FabSwingers.com forum: Spectrum of sexuality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me at least, it very much does exist...and I feel I've travelled from initially being 'straight only' to now, 'mostly straight' or 'bi-situational' ...and the situation tends to involve a sexy bi mf couple (whom I'm attracted to and have built a connection with) as opposed to a single guy.

What I find a little strange - though perhaps it's not all that odd - is that I'm currently mostly attracted to stroking and sucking willies that closely resemble mine...I.e. circumcised and shaven.

I never ever thought that one day I'd enjoy and MMF as much as an MFM!

It's all rather wonderful.

Have any others journeyed through the spectrum..and surprised themselves..?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I think people need to stop taking the piss about what mmf and mfm and fmm means! Us straight guys just think we are getting a fuck!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've gone the other way. I've always been bi all my sexual life then just stopped wanting experiences with women. I now class myself as straight but would never say never, but over the years I've really changed sexually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people need to stop taking the piss about what mmf and mfm and fmm means! Us straight guys just think we are getting a fuck! "

Think of it just like really life.

If the MM'S are touching it's a bit gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've gone the other way. I've always been bi all my sexual life then just stopped wanting experiences with women. I now class myself as straight but would never say never, but over the years I've really changed sexually"

I swing about all over the shop lol.

From bi to straight to my current position of women and TS only.

I've trademarked the term "awesomeosexual" to describe this

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"I think people need to stop taking the piss about what mmf and mfm and fmm means! Us straight guys just think we are getting a fuck!

Think of it just like really life.

If the MM'S are touching it's a bit gay."

honestly, one quick invite and my innocence would be ruined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv always generally been straight. A few times on here over the few years iv been here iv changed it to bi-curious.

Years ago I dry humped a few girl-friends thighs and had a friend randomly kiss me in a club. I often have thoughts about a scenario with a women, but very never been in the position to carry it out.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, I do believe there is a sexual spectrum. I was always totally straight, then overnight as a result of a bi mmf, became bi. These days I tend more towards the straighter end of bisexual but in a bi mmf, will be equally as enthusiastic with the guy as the lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty straight. Never been in a remotely wonky situation.

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By *ustOneNightCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Yeah, definite spectrum.

There was already awareness of it back in the 70s

with Kinsey and his spectrum.

For shorthand, I like to say I'm a Kinsey 2.5 straight woman, but no one ever knows what I'm talking about. lol

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Until we joined fab I would have said I was straight, and was just curious to try women.

Thinking back now, I realise that I've always been bi and just never done anything about it until we got here!

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By *d871Man
over a year ago

nowhere

Very few people are exclusively straight or exclusively gay. Alfred Kinsey devised a scale based upon sexual history that ranged subjects from 0 to 6 (straight to gay) and others have devised similar scales to rate degrees of bisexuality.

Personally, I don't give a toss about labels, just go with the flow. If it feels good, enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't care, but it's easier being a woman because no one else really cares either. I class myself as straight because I'd never seek sex with a woman alone and am not really sexually attracted to women. But if there's a woman there with a man as well then I can enjoy sexual contact with them. But to class myself as bi would be misleading.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I really don't care, but it's easier being a woman because no one else really cares either. I class myself as straight because I'd never seek sex with a woman alone and am not really sexually attracted to women. But if there's a woman there with a man as well then I can enjoy sexual contact with them. But to class myself as bi would be misleading. "

I'm very similar - in the sense that I could enjoy sexual contact with a guy whilst playing with a lady...

With regards to labelling myself bi, on occasion the shoe fits...and bi-situational doesn't exist.

I have never had the emotional feelings of lust or love for a man that I've often had for a woman... Different part of the brain/heart I suppose x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very similar - in the sense that I could enjoy sexual contact with a guy whilst playing with a lady...

With regards to labelling myself bi, on occasion the shoe fits...and bi-situational doesn't exist.

I have never had the emotional feelings of lust or love for a man that I've often had for a woman... Different part of the brain/heart I suppose x"

Bi situational is a good description for me. I didn't want to use curious, because I've done it and I liked it so it's not a curiosity thing. But luckily being female no one minds anyway

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

There's quite a few on the spectrum round here, imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh i wonky for sure - getting wobblier by the day - but im also thick - what is the difference between mfm and mmf? obviously more than a connection between 2 males and a fem - didnt realise the order meant anything

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"There's quite a few on the spectrum round here, imo

At least 48K of them

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By *ustOneNightCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Also, I think there's a difference between sexuality and romance.

So, someone might be bisexual, but hetero-romantic, which would mean they are sexually aroused with other members of the same sex, but wouldn't engage with them on any romantic level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also, I think there's a difference between sexuality and romance.

So, someone might be bisexual, but hetero-romantic, which would mean they are sexually aroused with other members of the same sex, but wouldn't engage with them on any romantic level."

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Also, I think there's a difference between sexuality and romance.

So, someone might be bisexual, but hetero-romantic, which would mean they are sexually aroused with other members of the same sex, but wouldn't engage with them on any romantic level."

That's me

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