FabSwingers.com forum: I've just been dumped !,

By *sm OP Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard

Via text .. And we haven't even met yet

Seems he has found what he was looking for so doesn't need to meet me on Friday

I wasn't sure whether to be upset or relieved ?.!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

well the number of guys on here means you have plenty of options

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Send him one back saying that you were going to dump him anyway.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Considering the track record of many I think he's done well to let you know so far in advance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shock horror......a meet gets cancelled.....by a man

Flipping 'eck. The cheek of the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *-BelleWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

I had exactly the same thing happen to me a while back. The most I could muster was vaguely disappointed!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

The amount of guys I meet who go on to find (off Fab) girlfriends is huge. I'm suspecting its a nice way to let me down to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you'd never met, I'm guessing he didn't have too many other communication avenues?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he's given you notice.

See if anyone on your lists are free to meet instead.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

*texts Kylie to tell her my cat is going to die, and checks train times to Cornwall on Friday

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That's happened to me before but I didn't find out until the night before to see what the plan was for us the next day!! So at least you have time to arrange something else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see the problem myself

If he had of gone to the meet Friday after finding a partner he's have been a cheating bastard

You can't win

Surely if he has found what he's looking for cancelling all meets is the decent and right thing to do?

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By *sm OP Couple
over a year ago

Liskeard

I would understand, but up till last night it was still all , phone calls and whatsap... Can't wait to meet you , boa bla

Not breaking my heart here lol ,,

( besides Ace is on his way to offer comfort and

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

5 days notice so kudos to him! Say it with me, 'Next!' X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate to say it but people change their minds, that's what great about here; you just suck it up and move on.

At least he told you on plenty of time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess he got cold feet lol.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"...

I wasn't sure whether to be upset or relieved ?.!!

( Mods , please note.. not from the site )

I wouldn't be either unless I was about to walk down the aisle with him on Friday

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think 5 days is plenty of time to give to cancel a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I would understand, but up till last night it was still all , phone calls and whatsap... Can't wait to meet you , boa bla

Not breaking my heart here lol ,,

( besides Ace is on his way to offer comfort and

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Yes. Things change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is cancelling a meet dumping someone now

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Had three meets arranged for today. All canceled. I win

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i'd be relieved .im sure your life will be better having not met him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does that mean he dumped you

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'd be more pissed off if he hadn't txt'd to cancel... The poor bloke was damned from the start, whatever he did, he'd end up being the topic on a thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is cancelling a meet dumping someone now

Only in the melodramatic world that is Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" i'd be relieved .im sure your life will be better having not met him "

Indeed

How dare anyone find someone they want a relationship with!

They should all be at the constant beck and call of us horny folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is definitely one of those threads that would have gone very different had the genders being reversed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be more pissed off if he hadn't txt'd to cancel... The poor bloke was damned from the start, whatever he did, he'd end up being the topic on a thread

There might be another thread on another site saying "met the most fantasic man ever, love at first sight were getting married next week"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say you were dumped ..I would say a guy as told you he doesn't want to meet you ..end off ..and good on that man for doing so. But like many he's damned if he did and damned if he didn't .

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I'd be more pissed off if he hadn't txt'd to cancel... The poor bloke was damned from the start, whatever he did, he'd end up being the topic on a thread

There might be another thread on another site saying "met the most fantasic man ever, love at first sight were getting married next week"

Shotgun wedding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is definitely one of those threads that would have gone very different had the genders being reversed"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being 'dumped' 8 times in one week and only four of them told me in advance, that was a knock right there!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"This is definitely one of those threads that would have gone very different had the genders being reversed"

I very much doubt a man would have posted it in the first place.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Tell him it's a shame he's missed out on the great sex and it's a shame that you can't say the same about him.

Yeah , bitchy I know

C...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...when you say "dumped" do you mean you were going on a proper date or meeting for NSA sex?

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Tell him it's a shame he's missed out on the great sex and it's a shame that you can't say the same about him.

Yeah , bitchy I know

C..."

Why? What's the point in that... Seriously!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Tell him it's a shame he's missed out on the great sex and it's a shame that you can't say the same about him.

Yeah , bitchy I know

C...

Why? What's the point in that... Seriously!

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because it sounded funny

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Tell him it's a shame he's missed out on the great sex and it's a shame that you can't say the same about him.

Yeah , bitchy I know

C..."
why would you be bitchy, what has he done wrong?

Oh cancelled on a woman by giving her plenty of notice. If it is because he has met someone maybe he should of sneaked around cheating on a new relationship.

I do seriously wonder more and more aboit people.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I want a *shakes head in disbelieve* emoticon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell him it's a shame he's missed out on the great sex and it's a shame that you can't say the same about him.

Yeah , bitchy I know

C..."

Pretty pathetic more than bitchy. Why not just wish him well in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip my hat off to the guy for having a little respect and manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shock horror......a meet gets cancelled.....by a man

Flipping 'eck. The cheek of the guy. "

[Sarcasm mode engaged] Flippin eck.. I was amazed that he let the OP know instead of just leaving her hanging as is the want of soooo many single guys[/sarcasm]

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It's a comment empathising with the OP

Get a sense of humour

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Tell him it's a shame he's missed out on the great sex and it's a shame that you can't say the same about him.

Yeah , bitchy I know

C...

Pretty pathetic more than bitchy. Why not just wish him well in life. "

More likely posting something to gage a reaction rather than actually meaning it possibly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell him it's a shame he's missed out on the great sex and it's a shame that you can't say the same about him.

Yeah , bitchy I know

C...

Why? What's the point in that... Seriously!

because it sounded funny"

But it's not funny. It doesn't even make sense for a start.

It's a shame he missed out on great sex (ok)

And it's a shame you can't say the same about him (eh? Say what?)

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"It's a comment empathising with the OP

Get a sense of humour"

Why does she need empathising with? The poor man has done nothing wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a comment empathising with the OP

Get a sense of humour"

But it wasn't funny? Or nice.

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By *urreycouple69Couple
over a year ago

Caterham

Well, my thoughts an honest guy quite refreshing really, I would be pleased for him and not offended.

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

Soo.... You're free Friday then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a comment empathising with the OP

Get a sense of humour"

What if it had been a guy moaning about being dumped??? Jeez no wonder some guys find it a battle

Hats off to him and I wish him well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems a quick turnaround to me from phoning and looking forward to meeting the OP to straight away apparently having found all they need and being out of the game, but some people do throw themselves head first into relationships so that could be what's happened. At least he let you know in time to arrange something else with your day. On to the next

(Yes, I'd say the same to a man

, do we need to caveat everything with that now?)

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Someone cancelled a week in advance?

Polite and decent thing to do if he's met someone.

Not really understanding why you think you've been dumped OP... or indeed why you felt the need to post a thread on a different site talking about someone having good manners... or is this one of those positive 'single men can be decent' threads?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"It seems a quick turnaround to me from phoning and looking forward to meeting the OP to straight away apparently having found all they need and being out of the game, but some people do throw themselves head first into relationships so that could be what's happened. At least he let you know in time to arrange something else with your day. On to the next

(Yes, I'd say the same to a man

, do we need to caveat everything with that now?) "

Yes, but please abbreviate it to, "say the STAM" (that does not mean, surface to air missile)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" or is this one of those positive 'single men can be decent' threads?

I thought it was a single woman being maybe a little possessive and having a ridiculous sense of entitlement thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a meet with a guy on Friday.

Only planned it yesterday

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Got a meet with a guy on Friday.

Only planned it yesterday

When is the wedding?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Got a meet with a guy on Friday.

Only planned it yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Via text .. And we haven't even met yet

Seems he has found what he was looking for so doesn't need to meet me on Friday

I wasn't sure whether to be upset or relieved ?.!! "

At least he let you know!

And via txt was probably the least awkward way of saying that he couldn't or no longer wanted to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a meet with a guy on Friday.

Only planned it yesterday

When is the wedding?

The Friday after

Wanna be a bridesmaid?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me those seeking relationships will naturally prioritise that over NSA and also potential better matches to what they seek. Having a meet cancelled with that much notice is very reasonable in my opinion and unsurprising. When I was interested in meeting it happened a few times with much shorter notice. C'est la vie!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Got a meet with a guy on Friday.

Only planned it yesterday

When is the wedding?

The Friday after

Wanna be a bridesmaid?

Would have loved to but I think that is when he is meeting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got a meet with a guy on Friday.

Only planned it yesterday

When is the wedding?

The Friday after

Wanna be a bridesmaid?

Would have loved to but I think that is when he is meeting me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Yes, I'd say the same to a man

, do we need to caveat everything with that now?)

Yes, but please abbreviate it to, "say the STAM" (that does not mean, surface to air missile)

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The amount of guys I meet who go on to find (off Fab) girlfriends is huge. I'm suspecting its a nice way to let me down to be honest."

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