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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all. I am new to all this but wanted to sun something by you. I am being asked to meet a woman in a hotel where she will be tied up on a bed in stockings, knickers and a leather mask. I am being asked to enter the room, shower and then proceed to finger, lick and then Fuck her, all in silence. Then I am to leave in silence. Does this sound dodgy to you or is it just me being paranoid? Apparently it's her fantasy to be Fucked by a stranger like this. Any thoughts please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your instincts I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check behind the shower curtain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say too, though, you ought to be damn sure it's consentual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess if your in a hotel room its not that bad

fck it you only live once

just make sure you get some one to give you a call and if you dont answer well you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I am new to all this but wanted to sun something by you. I am being asked to meet a woman in a hotel where she will be tied up on a bed in stockings, knickers and a leather mask. I am being asked to enter the room, shower and then proceed to finger, lick and then Fuck her, all in silence. Then I am to leave in silence. Does this sound dodgy to you or is it just me being paranoid? Apparently it's her fantasy to be Fucked by a stranger like this. Any thoughts please?"

I'm kinda wondering who has tied her up while she awaits your arrival and how you are going to access her locked door if shes immobile... but I'm little miss practical so perhaps you should ignore my thougths on it... or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id go with your instincts too but to me it doesnt sound dodgy as that was a fantasy i had untill we made it reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its kinky mmmmmmmmm i would love sex like that with 3 or 4 men , lol

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge


"its kinky mmmmmmmmm i would love sex like that with 3 or 4 men , lol"
lol greedy but i like it

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

To the OP, you didn't mention if you will be given access to the mini-bar?

Also you might want to shower afterward, is this allowed?

Finally are you allowed to wear a mask? or possibly a nice pirate hat?

If yes to all of these then I'd do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most women would love the idea too

I know I do!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite a common scenario, have a Phone chat first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most women would love the idea too

I know I do!!! "
well i should love this and now on my wish list. lol x maybe after them not going but all down to bar for a drink so i can then see who thay was and next time same night do it with eyes open. ooo god its making me horny thinking about it wow x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah...risky anonymous sex can get the blood flowing in blushes....great when it works...

BAD BAD idea when it goes wrong? I`ve known a couple of honey traps......

I`d enquire if she`d like the added pleasure of another bloke ....kinda spit roast her.....if she agreed, I`d take a mate.....preferably a big one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I am new to all this but wanted to sun something by you. I am being asked to meet a woman in a hotel where she will be tied up on a bed in stockings, knickers and a leather mask. I am being asked to enter the room, shower and then proceed to finger, lick and then Fuck her, all in silence. Then I am to leave in silence. Does this sound dodgy to you or is it just me being paranoid? Apparently it's her fantasy to be Fucked by a stranger like this. Any thoughts please?

I'm kinda wondering who has tied her up while she awaits your arrival and how you are going to access her locked door if shes immobile... but I'm little miss practical so perhaps you should ignore my thougths on it... or not..."

You're not alone, I was thinking the same thing too. The OP also hasn't said who contacted him with this scenario.

Personally I wouldn't do something I'm not sure is consensual or if I felt I could be set up for a fall.

OP, this scenario obviously excites you. Why not go to a club where you can engage in this kind of fantasy safely.

Whatever you do, be safe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from whether there's someone else there (I would presume so for her safety if nothing else - no offence intended) then I think this is perfectly plausible and is the kind of thing my ex swing partner and I used to talk about arranging.

Sadly, we never got around to going through with the idea but I'd have loved it.

If you're unsure though then don't go through with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apart from whether there's someone else there (I would presume so for her safety if nothing else - no offence intended) then I think this is perfectly plausible and is the kind of thing my ex swing partner and I used to talk about arranging.

Sadly, we never got around to going through with the idea but I'd have loved it.

If you're unsure though then don't go through with it."
lolol you can do it with me two woman tied too the bed masks over our eyes. We can get john to pick me off our fav list here so we know we would like them .. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I am new to all this but wanted to sun something by you. I am being asked to meet a woman in a hotel where she will be tied up on a bed in stockings, knickers and a leather mask. I am being asked to enter the room, shower and then proceed to finger, lick and then Fuck her, all in silence. Then I am to leave in silence. Does this sound dodgy to you or is it just me being paranoid? Apparently it's her fantasy to be Fucked by a stranger like this. Any thoughts please?"

If you go ahead with this take precautions. Ask her to leave you a voice mail with her requests. Also get her to send an email or if possible a video clip of her requirements.

It isn't a new request as i know a man who was asked something similar but you have to make sure you can't get accused of anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this place still has the ability to suprise me.

i sincerely hope this woman does have someone to chaperone her if she's putting herself into such a vulnerable position with someone who is a stranger.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Take a good look throug her profile, pics, veris etc.

Does it get mentioned as a fantasy/something she does.

Is there any evicence of her having done it before?

Does the profile look kosher & has it been here a while?

It's a common enough fantasy and the kind of people who like it/act it out will often go for 'random' type guys at short notice, it's all part of the thrill for them rather than endless mails back & forth etc.

The immediacy & anonimity is often a big part of the kick they get from it.

Realistically, if your sensible about it from your point of view, what's the worst that could happen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

OP, this scenario obviously excites you. Why not go to a club where you can engage in this kind of fantasy safely.

Whatever you do, be safe!"

Best advice for all parties concerned..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Realistically, if your sensible about it from your point of view, what's the worst that could happen?

"

apologies to the op for the following, but, he could be an arse and take advantage of this situation...that would be the worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no chance id ever do it,,,for lots of reasons,,,stick to a person you know,,,you can always act it out,,be safe.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think this woman is part of a couple and he maybe just looks and make sure all is ok for her .... must be other person there ... whos going to tie her up ? cant yourself .... just chat to them on the phone first ... get the feel of them and then see how you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I'm sure this very same scenario was mentioned in the forums just a few weeks ago....read back and perhaps contact the other poster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello all, could I ask someone who`s gona post to include a byline, telling me what `OP` stands for...excuse the ignorance

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"hello all, could I ask someone who`s gona post to include a byline, telling me what `OP` stands for...excuse the ignorance "

'Original Poster'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I am new to all this but wanted to sun something by you. I am being asked to meet a woman in a hotel where she will be tied up on a bed in stockings, knickers and a leather mask. I am being asked to enter the room, shower and then proceed to finger, lick and then Fuck her, all in silence. Then I am to leave in silence. Does this sound dodgy to you or is it just me being paranoid? Apparently it's her fantasy to be Fucked by a stranger like this. Any thoughts please?"

If it was the missus that contacted you, could you please make sure the retraints are still secure...... Cos I`ll leave her there for a week or so as she needs to loose a few pounds after all the festivities.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

Realistically, if your sensible about it from your point of view, what's the worst that could happen?

apologies to the op for the following, but, he could be an arse and take advantage of this situation...that would be the worst.

"

Of course.

But the question was re the risk/reward ratio from his point of view.

The lady in question will of course have to do the same from her point of view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hello all, could I ask someone who`s gona post to include a byline, telling me what `OP` stands for...excuse the ignorance

'Original Poster'"

Thanks ever so much...

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Hi all. I am new to all this but wanted to sun something by you. I am being asked to meet a woman in a hotel where she will be tied up on a bed in stockings, knickers and a leather mask. I am being asked to enter the room, shower and then proceed to finger, lick and then Fuck her, all in silence. Then I am to leave in silence. Does this sound dodgy to you or is it just me being paranoid? Apparently it's her fantasy to be Fucked by a stranger like this. Any thoughts please?

If it was the missus that contacted you, could you please make sure the retraints are still secure...... Cos I`ll leave her there for a week or so as she needs to loose a few pounds after all the festivities. "

I am SO going to PM her tonight.

You'll be clearing snow with a teaspoon all week...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Realistically, if your sensible about it from your point of view, what's the worst that could happen?

apologies to the op for the following, but, he could be an arse and take advantage of this situation...that would be the worst.

Of course.

But the question was re the risk/reward ratio from his point of view.

The lady in question will of course have to do the same from her point of view.

"

there is always two sides to any argument...as is often pointed out in threads like this.

it should lead the op to wonder why the lady would leave herself open to such possibilities.

certainly something that would set alarm bells in my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If it was the missus that contacted you, could you please make sure the retraints are still secure...... Cos I`ll leave her there for a week or so as she needs to loose a few pounds after all the festivities.

I am SO going to PM her tonight.

You'll be clearing snow with a teaspoon all week..."

Noooooo pls don`t, I`m just being a "gobshite" as she never visits the forums.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

Realistically, if your sensible about it from your point of view, what's the worst that could happen?

apologies to the op for the following, but, he could be an arse and take advantage of this situation...that would be the worst.

Of course.

But the question was re the risk/reward ratio from his point of view.

The lady in question will of course have to do the same from her point of view.

there is always two sides to any argument...as is often pointed out in threads like this.

it should lead the op to wonder why the lady would leave herself open to such possibilities.

certainly something that would set alarm bells in my mind"

If it's her fantasy and what she wants, who are we to judge?

And, if there's a male on hand to see 'fair play', as realistically there would have to be from a practical point of view if nothing else, then consenting adults get to do what consenting adults want to do.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


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If it was the missus that contacted you, could you please make sure the retraints are still secure...... Cos I`ll leave her there for a week or so as she needs to loose a few pounds after all the festivities.

I am SO going to PM her tonight.

You'll be clearing snow with a teaspoon all week...

Noooooo pls don`t, I`m just being a "gobshite" as she never visits the forums. "

That's the best backtracking i've seen since the Lib Dems on tuition fees.

No mean feat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Realistically, if your sensible about it from your point of view, what's the worst that could happen?

apologies to the op for the following, but, he could be an arse and take advantage of this situation...that would be the worst.

Of course.

But the question was re the risk/reward ratio from his point of view.

The lady in question will of course have to do the same from her point of view.

there is always two sides to any argument...as is often pointed out in threads like this.

it should lead the op to wonder why the lady would leave herself open to such possibilities.

certainly something that would set alarm bells in my mind"
why? if i new john was there ..... just as back up .. if i need to get un -tied fast or drink or to make sure no one got nasty be fine its a real turn on ...... doing things like this yes you have to be brave but i like the dom and sub things and kinky sex ... she may too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man being there doesn't, necessarily, mean it's consentual.Only the woman can give that!

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By *orestersCouple
over a year ago

The Forest

Being a bit paranoid myself, I would surreptitiously check the hotel room for concealed cameras - wouldn't want to end up on some dodgy gonzo porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If it was the missus that contacted you, could you please make sure the retraints are still secure...... Cos I`ll leave her there for a week or so as she needs to loose a few pounds after all the festivities.

I am SO going to PM her tonight.

You'll be clearing snow with a teaspoon all week...

Noooooo pls don`t, I`m just being a "gobshite" as she never visits the forums.

That's the best backtracking i've seen since the Lib Dems on tuition fees.

No mean feat.

"

Takes years of practice. Besides, the kids nicknamed her "Tyson", so you`ll get the picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be somebody else there, find it hard to believe she can tie herself up.

No conscent = rape

I think if it was me, I would arrange to her see in the room, fully dressed and blindfolded to keep the surprise element for her. I would not speak, but would want him/her to ask the woman if she was up for being tied up and having sex. Then I could leave the room for them to get her ready.If there was more than me, then we could hear it at the same time, which would be even better, witnesses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

certainly something that would set alarm bells in my mind why? if i new john was there ..... just as back up .. if i need to get un -tied fast or drink or to make sure no one got nasty be fine its a real turn on ...... doing things like this yes you have to be brave but i like the dom and sub things and kinky sex ... she may too."

there is no inference from the op that this is a part of a couple...the thread has made that assumption for itself.

i know that folk play these games...and that's great if it turns them on...i imagine the situation is well controlled.

my comments are regarding the fact that in this instance. it seems that there are two individuals putting a wealth of trust into two strangers.

if the op wasn't concerned about this, he wouldn't have posted the thread.

it's not always as controlled as you might like to believe. there was one chap message me to ask if i wanted to go to a hotel in edinburgh and be tied up and blindfolded for other men to have sex with me...i would know nothing about them, see their pics...nothing.

now, to some women, this is an ultimate fantasy, for me..it was a horrendous thought. anything could happen to me and i would have no control

some people understand their fantasies and how they should work...i think others are controlled by them and damn the consequences

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"

If it was the missus that contacted you, could you please make sure the retraints are still secure...... Cos I`ll leave her there for a week or so as she needs to loose a few pounds after all the festivities.

I am SO going to PM her tonight.

You'll be clearing snow with a teaspoon all week...

Noooooo pls don`t, I`m just being a "gobshite" as she never visits the forums.

That's the best backtracking i've seen since the Lib Dems on tuition fees.

No mean feat.

Takes years of practice. Besides, the kids nicknamed her "Tyson", so you`ll get the picture. "

I've got a spare room.

PM me when she's found your posts, you can hide out here for a while til things calm down...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, O.P here. The request was from a guy who knew the lady in question. I think I'll give it a miss unless the guy is in contact more and I can reassure myself it's cool. I am up for blindfolds etc but surely there is some way I can find out from the lady personally that she wants this. Many thanks people. P.s I am still looking for my first meet lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all. I am new to all this but wanted to sun something by you. I am being asked to meet a woman in a hotel where she will be tied up on a bed in stockings, knickers and a leather mask. I am being asked to enter the room, shower and then proceed to finger, lick and then Fuck her, all in silence. Then I am to leave in silence. Does this sound dodgy to you or is it just me being paranoid? Apparently it's her fantasy to be Fucked by a stranger like this. Any thoughts please?"

check for a pulse before you start

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

The other day I got a PM from a complete stranger asking me if I wanted to go halfers on a prostitute at lunch time

Anyway to cut a long story short a great time was had by all and if truth be told I only payed a third.

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Only one of those sentences is true by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The other day I got a PM from a complete stranger asking me if I wanted to go halfers on a prostitute at lunch time

Anyway to cut a long story short a great time was had by all and if truth be told I only payed a third.

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Only one of those sentences is true by the way."
Your a one ..... that made me smile i was thinking wow he come out to play from the shag pile , lol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Hi, O.P here. The request was from a guy who knew the lady in question. I think I'll give it a miss unless the guy is in contact more and I can reassure myself it's cool. I am up for blindfolds etc but surely there is some way I can find out from the lady personally that she wants this. Many thanks people. P.s I am still looking for my first meet lol. "

Sound sensible to me mate, also shows you don't think with your cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, O.P here. The request was from a guy who knew the lady in question. I think I'll give it a miss unless the guy is in contact more and I can reassure myself it's cool. I am up for blindfolds etc but surely there is some way I can find out from the lady personally that she wants this. Many thanks people. P.s I am still looking for my first meet lol.

Sound sensible to me mate, also shows you don't think with your cock! "

Echo that......and best of luck with your future meets

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Hi, O.P here. The request was from a guy who knew the lady in question. I think I'll give it a miss unless the guy is in contact more and I can reassure myself it's cool. I am up for blindfolds etc but surely there is some way I can find out from the lady personally that she wants this. Many thanks people. P.s I am still looking for my first meet lol.

Sound sensible to me mate, also shows you don't think with your cock!

Echo that......and best of luck with your future meets "

It's really important not to think with you.....ooohhh look, a nice ladies bum!!

...er, where was I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah! haha Yeah I`ve heard it said, God gave us a cock and a brain, but only enough blood to run one at a time ....fait accompli ?

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