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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

why does my hubby get annoyed whenever he does anything in our house? he gets so nasty when things go wrong and its always my fault despite me not saying nowt why don't men read insstructions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your probably best off asking him

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Because he can!

Sorry that's no help sounds like my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why does my hubby get annoyed whenever he does anything in our house? he gets so nasty when things go wrong and its always my fault despite me not saying nowt why don't men read insstructions?"

My ex husband was and still is the same, blamed me for everything even though I didn't go anywhere near his stuff, anything goes missing it must have been me!! Not that he is ultra forgetful or anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it is flat pack stuff, send him to the pub, and I'll come and help ya. I'm rather good at that for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid life thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frustration at his own ineptitude.

Men dont like asking for help or appearing not to know how to do things sometimes.

Conforming to the male stereotype of know it all handyman. Pressure!

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston

No excuse but is it things you ask or suggest he should do?

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Mid life thing?"

well past that!!! lol

its a new set top box for telly and he cant get channels

he did my mums kitchen light on sunday she ended up having to get an electrician as she ended up with no lights

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"No excuse but is it things you ask or suggest he should do?"

I keep out of it as much as I can I dread him doing stuff in the house

I know im useless at stuff like it so cant talk but....

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"No excuse but is it things you ask or suggest he should do?

I keep out of it as much as I can I dread him doing stuff in the house

I know im useless at stuff like it so cant talk but...."

Was going to say has he tuned the set top box in, or switched the telly to the correct AV? But if you don't get involved best not to say anything.

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

weston


"No excuse but is it things you ask or suggest he should do?

I keep out of it as much as I can I dread him doing stuff in the house

I know im useless at stuff like it so cant talk but...."
sounds a bit like some people do, maybe even you without realising it. If he is inept concerning diy maybe it would be better not to mention it infront of him until it's done.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I have not said a word to him about not being able to fix it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not said a word to him about not being able to fix it "

He'll be frustrated at his own limitations and take out his grumpiness on you. I empathise, but at least he's having a go at something he may not like doing, but does it because you can't afford someone in to do it maybe?

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I have not said a word to him about not being able to fix it

He'll be frustrated at his own limitations and take out his grumpiness on you. I empathise, but at least he's having a go at something he may not like doing, but does it because you can't afford someone in to do it maybe?"

I think you are right but DIY has never been his thing he does try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My partner gets so grumpy we now have an agreement to hire in a odd job man to do the DIY.

It took me five weeks of asking him to put up three screws to hang pictures on as I'm banned from using the drill!

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

im gonna have to call em and see if they can fix it cos I have nothing working now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a system in our house. I read the instructions and tell him what to do. Although I did most of the flat pack assembly including bunk beds. Kids Christmas presents were his department.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mid life thing?

well past that!!! lol

its a new set top box for telly and he cant get channels

he did my mums kitchen light on sunday she ended up having to get an electrician as she ended up with no lights "

Only a qualified electrician should touch electrics. I did all the technology set ups,I have more patience than my ex and a bit more know how.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"Mid life thing?

well past that!!! lol

its a new set top box for telly and he cant get channels

he did my mums kitchen light on sunday she ended up having to get an electrician as she ended up with no lights

Only a qualified electrician should touch electrics. I did all the technology set ups,I have more patience than my ex and a bit more know how. "

the electrician said hubby was lucky as the wires were live when he did them

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

He's passing his discomfort with himself on to you. It's a narrow individual who can't accept their own emotional unbalance and personal limitations. The fact he's doing it to you Ruby says a couple of things - he's not respecting boundaries and potentially your intimacy level opens him up to doing this with you.

I'd have some clear words together. And agree a response to him, should he do it again. Do you have nutcrackers at home, in time for seasonal crunching?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard for guys getting older, my dad is in his 60's now & he hates having to ask me to do the stuff that he can't do anymore but could just 3 or 4 years ago. Men are used to being strong & independent but age slowly starts to take it all away.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

If its a standard set top box it has a live aerial in, a port for out (scart/Hd lead) & a power supply.

If he's trying to hook up to sky/Virgin then it could be a communication issue.

I've always just done pretty much everything around the house but I hate doing doors, hinges and that dreaded hand planer are my nemeses

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

update

I phoned them and he hadn't got them to activate it!!!!!! lol simple solution and all working now thanks everyone

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