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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you filter your friend requests ?

People you like /people you want to meet/etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them all

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We don't accept them until after we have met them, if they wish to see face pics we send them

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By *.Man1510Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Usually accept after a few msgs if we intend to meet or have met.

Had one recently, after one brief message saying...'but are you not accepting my request..why ? '

Found this quite rude so used our good old friend the block button !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I invite people I chat to often. If they don't accept that's fine but I don't see the harm in it.

Just like I don't see the harm in winks... But some people don't half get their knickers in a twist on that one

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By *.Man1510Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey. "

This.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I have to have chatted to them for a while and actually like them. There has to be some sort of connection. Then usually mutually we'll talk about friend invites.

Cheekily, I do get friends requests without having had any conversation at all. They generally don't accepted unless I fancy a peek in their private gallery that is!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey. "

Unless of course they've got an bum pic like Pat's. I'd probably accept his request on sight haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

place them in your hotlist x easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually accept after a few msgs if we intend to meet or have met.

Had one recently, after one brief message saying...'but are you not accepting my request..why ? '

Found this quite rude so used our good old friend the block button !"

I love the block button. My list grows longer by the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey. "

We don't mind people sending us one to perv our pics, but we don't accept them unless they ask first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to have chatted to them for a while and actually like them. There has to be some sort of connection. Then usually mutually we'll talk about friend invites.

Cheekily, I do get friends requests without having had any conversation at all. They generally don't accepted unless I fancy a peek in their private gallery that is!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have random friends requests... I see it as only those I know, or really am thinking of meeting as being suitable for Friends list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey.

Unless of course they've got an bum pic like Pat's. I'd probably accept his request on sight haha!! "
Did you send a friend request to me ? a cant remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never bleeping had one!! ???????? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i add people i wanna meet or be friends with. made the mistake of adding everybody to my other account, not doing that again. if people wanna stalk my pics then they can hotlist me and don't need to be friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never accept a random request, only those I've spoken to

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Random = no. Too far = no. No pics = no. No accom = usually a no. Unverified for 6 months with tits everywhere = no. Single man with shaved legs in a thong = no. Soft swingers = no. High demanders = no.

For the most my meets have been set up without friend invites. They see my face before the meet and I become friends with them after.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey.

Unless of course they've got an bum pic like Pat's. I'd probably accept his request on sight haha!! Did you send a friend request to me ? a cant remember "

No idea it was so long ago lol, but I normally only ever send them if it comes up in conversation and someone says 'Can we be friends please?'. Aww, sounds like the playground doesn't it.....'Will you be my friend?'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey.

Unless of course they've got an bum pic like Pat's. I'd probably accept his request on sight haha!! Did you send a friend request to me ? a cant remember

No idea it was so long ago lol, but I normally only ever send them if it comes up in conversation and someone says 'Can we be friends please?'. Aww, sounds like the playground doesn't it.....'Will you be my friend?' "
A will show you mine if you show me yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only those I have met or intend to meet (or fancy the pants off... ever the optimist!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't filter them at all, just ignore them, unless pre-agreed of course.

I have just finished perving the the friends only pics of some of the requests though. You need to be quick before they login again

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey.

Unless of course they've got an bum pic like Pat's. I'd probably accept his request on sight haha!! Did you send a friend request to me ? a cant remember

No idea it was so long ago lol, but I normally only ever send them if it comes up in conversation and someone says 'Can we be friends please?'. Aww, sounds like the playground doesn't it.....'Will you be my friend?' A will show you mine if you show me yours "

I think you already did.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only those I have met or intend to meet (or fancy the pants off... ever the optimist!)"
better than being a pessimist

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

They just sit there lonely and unloved... unless I'm in a good mood, I wait until they are off line, then I accept, perv their friend only pics, fab a couple, then un-friend them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey.

Unless of course they've got an bum pic like Pat's. I'd probably accept his request on sight haha!! Did you send a friend request to me ? a cant remember

No idea it was so long ago lol, but I normally only ever send them if it comes up in conversation and someone says 'Can we be friends please?'. Aww, sounds like the playground doesn't it.....'Will you be my friend?' A will show you mine if you show me yours

I think you already did..... "
Just love your wit and charm

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I never accept random friend requests.

Unless of course their public images are of interest and they have a wealth of private ones.

Then it is:

1. Receive randomer friend request

2. Wait for randomer to go offline

3. Accept friend request

4. Look at and/or fap at private pictures

5. Unfriend randomer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They just sit there lonely and unloved... unless I'm in a good mood, I wait until they are off line, then I accept, perv their friend only pics, fab a couple, then un-friend them "

Queen you naughty girl how dare you

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Yea, generally just people I have met or am talking to about meeting. I never accept the unannounced friend requests - they have to talk to me first or I just assume they're being nosey.

Unless of course they've got an bum pic like Pat's. I'd probably accept his request on sight haha!! Did you send a friend request to me ? a cant remember

No idea it was so long ago lol, but I normally only ever send them if it comes up in conversation and someone says 'Can we be friends please?'. Aww, sounds like the playground doesn't it.....'Will you be my friend?' A will show you mine if you show me yours

I think you already did..... Just love your wit and charm "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unless we've met, chatted or fucked or what to fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the moment I only accept people I've spoken to for a while or people I recognise on the forums.. However I have no friends pics so it makes no difference in that way at the moment. I do plan on revamping my profile a bit though and maybe add some face pics to friends only once I've double checked my friends list

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