FabSwingers.com forum: Club buddy.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honestly, what are my chances to find a beautiful woman willing to attend clubs with me on a regular basis?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

my maths aren't that strong.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Low.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how many willing women match up to your definition of beautiful I suppose ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't hold your breathe.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Honestly, what are my chances to find a beautiful woman willing to attend clubs with me on a regular basis?"

1 in 467?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roughly the same as they were before you joined this site.

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By *allyandJonCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Why wait get to a club anyway plenty of welcoming ladies seeking a young gent like yourself.

go for it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why wait get to a club anyway plenty of welcoming ladies seeking a young gent like yourself."

This is true. I won't go as a couple to a club as I prefer to play with who I want to play with.

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

"Honestly, what are my chances to find a beautiful woman willing to attend clubs with me on a regular basis?"

Somewhere between nil and zero I would estimate!

Most of the ladies who go to clubs are not interested in going with a single guy, they prefer to go solo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A great deal of guys are looking for the same thing for a variety of reasons. Usually because they either don't have the balls to go on their own, or because they think it will give them an 'in' with another couple. Either way put on your big boy pants and get yourself down to your local club

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know my chances are incredibly minimal, but... Not only would I feel far more comfortable going with someone else, it's also incredibly cheaper. As being a student is hardly the most financially rewarding occupation. When I've been to clubs before there's been a decent level of interest in me. I've done rather well without meaning to convey arrogance. But, going on my own is not only socially awkward. But it is also expensive.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I know my chances are incredibly minimal, but... Not only would I feel far more comfortable going with someone else, it's also incredibly cheaper. As being a student is hardly the most financially rewarding occupation. When I've been to clubs before there's been a decent level of interest in me. I've done rather well without meaning to convey arrogance. But, going on my own is not only socially awkward. But it is also expensive. "
and that is why women won't go with guys, their not a free meal ticket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to kage at partners last Sunday of the month, big group of people meet up in the arndale before heading up together on the tram.

£10 entry for anyone.

Go a few times chat to people and find a regular buddy in the club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know my chances are incredibly minimal, but... Not only would I feel far more comfortable going with someone else, it's also incredibly cheaper. As being a student is hardly the most financially rewarding occupation. When I've been to clubs before there's been a decent level of interest in me. I've done rather well without meaning to convey arrogance. But, going on my own is not only socially awkward. But it is also expensive. and that is why women won't go with guys, their not a free meal ticket

But it's not free.

Heck as a guy paying for both of you is cheaper than going alone. So the woman can get tin cheaper too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - you don't mention why you want a beautiful woman, rather than any woman.

Why not have a female fb generally and clubs could be part of your enjoyment together?

A lot of single guys want females to go to clubs with them as it can save him a lot of money. If a woman thinks she's being used for one-way benefits, she'll likely not bother. Ask yourself what you're really offering her.

Why not just make friends and go with anyone from a wider spectrum of people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a single guy, making friends with a woman on fab is far harder than people would believe. I want a woman who I'm attracted to, so I can make them feel like they're not a 'free meal ticket'. I'm not that guy who intends to use a girl for the purposes of getting in clubs for cheaper but admittedly it is a benefit. The truth is, I want someone to go with not only for financial purposes (as that is a factor) but for social purposes. And I would very much like this person to be someone whom I am attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy, making friends with a woman on fab is far harder than people would believe. "

Is really not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my maths aren't that strong. "

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

"As a single guy, making friends with a woman on fab is far harder than people would believe. I want a woman who I'm attracted to, so I can make them feel like they're not a 'free meal ticket'. I'm not that guy who intends to use a girl for the purposes of getting in clubs for cheaper but admittedly it is a benefit. The truth is, I want someone to go with not only for financial purposes (as that is a factor) but for social purposes. And I would very much like this person to be someone whom I am attracted to. "

Did you not already state earlier in the thread that finances was the main reason?

Ladies use fab and clubs for their own enjoyment, we are not here purely to get you laid for less! If it truly is a social crutch you're looking for then why not ask to meet guys too? Nope, won't get you in cheap that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand where you're coming from OP so I wish you good luck.

Watch the forums for socials, you may find a woman there.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

The "woe is me" is strong in this one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honestly, what are my chances to find a beautiful woman willing to attend clubs with me on a regular basis?

Somewhere between nil and zero I would estimate!

Most of the ladies who go to clubs are not interested in going with a single guy, they prefer to go solo"
That is correct.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I know my chances are incredibly minimal, but... Not only would I feel far more comfortable going with someone else, it's also incredibly cheaper. As being a student is hardly the most financially rewarding occupation. When I've been to clubs before there's been a decent level of interest in me. I've done rather well without meaning to convey arrogance. But, going on my own is not only socially awkward. But it is also expensive. and that is why women won't go with guys, their not a free meal ticket

But it's not free.

Heck as a guy paying for both of you is cheaper than going alone. So the woman can get tin cheaper too"
how do you work that out when clubs are either free or just a few pound for women

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I know my chances are incredibly minimal, but... Not only would I feel far more comfortable going with someone else, it's also incredibly cheaper. As being a student is hardly the most financially rewarding occupation. When I've been to clubs before there's been a decent level of interest in me. I've done rather well without meaning to convey arrogance. But, going on my own is not only socially awkward. But it is also expensive. and that is why women won't go with guys, their not a free meal ticket

But it's not free.

Heck as a guy paying for both of you is cheaper than going alone. So the woman can get tin cheaper too"

But what if we don't want someone to pay for us? That way lies feelings of obligation...

If I go alone all my choices are mine completely and I don't feel any obligation to compromise or to feel bad about not compromising.

I have no interest in couples so get irked when I get asked to go to a club with someone who only wants to go on couples night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going to ask, when you've got in to a club with the woman you are taking, so it's cheaper (which I can understand) do you intend on ditching her for the night? Will you play together?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I understand where you're coming from OP so I wish you good luck.

Watch the forums for socials, you may find a woman there."

Not to condone the OPs insistence that he 'needs' a woman to be successful at clubs but this is the best advice. You are very unlikely to get an attractive and desirable woman just drop in your lap 'cold' off Fab. But attend some socials, get known within your local scene, and your success rate with improve amazingly.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Answers to all. It's not an easy task, it's not a meal ticket, I want someone that I'm attracted to, I never said need. So many people have taken offence to me asking what my chances are of essentially finding what I'm looking for. Some of you are so snipey. Those whom have had genuine input and not just been bitchy. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Answers to all. It's not an easy task, it's not a meal ticket, I want someone that I'm attracted to, I never said need. So many people have taken offence to me asking what my chances are of essentially finding what I'm looking for. Some of you are so snipey. Those whom have had genuine input and not just been bitchy. Thank you."

good luck in the search fella! I hope you find what you're looking for - but of course the beautiful women will have the pick of the site so you need to stand out over and above all the other suitors they will have for them to choose you, and be as attracted to you as you are to them. But not impossible.

So to answer your question - I think the chances as slim BUT there is still a chance and who knows someone could be reading the thread right now who is looking for someone to accompany them to clubs nearby and it could be the perfect match!

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