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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Following on from a thread earlier, I acknowledged that joining fab has added much to my life...both sexually and socially...

In particular, the swinging lifestyle has highlighted to me my bi-curiosities and has enabled me to share such desires with some lovely people...

However, I fear I have become too fussy.

For example, I'd very much like a bi mmf threesome, but fear my expectations may be unrealistic. I'd like the guy to be reasonably athletic, slightly tan, circumcised and clean shaven around the nethers (though all over is preferable)....

And in the event that I meet a transexaul, I'd like her to look like Vaniity..

Do my wants sound unreasonable or unrealistic..?

Am I alone with such fussiness...?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Nothing wrong with wanting certain things, but the more exact you want someone to be the much harder it is going to be to find that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely nothing wrong in being fussy in fact I find it quite empowering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Absolutely nothing wrong in being fussy in fact I find it quite empowering "

I agree that I can be empowering - I guess that I hope I'm not going to end up frustrated...alas the body wants what the mind craves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find a lady wank helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always find a lady wank helps "

A man wank is probably just as effective!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with wanting certain things, but the more exact you want someone to be the much harder it is going to be to find that person."

This. The longer the list that has to be ticked, the harder to find. Finding someone that has to tick 5 boxes will be easier to find than someone who has to tick 20.

And when you find them - do you tick all their boxes!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with wanting certain things, but the more exact you want someone to be the much harder it is going to be to find that person.

This. The longer the list that has to be ticked, the harder to find. Finding someone that has to tick 5 boxes will be easier to find than someone who has to tick 20.

And when you find them - do you tick all their boxes!!?"
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be the right chemistry.friendship and fun this makes things os much better when you meet

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Nothing wrong with wanting certain things, but the more exact you want someone to be the much harder it is going to be to find that person.

This. The longer the list that has to be ticked, the harder to find. Finding someone that has to tick 5 boxes will be easier to find than someone who has to tick 20.

And when you find them - do you tick all their boxes!!?"

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So true - I don't even tick some of my own boxes - though hopefully reducing my biscuit intake will help!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you are not fussy at all, you know what you want/desire and want the 'ultimate' experience, why settle for second best and not feel sexually fulfilled if their is that person out there for you? It may take a while to find but hopefully you will get there.

That be said, there is no harm in having some fun while waiting for mr right (I know that probably came out far more relationshipy then intended!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's loads of hot bi athletic guys on here, they all have their own 'type' they want too but am sure it'd be worth waiting for.

I'm the same really, won't fuck anyone i don't fancy, love 3sums so do drop my standards for those but i still have to fancy the guy. I'm happy with normal fucks while waiting for everything else i prefer doing.

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