to me.

1; the fb, the person you meet occasionally because the sex is good

2; the fwb, someone whom you enjoy meeting socially, have a bond with and alongside that good sex too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park "

Dont know why you would struggle on here to find a regular fb, guess its just the lack of genuine guys, to which I am one. Pack your bags and move to Ipswich lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling!! Been on here for ages and not found anyone.

I'm not into wambam thankyou ma'am.

Its more about getting to know the person and experience.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

finding a fuck buddy is much the same as finding a new partner, it has to build over time, I'm pretty sure if I met someone and then instantly thought I was going going to be his FB he would probably run a mile in her opposite direction, you meet a few times, you see how you gel together, then you just go with the flow. No relationship, regardless of what label is attached to it is instant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi all well I've been a f b for years to a very nice lady but after 7 yrs she has finally settled down with a new man living with him so I'm redundant any offers still lots of milage left lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the feeling!! Been on here for ages and not found anyone.

I'm not into wambam thankyou ma'am.

Its more about getting to know the person and experience.x "

I'll just carry on waiting...there has to be someone.

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By *sagent81Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park "

finding a regular fb is the dream. Who are these guys that don't want regular fun?? Nutters that's who.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it's harmless it's fun and nobody gets hurt just don't get caught if the other person's married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it so hard to find a regular fuck bud, been on here for ages and it's just loads of blokes wanting a quickie in the Aldi car park "

Just emailed you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking for a fb as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex problem is now sorted (ish) so I can get back on the bike again. Trouble is, its been that long and im getting picky . I miss cuddles and sex but dont really want an endless list of quick fucks - im worth better than that. Any suggestions other than just bite the bullet as twere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want a fuck buddy off here you'll most likely have competition.

You won't be scraping the dregs let's be honest. The guys you want are guys with options.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I suspect the OP has more chance of finding s fb amongst her existing circle of friends than on Fab.

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