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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? " Raging horn? | |||
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" And the answer to your question? Because I'm attracted to them and want a fuck!" This! I tend to work on time, not distance. 50 miles on the motorway can be as quick as 20 miles but on local roads | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? " Haha I've driven further just for a quick snog. Worth it for the right person! | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? " good buddies? ![]() | |||
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"I don't meet anyone even local "just to get laid". I'd travel to meet certain people on here if it felt right. " It does help if I can get my employer to send me places. So far Bristol has not been possible... | |||
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"I don't meet anyone even local "just to get laid". I'd travel to meet certain people on here if it felt right. It does help if I can get my employer to send me places. So far Bristol has not been possible... " I doubt I'll find anyone off Fab in the places I go to work ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? " Attractive partners. What makes you so incredulous? | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? " The right woman. | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? Haha I've driven further just for a quick snog. Worth it for the right person!" So have I and I'm completely unashamed by it. | |||
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"I have plans to travel in the new year heading south there are quiet a few people im looking forward to meeting ![]() Quite a few up north I'm looking forward to meeting!! Lol | |||
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"Ive travelled much more than 50 miles for a meet on plenty of occasions. But the meet was coupled with a friends birthday party on one occasion, my birthday party on another, forum social a few times, the sex was just the icing on the cake of a weekend of laughs, banter, dancing and seeing friends. Would I travel 50 miles or more for a 1-1 meet? Yes I would, and people have for me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have plans to travel in the new year heading south there are quiet a few people im looking forward to meeting ![]() let me no when you find them ![]() | |||
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"Dunno, you'd have to ask the people I lure away from their home towns to meet me ![]() I don't need to ask lol | |||
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"My second ever meet drove over 100 miles to come see me ![]() ha ha that's some driving ![]() | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? " Because its not simply getting laid... | |||
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"My second ever meet drove over 100 miles to come see me ![]() ![]() Yeah it was sad we lost touch he is a funny guy ![]() | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? The right woman. " Or man. | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? Raging horn?" You called ![]() | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? The right woman. " ![]() | |||
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"The fact the majority within 5miles have their heads stuck in their asses ![]() Checks distance ![]() | |||
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"I find the pre meet routine quite a pleasant experience - it's an excuse to make myself feel extra sexy and a chance to see sheep that baa with a different accent to the ones I'm accustomed to... There's the part where you meet someone yummy who welcomes you into their world ..... Who wouldn't want that...? " I agree ![]() | |||
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"The fact the majority within 5miles have their heads stuck in their asses ![]() You're supposed to be all cosmopolitan and open-minded in London! | |||
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"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey!" I don't do socials since I like to travel and it's a logistical nightmare. Hence why I don't meet someone until I'm sure I want to. So far, so very good. Plus I've liked everyone I've met so if the worst came to the worst and they didn't fancy me in person then I wouldn't consider it a wasted trip. ![]() | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? Because its not simply getting laid..." That's true for me too! But has anyone noticed that most of the respondents are singles? I think there's a difference in the way couples and (some) singles view meets! For couples it's generally just sex - the icing on an already marvellous cake! Hopefully they meet each other's needs in every other way!! For singles (and I'm speaking for myself here) it can be different! We don't just miss out on sex - we miss out on the intimacy/dating experience/friendship etc that comes with a good relationship! Though I don't currently want a relationship - a good meet is my 'relationship fix' - great sex with affection and intimacy thrown in - but without any of the aggro that comes afterwards in the vanilla world (ie 50 messages a day asking 'what u up 2?') For a meet like this I'll happily travel over 50 miles op! I can quite understand why most couples don't though - if I ever find my ideal guy I doubt I'd travel far for the icing either! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? Because its not simply getting laid... That's true for me too! But has anyone noticed that most of the respondents are singles? I think there's a difference in the way couples and (some) singles view meets! For couples it's generally just sex - the icing on an already marvellous cake! Hopefully they meet each other's needs in every other way!! For singles (and I'm speaking for myself here) it can be different! We don't just miss out on sex - we miss out on the intimacy/dating experience/friendship etc that comes with a good relationship! Though I don't currently want a relationship - a good meet is my 'relationship fix' - great sex with affection and intimacy thrown in - but without any of the aggro that comes afterwards in the vanilla world (ie 50 messages a day asking 'what u up 2?') For a meet like this I'll happily travel over 50 miles op! I can quite understand why most couples don't though - if I ever find my ideal guy I doubt I'd travel far for the icing either! ![]() ![]() I couldnt agree more with you ![]() | |||
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"My second ever meet drove over 100 miles to come see me ![]() ![]() ![]() Aww that's a shame , its sad when you loose touch with a pal xx | |||
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"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey!" Really? Just because someone has travelled further shouldn't make a shag more mandatory - surely it's all down to connection 'in person'? | |||
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"What makes anyone drive 50+ miles just to get laid?? " A fantastic time at the other end? | |||
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"I travelled to the other end of Kent to have a coffee with a sexy young forumite, admittedly we were intending to have more than coffee but traffic scuppered that plan!! Distance isn't a problem for the right people ![]() ![]() Hey!! I remember it well.. ![]() | |||
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"Ive travelled much more than 50 miles for a meet on plenty of occasions. But the meet was coupled with a friends birthday party on one occasion, my birthday party on another, forum social a few times, the sex was just the icing on the cake of a weekend of laughs, banter, dancing and seeing friends. Would I travel 50 miles or more for a 1-1 meet? Yes I would, and people have for me ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I would drive upto 100 miles if it was worth it" What he said ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Dunno, you'd have to ask the people I lure away from their home towns to meet me ![]() I would travel miles to meet you | |||
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"Is the clue in the question? ![]() ![]() Yep! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey! Really? Just because someone has travelled further shouldn't make a shag more mandatory - surely it's all down to connection 'in person'? " Just to be clear on this in case of doubt, if going miles and miles, I really have to click with the person before hand before making the trip, obviously I could get there and there isn't the same click we have built up over time but that's why I only meet forumites now, so we can get a good idea of each other etc, if we didn't click in person despite clicking before hand (lots of clicking going on!) I wouldn't force myself to have a shag. Hope that clears up any doubt ![]() | |||
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"I've driven 100+ miles before, and two meets have driven the same to come to me. It was absolutely worth it each time and actually adds to the sense of adventure." And the wait while driving adds to the excitement ![]() | |||
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"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey! Really? Just because someone has travelled further shouldn't make a shag more mandatory - surely it's all down to connection 'in person'? Just to be clear on this in case of doubt, if going miles and miles, I really have to click with the person before hand before making the trip, obviously I could get there and there isn't the same click we have built up over time but that's why I only meet forumites now, so we can get a good idea of each other etc, if we didn't click in person despite clicking before hand (lots of clicking going on!) I wouldn't force myself to have a shag. Hope that clears up any doubt ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Of course with the distance thing (eg, going up north) the whole 'going on a social first' kind of goes out the window, so I would really have to be sure before making that journey! Really? Just because someone has travelled further shouldn't make a shag more mandatory - surely it's all down to connection 'in person'? " Totally... Quality not quantity!! ![]() | |||
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"Hehe he.. Oh I had great sex 2010 he drove 200 miles new years eve.. Beat that lol. Yes sex was out of this world... " A girl drove 290 miles on Christmas Eve ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Travelled more than that just to have lunch with someone I really wanted to meet. It's only an hour in a car - what's the issue?" I've had someone drive 180 for coffee, another 160 for lunch, but his daughter lived nearby so it wasn't just for me, but I wouldn't travel far now or want someone to travel that far to me. | |||
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"Well there's this *one* lass on here that I would walk 500 miles And I would walk 500 more Just to be the man who walked a thousand miles To fall down at her door ![]() Altogether now!! ![]() | |||
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"From the messages we get - mainly single guys - they literally just want to get laid, and they will travel..... We just tell them you're a bit far away for us.... We're not exactly special, we haven't even rewritten our profile.... They can't be interested in us for any other reason than to get thier wellies wet.... " But isn't this a 'no strings' sex site? Isn't them wanting to have sex with you kind of the point? ![]() | |||
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"From the messages we get - mainly single guys - they literally just want to get laid, and they will travel..... We just tell them you're a bit far away for us.... We're not exactly special, we haven't even rewritten our profile.... They can't be interested in us for any other reason than to get thier wellies wet.... But isn't this a 'no strings' sex site? Isn't them wanting to have sex with you kind of the point? ![]() Stop it! Stop using logical reasoning to augment your argument! | |||
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"I'll be driving 50 miles to see my next meet. It's nothing. He's flying in to meet me. " I'm sure you're worth it ![]() | |||
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