FabSwingers.com forum: Single People's Comfort?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Inspi_ed by some nice threads about people having found love on here and about living with a partner, I wanted to start a thread that makes it less hard being a single, on days where you'd rather not be one.

Things you can enjoy equally whether single or not:

- Tugging in to fresh bed linen,

- The smell of of a just-mowed lawn,

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don't think I've ever lived alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having to answer to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starfishing...that's right I said starfish. Love the feeling of spreading out and taking all the bed up, only benefit of being single in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Control of the TV remote.

As a guy, never having to watch any soaps, strictly, 'reality' or any thing with celebrity in the title.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Playing Pink Floyd very loud in the dark as I lie in bed and drift off!!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Listening to any music I like without being lectu_ed on my music tastes.

being able to surf naughty sites without having to shut down web pages when they ask what I'm up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleeping alone, afraid not like Dan star fishing as only had single beds in my rooms I rented but still!! Having a bath in peace!! Getting up when I wanted, eating when I wanted!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Starfishing...that's right I said starfish. Love the feeling of spreading out and taking all the bed up, only benefit of being single in bed."

And rolling onto the cold side in summer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

- a long, hot shower. (Singles as well as couples)

Anybody lives with a bathroom with two showers in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starfishing...that's right I said starfish. Love the feeling of spreading out and taking all the bed up, only benefit of being single in bed.

And rolling onto the cold side in summer"

Heavenly

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

As great as being single can be, I've now well and truly had my fill of it

Just saying.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I don't think I've ever lived alone"

I hadn't until 4 years ago.

I don't find being single hard though.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Duvet wars. Wanting to punch her mother/father/fucking kids. Listening to her endless complaints about others. Enduring her visiting friends talking non stop bollocks. I only ever chose the good looking ones I wanted to shag but always the same old bollocks. How I love fresh air.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is better when you live alone, you can just do what you like, how can you top that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Farting in bed

Hell, farting anywhere

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Being happy with yourself

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By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust

I sleep on the very left side of my double bed , which I love sharing with the right person but sometimes on very cold nights I wish I had something more comforting than my hottie wotty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Making big decisions with no interference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Farting in bed

Hell, farting anywhere

Hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Farting in bed

Hell, farting anywhere

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I don't think I've ever lived alone

I hadn't until 4 years ago.

I don't find being single hard though."

I still haven't as I have the boys here. Youngest is a sleepwalker too & often wakes up in my bed or on my floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Control of the TV remote.

As a guy, never having to watch any soaps, strictly, 'reality' or any thing with celebrity in the title."

I don't watch any of the crap you are stereotyping as woman's viewing. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As great as being single can be, I've now well and truly had my fill of it

Just saying."

Snap, hate it. But nor do I think I'd cope with so.eone in my space too much after so long alone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't live alone but:

Finding the toilet seat the way you left it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Farting in bed

Hell, farting anywhere

farting in bed is much better sha_ed ........whether they like it or not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

arguing with yourself and not having another interrupting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"arguing with yourself and not having another interrupting

But you may need someone to break it up & hold you apart (so to speak)

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I started a couple of threads on this subject about 3 yrs ago, it would be nice to see if anybody's attitude toward this has changed. I know mine hasn't

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/239381

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/240859

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By *eliciouslyNastyMan
over a year ago

London

ugh... Hate the label single...

We are all born into this world single, so it has no meaning to be so...

But...

The ability to just by a plane ticket and disappear for a year or two.

To not have to pretend to be enjoying a conversation you wish was over.

To use your time to constantly train and improve your abilities.

Silence.

Those could all be flipped as reasons to enjoy being part of a couple.

But some animals are solitary... Like tigers and some need company.... Like sheep...

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Can snore away to my hearts content.

Also love traveling alone. Vietnam in January

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

"Farting in bed

Hell, farting anywhere

farting in bed is much better sha_ed ........whether they like it or not! "

Much more fun when you have someone to pull your finger!

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By *ildbillkidMan
over a year ago

where the road goes on forever

My own bathroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freedom, money and time to yourself to do as you please. A single life is an easy life!

Miss B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find all of my jokes funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do sometimes wish I had a guy when I've got my wand out, somebody to hold it for me while I relax would be lovely

But as soon as I've cum I come back to my senses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't find it hard being single but I don't live alone.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

An occasional night with company is enough. Snog shag spoon sleep wake shag and off your separate ways...

Decent cup of coffee if possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

first time that ive been single in years and i would just say free just to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things I enjoy about living on my own most of the time:

- living on my own most of the time.

- not having anyone else under my feet.

- having the freedom to do what I want, when I want.

- not having to think about what someone else wants.

- getting to shag who I want, when I want, in my own bed.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

"Control of the TV remote.

As a guy, never having to watch any soaps, strictly, 'reality' or any thing with celebrity in the title.

I don't watch any of the crap you are stereotyping as woman's viewing. ...

Not saying these are female viewing. Just what my ex enjoyed. Also what all the ladies I work with talk about. I admit this is a small sample.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Despite all the benefits, which I truly enjoy - there's nothing like waking up to a morning cuddle xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leaving house clean and tidy - going out to work and coming back and its still that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ugh... Hate the label single...

We are all born into this world single, so it has no meaning to be so...

But...

The ability to just by a plane ticket and disappear for a year or two.

To not have to pretend to be enjoying a conversation you wish was over.

To use your time to constantly train and improve your abilities.

Silence.

Those could all be flipped as reasons to enjoy being part of a couple.

But some animals are solitary... Like tigers and some need company.... Like sheep..."

So what you're saying is, you are a tiger and those of us in relationships are sheep?

Winning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people say their freedom is something they like about heing single.

I'm not single but i still have my freedom and can do what i want when i want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people say their freedom is something they like about heing single.

I'm not single but i still have my freedom and can do what i want when i want

That's totally the benefit of non-monogamy. :D

Multiple partners... different choices... and yet still my own bedroom. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being who I am and knowing that's ok.

Doing what I want on my terms.

happy days.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I don't think I've ever lived alone"

55 and never lived alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people say their freedom is something they like about heing single.

I'm not single but i still have my freedom and can do what i want when i want

That's totally the benefit of non-monogamy. :D

Multiple partners... different choices... and yet still my own bedroom. :D"

I can have all that if i want it

For many years i did but now i prefer to share a bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Control of the TV remote.

As a guy, never having to watch any soaps, strictly, 'reality' or any thing with celebrity in the title.

I don't watch any of the crap you are stereotyping as woman's viewing. ...

Not saying these are female viewing. Just what my ex enjoyed. Also what all the ladies I work with talk about. I admit this is a small sample. "

Tbf I'm also a minority because I just don't have a TV.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't either!

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By *ynopsisMan
over a year ago

Whetstone

Being able to close the door on the world and think thank fuck for that day..

But on the down side, miss cuddles and snuggling down at night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single 3 yrs and love it

I have a daughter so not living alone

I love that fact I don't have to answer to anyone

That I control my life

I love that my chocolate doesn't get ate

That my lovely creams and hair products are where I left them

I love the fact that when I sit down at night I've no one to nag me

Not up all hours cooking

Hahahaha do I need to go on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Buying flowers for myself.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Ive been single 15 months an i came out of a short trying marriage. An hooray my divorce was completed on November 2nd 2015. So im fully divorced. I feel now i have freedom to watch what i like, answer to know one

go to bed when i want. Best of all not answer to anyone. Watch a movie with jason statham in it uninterrupted lol

an can oggle his sexy body lol

without being moaned at. An i have freedom other than work i can do as i please in my home. Best of all not tied down to a guy. Marriage didnt suit me it wasnt for me i felt restricted, lost my indenity. I only got married once never again ever

my first marriage at 42. I never wanted to marry its a relationship killer ir was for me an the d_eded ex monster in law sends shivers down my spine

ive got used to being single but sometimes it would be nice to have a guy to cuddle too in bed. Etc an chat too. There are some things i miss obviously. Hence i do nsa as i dont want to be tied down again (thumb

An i dont want the trappings of a relationship for quite a while

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

A rider policy and a shed big enough to mean I don't have to sell a motorbike to buy another.. I can just add another one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Control of the TV remote.

As a guy, never having to watch any soaps, strictly, 'reality' or any thing with celebrity in the title.

I don't watch any of the crap you are stereotyping as woman's viewing. ...

Nor do i !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

leaving the Loo Seat UP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just simply doing what I want,when I want...bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to have me time without being expected to see someone every day. Now I can do it because I choose to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starfishing...that's right I said starfish. Love the feeling of spreading out and taking all the bed up, only benefit of being single in bed."

And not having to get up to see to anyone else.

Things are where you leave them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Starfishing...that's right I said starfish. Love the feeling of spreading out and taking all the bed up, only benefit of being single in bed.

And not having to get up to see to anyone else.

Things are where you leave them."

Unfortunately having a 4 year old means I do have to get up to see to some one else and nothing is ever in the right place!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"leaving the Loo Seat UP

Knowing the loo seat will always be down.

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