FabSwingers.com forum: Posting a face photo...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right, this is awkward to explain...

Firstly, I can't have a face photo on my profile for professional reasons.

But, my messages with face pics don't seem to be going down well, I know I'm not the most attractive guy but still!

So, out of curiosity I'm going to make my face pic public for a while, and you lot can decide whether it's aesthetics letting me down!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Just do it.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

More likely to be an age thing than a face thing... well it is for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, you're a good looking man. It's notoriously difficult for men here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No just not wise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I will only ever message those whom age requirements I meet.

Also, did you notice your profile says ages 48-38? That's mystical.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wouldn't advocate a face picture on here for any reason. The www is exactly as described.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my type to be honest, i like lighter hair and more manly type face. Sorry and no offence meant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many factors that stop people getting in touch.

I wouldn't worry about your looks mate,ensure your profile and pics are on the ball and you'll be fine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're miles away but I just had to say you're a hottie..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, you're a good looking man. It's notoriously difficult for men here."
Never a truer word spoken! Thankyou!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thank you! "

If you use reply+quote bottom right we can see who you're responding to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well if you're ever up in Manchester! Thank you x

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Cute enough, bit young though.

Could be your opening gambit that lets you down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, you're a good looking man. It's notoriously difficult for men here."

This.

Maybe post in the forums more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thank you!

If you use reply+quote bottom right we can see who you're responding to."

Sorry! I've never used the forums properly. I was thanking all, but mainly those complimenting me!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Thank you!

If you use reply+quote bottom right we can see who you're responding to.

Sorry! I've never used the forums properly. I was thanking all, but mainly those complimenting me!"

Apology not needed, we were all new once and trust me I was rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, this is awkward to explain...

Firstly, I can't have a face photo on my profile for professional reasons.

But, my messages with face pics don't seem to be going down well, I know I'm not the most attractive guy but still!

So, out of curiosity I'm going to make my face pic public for a while, and you lot can decide whether it's aesthetics letting me down!

I think you're cute! Not convinced that hair style is right for you - but you're cute! Your face definitely wouldn't put me off meeting you op!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, this is awkward to explain...

Firstly, I can't have a face photo on my profile for professional reasons.

But, my messages with face pics don't seem to be going down well, I know I'm not the most attractive guy but still!

So, out of curiosity I'm going to make my face pic public for a while, and you lot can decide whether it's aesthetics letting me down!

You're an attractive guy but everyone tastes are different. Keep your face pic up or sendit attached wirh every message you send. Dont delete it off your profile

. There are plenty of women on fab so don't let deleted messages or no thank you's put you off. Smile and carry on searching. Happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right, this is awkward to explain...

Firstly, I can't have a face photo on my profile for professional reasons.

But, my messages with face pics don't seem to be going down well, I know I'm not the most attractive guy but still!

So, out of curiosity I'm going to make my face pic public for a while, and you lot can decide whether it's aesthetics letting me down!

I think you're cute! Not convinced that hair style is right for you - but you're cute! Your face definitely wouldn't put me off meeting you op!

Funnily enough, I've just had a haircut. Also, I was looking at your profile yesterday!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

If you're ever in the South West let us know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I will only ever message those whom age requirements I meet.

Also, did you notice your profile says ages 48-38? That's mystical."

Yes. I like to be different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, this is awkward to explain...

Firstly, I can't have a face photo on my profile for professional reasons.

But, my messages with face pics don't seem to be going down well, I know I'm not the most attractive guy but still!

So, out of curiosity I'm going to make my face pic public for a while, and you lot can decide whether it's aesthetics letting me down!

I think you're cute! Not convinced that hair style is right for you - but you're cute! Your face definitely wouldn't put me off meeting you op!

Funnily enough, I've just had a haircut. Also, I was looking at your profile yesterday! "

Oh we're you now??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you're ever in the South West let us know

I'll be sure to, same applies if you're in Manchester!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I will only ever message those whom age requirements I meet.

Also, did you notice your profile says ages 48-38? That's mystical.

Yes. I like to be different.

That accounts for you wearing top hats on your fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I likey

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right, this is awkward to explain...

Firstly, I can't have a face photo on my profile for professional reasons.

But, my messages with face pics don't seem to be going down well, I know I'm not the most attractive guy but still!

So, out of curiosity I'm going to make my face pic public for a while, and you lot can decide whether it's aesthetics letting me down!

You're an attractive guy but everyone tastes are different. Keep your face pic up or sendit attached wirh every message you send. Dont delete it off your profile

. There are plenty of women on fab so don't let deleted messages or no thank you's put you off. Smile and carry on searching. Happy hunting

Thank you! I always attach a face picture, just for professional reasons don't want it on my profile! Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right, this is awkward to explain...

Firstly, I can't have a face photo on my profile for professional reasons.

But, my messages with face pics don't seem to be going down well, I know I'm not the most attractive guy but still!

So, out of curiosity I'm going to make my face pic public for a while, and you lot can decide whether it's aesthetics letting me down!

I think you're cute! Not convinced that hair style is right for you - but you're cute! Your face definitely wouldn't put me off meeting you op!

Funnily enough, I've just had a haircut. Also, I was looking at your profile yesterday!

Oh we're you now??

I was, always get nervous sending a first message. So more often than not talk myself out of it!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I will only ever message those whom age requirements I meet.

Also, did you notice your profile says ages 48-38? That's mystical.

Yes. I like to be different.

That accounts for you wearing top hats on your fingers

It does that!!

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league."

Maybe in your case they don't like, or don't have haribo hehehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I likey"

Feelings mutual!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone who's had input! Pleasantly surprised by the response, and I've definitely been converted to using the forums!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Bit too young for me. Your photo is fine, but looks like a passport photo. Maybe try looking slightly to the side and smile. A more relaxed pic works well. Take a load and then choose the best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That face pic was super cute - where's it gone!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league.

Maybe in your case they don't like, or don't have haribo hehehe

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That's right. I do like haribos don't I, here, have some lol x.

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league.

Maybe in your case they don't like, or don't have haribo hehehe

That's right. I do like haribos don't I, here, have some lol x."

Hehe I only like the cola bottles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago on here it was easy for guys but now it's just full of fakes I had one on Saturday didn't Evan turn up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right, this is awkward to explain...

Firstly, I can't have a face photo on my profile for professional reasons.

But, my messages with face pics don't seem to be going down well, I know I'm not the most attractive guy but still!

So, out of curiosity I'm going to make my face pic public for a while, and you lot can decide whether it's aesthetics letting me down!

I think you're cute! Not convinced that hair style is right for you - but you're cute! Your face definitely wouldn't put me off meeting you op!

Funnily enough, I've just had a haircut. Also, I was looking at your profile yesterday!

Oh we're you now??

Well, it's a good job I didn't try to message you! Seen as a poor student doesn't wish to spend a full four pints on a Thursday on site supporter!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"That face pic was super cute - where's it gone!?"

Sorry! Had to be removed... Though its in my friends pics, and is attached in every message! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a face pic up because I prefer a little privacy.

It's worth it for those I share it with though, coz I'm right bloody gorgeous...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league.

Maybe in your case they don't like, or don't have haribo hehehe

That's right. I do like haribos don't I, here, have some lol x.

Hehe I only like the cola bottles

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Same here, they are my favorites, we have to divide them x

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league.

Maybe in your case they don't like, or don't have haribo hehehe

That's right. I do like haribos don't I, here, have some lol x.

Hehe I only like the cola bottles

Same here, they are my favorites, we have to divide them x"

Id say let's arm wrestle for them but you'd win. That means one for you and two for me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league."

I like your optimism lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league.

Maybe in your case they don't like, or don't have haribo hehehe

That's right. I do like haribos don't I, here, have some lol x."

They have haribo stalls in winter wonderland wanted to run over and shout shagtonight but figured people might think I was asking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, you're a good looking man. It's notoriously difficult for men here.

This.

Maybe post in the forums more.

Oh can I see ur face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed the picture but just based on this thread I think you're cute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league.

Maybe in your case they don't like, or don't have haribo hehehe

That's right. I do like haribos don't I, here, have some lol x.

Hehe I only like the cola bottles

Same here, they are my favorites, we have to divide them x

Id say let's arm wrestle for them but you'd win. That means one for you and two for me!!

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I might of won that one, yeah so I get one and you 2, that's a good deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league.

I like your optimism lol"
lol ty and yes I got lots of optimism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remember, if someone sais no it can more than likely mean we are above their league.

Maybe in your case they don't like, or don't have haribo hehehe

That's right. I do like haribos don't I, here, have some lol x.

They have haribo stalls in winter wonderland wanted to run over and shout shagtonight but figured people might think I was asking lol"
Yes never been there and sounds like lots of haribos and fun, lol they might thought you would ask for it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The concern is unlikely to the your face, more of a concern about maturity at your age. Using places like the forum and lthough it's not as easy in there, the chat rooms, to demonstrate your personality as you have in this thread, will help. I'd be tempted to beef up your profile with imaginative photos (have a look at some of the photos on the guy's profiles who use the forum) and more of what you are interested in and can offer. It is often more about getting known and liked which takes time.

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