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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have standards when choosing who to meet?

What are these standards based on?

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

They have to have at least 6 toes on every hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they are breathing for a start!!

No seriously, I am very picky who I meet, I don't know what 'standards' they are but one is treating me like a person not a fuckable object, talking to me in a nice manner before had that kind of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we have high standards

The way we look at it is we don't have to do this so when we do we look for hot people .

nikki has done modeling and she is very pretty.she isn't going to fuck someone she doesn't fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. None.

Wanna meet, OP?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have them;some very basic,like good manners, others changeable,probably ridiculous to others...wont even reply to people who use the word banter for example,petty to others but a benchmark to me...but on the whole my standards are the same on here as elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope. None.

Wanna meet, OP?

-Courtney"

Well I would but unfortunately my extremely high standards mean I can't meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only my owns tastes...they be my standards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intellect. Attitude. Looks. Favorite film. Favorite soap. Salary. Charitable giving amount. Secret society membership. Favorite distillery. Criminal record.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only that I have to like them and fancy them. The type of people I like and fancy varies wildly.

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By *roffGentlemanMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Alledged joking aside. We have a certain standard. Mr shrek modelled Toby mugs and can be quiet fussy at times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Intellect. Attitude. Looks. Favorite film. Favorite soap. Salary. Charitable giving amount. Secret society membership. Favorite distillery. Criminal record."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got no standards as its nsa lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have to have at least 6 toes on every hand "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. None.

Wanna meet, OP?

-Courtney

Well I would but unfortunately my extremely high standards mean I can't meet you "

Touche, Ma'am.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standards or are they just preferences?

I won't fuck anyone I don't fancy that's for sure.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

That I like them. As people. As to standards, I couldn't really define it. Not being a cunt and having a sense of humour in line with my own is a good start.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I meet people I find attractive. It's not just based on looks either, so those I meet have been very different looking, but they are all sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Standards, like looks, are subjective. Even if the standards are met it doesn't mean sex is guaranteed, perhaps the meet needs a certain je ne c'est quois

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they respect me, are clean and can make me feel at ease I'm not too bothered and I would return the favour, but I have to feel attracted to them physically and mentally too.. Ok I'm a little bit picky

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I don't even know why people have to say they are picky or have standards, majority of us are the same.

Very few men or women will literally shag anything, some peoples standards are based souly on looks some peoples on a number of things.

As I meet mainly at home I have a strict criteria that's worked well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dislike the term standards because some people take it to imply some kind of judgement on people being better than others. Do I have criteria and preferences that I apply though...absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They must be able to fit a curly wurly chocolate bar in their butt without snapping it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to like someone I'm going to get intimate with, so at the very least have a cuppa and a chat before jumping straight into things, so that either party can back out if they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like Brian stated yesterday, a female walked past him and a younger lad, the lad claimed he would or something and Brian was like she's alright. Can appreciate someone's beauty but if that's it then there's nothing there.

So my standards are based on that I am attracted to them (mind and body), unfortunately I must be picky as it doesn't happen often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have extremely high standards. No matter how fit the body is or how attractive the face,I will have to have a long conversation with someone to establish they aren't egotistical,racist,homophobic,vain,a complete knob or looking for a hole to plant his dick in asap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They must be able to fit a curly wurly chocolate bar in their butt without snapping it "

Where does one buy a curly wurly chocolate bar? I think I have a task for the night

-Courtney

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do you have standards when choosing who to meet?

What are these standards based on?"

Aren't standards subjective?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It depends on the meet.

If it's a social, they have to seem good fun.

If it's a sexual meet then I'm incredibly picky now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They must be able to fit a curly wurly chocolate bar in their butt without snapping it

Where does one buy a curly wurly chocolate bar? I think I have a task for the night

-Courtney"

Multipacks are available from all good retail outlets if you need to practice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no standards.

I'm also not meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dislike the term standards because some people take it to imply some kind of judgement on people being better than others. Do I have criteria and preferences that I apply though...absolutely "

I deliberately chose the word standards as it seems to be used a lot on here. I prefer the words personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it may be a sex site but you should stil have standards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I like them. As people. As to standards, I couldn't really define it. Not being a cunt and having a sense of humour in line with my own is a good start."

Shit on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm meeting though, its either i wanna have sex with them or i don't. Standards don't really enter into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They must be able to fit a curly wurly chocolate bar in their butt without snapping it "

Will a Chomp between the tits do...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction, chemistry and compatibility

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Good grief - standards... nope not a single one.

I'm a good fab female and know my place. I fuck anyone that asks, drop my knickers at the first fancy a fuck meet, and reschedule my life to fit in with all the married men who must meet me right now before the wife gets back from bingo/shopping/hairdresser. I have a varied wardrobe to fulfil every single request possible.

*the above may contain some sarcasm*

Alternatively, yes, I have standards - things that matter to me so I can look myself in the eye in the mirror.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not sure about standards but I have to like someone and find them attractive to want to shag them. Some guys don't seem to get that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They must be able to fit a curly wurly chocolate bar in their butt without snapping it

Will a Chomp between the tits do...?"

Show off. My curly wurly keeps snapping before I can take the pic

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction both physically and their personality xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What standards?

Beggars can't be choosers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction both physically and their personality xx"

Bugger that's me knackered lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have to be able to chat and laugh - and we have met people at clubs that when we come back and look at profile we wouldnt have met them - not sure what if anything that says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some one I can laugh and joke.with . Its not just physical.

Some one you have q connection with , its the alchemy that leads to the best chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction both physically and their personality xx

Bugger that's me knackered lol "

You will be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They must be able to fit a curly wurly chocolate bar in their butt without snapping it

Will a Chomp between the tits do...?

Show off. My curly wurly keeps snapping before I can take the pic

-Courtney"

Warm it up (and I'll join you in the challenge ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction both physically and their personality xx

Bugger that's me knackered lol

You will be "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep - gotta get on with them first, share some common interests etc, obviously attraction etc and always want a social interaction first to check compatability / spark etc. Sometimes there is, sometimes there isn't but that's the nature of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attraction, chemistry and compatibility "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All challenge entries please forward to my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

V here. I have more than Adam!

Hmmmmmm not sure what that means for me

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All challenge entries please forward to my inbox "

Are you eating them afterwards?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I know who and what I am attracted to - that's personality and looks and respect is also a must have quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have standards when choosing who to meet?

What are these standards based on?"

Yes, hence why I'm not verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone without cats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's a meet?"

Its a cuddle-hug with rudies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really have particular expectations about looks or bodies. As long as they're into BDSM and we click, then no problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have standards when choosing who to meet?

What are these standards based on?"

Big time !

There has to be a physical attraction .

There must be similar interests .

They must be non judgemental .

They must be clean .

There has to be respect .

There must be desire .

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

My standards are..

To find them attractive

To click personality wise

For them not to be a complete asshat

That's pretty much it

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I know who and what I am attracted to - that's personality and looks and respect is also a must have quality "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All challenge entries please forward to my inbox "

We'll need you to take the photos as evidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't touch a woman I didn't find attractive. I would rather have a bash!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so desperate if anyone actually messaged me I'd drive the length of the country for a chance of a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All challenge entries please forward to my inbox

We'll need you to take the photos as evidence "

Yes, please.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't touch a woman I didn't find attractive. I would rather have a bash! "

Oh those eyes... If only you were older or I was younger

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By *anB451Man
over a year ago

Reading

I think you have to have standards. For me I need to be attracted to the person either physically or mentally. That could mean that the person I meet could be any shape or size. But one of those attractions has to be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My standard is I have to be attracted and thats it ...

No likey no lighty

But in all fairness a personality is what attracts me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't touch a woman I didn't find attractive. I would rather have a bash!

Oh those eyes... If only you were older or I was younger "

You know I'm 30 years old right!?

I sleep straight through the night and you dont need to wake up to feed me! No nappies or anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have standards when choosing who to meet?

What are these standards based on?"

Yes.

Based on the 'Intergalactic Meet Standard'-I think it was mentioned at the last AGM (Amazing galactic moments) ask Funky Monkey- he will tell you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't touch a woman I didn't find attractive. I would rather have a bash!

Oh those eyes... If only you were older or I was younger

You know I'm 30 years old right!?

I sleep straight through the night and you dont need to wake up to feed me! No nappies or anything! "

I wouldn't want you sleeping through the night. I'd want you nudging me and then offering to feed me (tip: NOT man boob).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't touch a woman I didn't find attractive. I would rather have a bash!

Oh those eyes... If only you were older or I was younger

You know I'm 30 years old right!?

I sleep straight through the night and you dont need to wake up to feed me! No nappies or anything!

I wouldn't want you sleeping through the night. I'd want you nudging me and then offering to feed me (tip: NOT man boob). "

Feed you? I am actually a very good cook as it goes...... but I assume you want to swallow my load every hour on the hour

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Standards, like looks, are subjective. Even if the standards are met it doesn't mean sex is guaranteed, perhaps the meet needs a certain je ne c'est quois "

Nutshell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its rear I meet as been there over the years now find a lot of things boring so i really have to like and that can be the looks the way they come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't have a pic of a chocolate bar of some description jammed, stuck, shoved, taped or otherwise on your person, I'm afraid you're not up to my standard.... My preference of course is with those that may wanna share their wears with me..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you have standards when choosing who to meet?

What are these standards based on?

Yes.

Based on the 'Intergalactic Meet Standard'-I think it was mentioned at the last AGM (Amazing galactic moments) ask Funky Monkey- he will tell you! "

I'll be sure to ask him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't have a pic of a chocolate bar of some description jammed, stuck, shoved, taped or otherwise on your person, I'm afraid you're not up to my standard.... My preference of course is with those that may wanna share their wears with me.. "
lol alot dont wish to share their wears as like me been here years and same old thing they have to stand out in some way to take your eye .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't touch a woman I didn't find attractive. I would rather have a bash!

Oh those eyes... If only you were older or I was younger

You know I'm 30 years old right!?

I sleep straight through the night and you dont need to wake up to feed me! No nappies or anything!

I wouldn't want you sleeping through the night. I'd want you nudging me and then offering to feed me (tip: NOT man boob).

Feed you? I am actually a very good cook as it goes...... but I assume you want to swallow my load every hour on the hour "

And so I should, one look at those eyes and I'm putty

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Who, why and what turns me on form meet to meet varies hugely. I don't really have a type. I look at profiles and what I think the experience might be like.

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"That they are breathing for a start!!

No seriously, I am very picky who I meet, I don't know what 'standards' they are but one is treating me like a person not a fuckable object, talking to me in a nice manner before had that kind of thing"

Agreed as well as showing a bit of respect...For themselves, me and others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's market forces at the end of the day. Standards are set by the laws of supply and demand......and I'm just another sex god wannabe commodity like most other single men here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't touch a woman I didn't find attractive. I would rather have a bash!

Oh those eyes... If only you were older or I was younger

You know I'm 30 years old right!?

I sleep straight through the night and you dont need to wake up to feed me! No nappies or anything!

I wouldn't want you sleeping through the night. I'd want you nudging me and then offering to feed me (tip: NOT man boob).

Feed you? I am actually a very good cook as it goes...... but I assume you want to swallow my load every hour on the hour

And so I should, one look at those eyes and I'm putty "

Sounds like a plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have standards when choosing who to meet?

What are these standards based on?"

1) Cleanliness 2) Personality 3) No pubic hair 3) Reasonably good looking 4) Open-minded and not up their own arses - super meet ! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have standards when choosing who to meet?

What are these standards based on?

1) Cleanliness 2) Personality 3) No pubic hair 3) Reasonably good looking 4) Open-minded and not up their own arses - super meet ! x

"

Damn. I miss on all of these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll only meet people I consider to have a pretty smile and a really good sense of humour. I haven't had that many meets but those I have had, social or not, have been really fun with lots of laughs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal choice yes.. standards yes..and apart from the odd blip all's gone good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone like minded with a sense of humour seeking fun is my standard

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Only that I have to like them and fancy them. The type of people I like and fancy varies wildly."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know who and what I am attracted to - that's personality and looks and respect is also a must have quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's market forces at the end of the day. Standards are set by the laws of supply and demand......and I'm just another sex god wannabe commodity like most other single men here. "

That isn't true for everyone on here. I don't have sex with men because the kind I like are lacking. I'm lucky that I have a very open mind and am attracted to many types of men. My regular friends are very different to each other in all ways. I couldn't put a finger on why I'm attracted to them,I just like them.

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