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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My daughter is leaving London today to move back home to Lincolnshire today. But over the past few months she has got to know a homeless girl who sits outside the store where she worked. Over the time she has bought her coffee, given her food took her to buy food, and given her some of her old unwanted clothes and shoes etc. Today she went into town and went to visit the young girl and explain that she is moving and the girl was very upset to hear the news and thanked my daughter for all she had done. My daughter with the deposit she got back from her flat had booked her a room in a hotel for the night and given her money for food. I thought that was such a kind thing to do. But she has not just booked her in for one night she has booked her in for three nights over Christmas. I sobbed when she told me. as she said it was money worth spending. Like she said who knows it could be her one day in that same situation as the young girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats wonderful. Every time a bell rings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a daughter to be proud of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very kind. You've raised a beautiful soul. Xx

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

How heartwarming to read of your daughters kindness to someone less fortunate. Congratulations on bringing up a remarkable young lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter is leaving London today to move back home to Lincolnshire today. But over the past few months she has got to know a homeless girl who sits outside the store where she worked. Over the time she has bought her coffee, given her food took her to buy food, and given her some of her old unwanted clothes and shoes etc. Today she went into town and went to visit the young girl and explain that she is moving and the girl was very upset to hear the news and thanked my daughter for all she had done. My daughter with the deposit she got back from her flat had booked her a room in a hotel for the night and given her money for food. I thought that was such a kind thing to do. But she has not just booked her in for one night she has booked her in for three nights over Christmas. I sobbed when she told me. as she said it was money worth spending. Like she said who knows it could be her one day in that same situation as the young girl "

That's such a beautiful story. Your daughter sounds so lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely x

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By *rmrsgyCouple
over a year ago

cleethorpes


"My daughter is leaving London today to move back home to Lincolnshire today. But over the past few months she has got to know a homeless girl who sits outside the store where she worked. Over the time she has bought her coffee, given her food took her to buy food, and given her some of her old unwanted clothes and shoes etc. Today she went into town and went to visit the young girl and explain that she is moving and the girl was very upset to hear the news and thanked my daughter for all she had done. My daughter with the deposit she got back from her flat had booked her a room in a hotel for the night and given her money for food. I thought that was such a kind thing to do. But she has not just booked her in for one night she has booked her in for three nights over Christmas. I sobbed when she told me. as she said it was money worth spending. Like she said who knows it could be her one day in that same situation as the young girl "

Respect to a lovely kind hearted young woman,we couldn't ask for better people in Lincs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats lovely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats wonderful. Every time a bell rings. "

Ask not for whom the bell tolls.

It tolls for thee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's not many people around like your daughter. She sounds a very warm kind hearted person. There should be more around like her. You should be very proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parenting done well

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

What a lovely and caring young lady, pity there aren't more like her around. All credit to you

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"My daughter is leaving London today to move back home to Lincolnshire today. But over the past few months she has got to know a homeless girl who sits outside the store where she worked. Over the time she has bought her coffee, given her food took her to buy food, and given her some of her old unwanted clothes and shoes etc. Today she went into town and went to visit the young girl and explain that she is moving and the girl was very upset to hear the news and thanked my daughter for all she had done. My daughter with the deposit she got back from her flat had booked her a room in a hotel for the night and given her money for food. I thought that was such a kind thing to do. But she has not just booked her in for one night she has booked her in for three nights over Christmas. I sobbed when she told me. as she said it was money worth spending. Like she said who knows it could be her one day in that same situation as the young girl "

Blown away by this - she is an inspiration to all!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Very admirable!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a lovely gesture. You must be very proud of her. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter is leaving London today to move back home to Lincolnshire today. But over the past few months she has got to know a homeless girl who sits outside the store where she worked. Over the time she has bought her coffee, given her food took her to buy food, and given her some of her old unwanted clothes and shoes etc. Today she went into town and went to visit the young girl and explain that she is moving and the girl was very upset to hear the news and thanked my daughter for all she had done. My daughter with the deposit she got back from her flat had booked her a room in a hotel for the night and given her money for food. I thought that was such a kind thing to do. But she has not just booked her in for one night she has booked her in for three nights over Christmas. I sobbed when she told me. as she said it was money worth spending. Like she said who knows it could be her one day in that same situation as the young girl "

Wow thats an amazing gesture...you should be very very proud of her...us Lincolnshire do have hearts

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

That's very heart warming

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

That's so lovely to hear you must be very proud.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

What a kind heart she has.. you must be very proud.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Iv always been proud of her. But what she has done is beyond me being proud. Not many 24 year olds would think like that. They would thing holidays clothes nights out. She certainly does have a good soul. She says she will continue with this as she has a trusted friend who she will transfer money to one a month to buy the young girl hit food and drinks.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You have a great daughter,my worry is the girl living going back to being on the streets

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley


"Iv always been proud of her. But what she has done is beyond me being proud. Not many 24 year olds would think like that. They would thing holidays clothes nights out. She certainly does have a good soul. She says she will continue with this as she has a trusted friend who she will transfer money to one a month to buy the young girl hit food and drinks. "

These kind gestures have a habit of returning the favour one day. I do hope that life changes for the homeless girl and she in turn helps others.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Your daughter is a lovely person and your influence may too have made her into that lovely person; God bless both; xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a great daughter,my worry is the girl living going back to being on the streets"

At least she will have a warm bed tonight and over Christmas and hit food. I know it's no the poor girl will be back on the streets but what can we do. It has made me stop and think more about the homeless and the homeless charities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must be very proud of her, what a lovely thing to do!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You have a great daughter,my worry is the girl living going back to being on the streets

At least she will have a warm bed tonight and over Christmas and hit food. I know it's no the poor girl will be back on the streets but what can we do. It has made me stop and think more about the homeless and the homeless charities. "

I don't think we fully appreciate at times what we have do we,your daughter did a very caring thing and if it wasn't for people like her the country would be in a worst state. Much much more needs to be done for people with no warm home to go to,I myself are guilty of forgetting there's people out there that need basic needs filling when I shut my door at the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a great daughter,my worry is the girl living going back to being on the streets

At least she will have a warm bed tonight and over Christmas and hit food. I know it's no the poor girl will be back on the streets but what can we do. It has made me stop and think more about the homeless and the homeless charities.

I don't think we fully appreciate at times what we have do we,your daughter did a very caring thing and if it wasn't for people like her the country would be in a worst state. Much much more needs to be done for people with no warm home to go to,I myself are guilty of forgetting there's people out there that need basic needs filling when I shut my door at the end of the day."

I think most of us are guilty of doing that including me. But I have promised my daughter that instead of buying that £50 dress that will just hang in my wardrobe, I will pay for another nights hotel for the young girl

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There are days when there is so much crap going on in the world and sometimes I wonder when it will end. Or how.

Then there are days when my faith in human nature is wholly restored. You're right to be super proud. That's made my heart smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How lovely

You must be so proud

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You have a great daughter,my worry is the girl living going back to being on the streets

At least she will have a warm bed tonight and over Christmas and hit food. I know it's no the poor girl will be back on the streets but what can we do. It has made me stop and think more about the homeless and the homeless charities.

I don't think we fully appreciate at times what we have do we,your daughter did a very caring thing and if it wasn't for people like her the country would be in a worst state. Much much more needs to be done for people with no warm home to go to,I myself are guilty of forgetting there's people out there that need basic needs filling when I shut my door at the end of the day.

I think most of us are guilty of doing that including me. But I have promised my daughter that instead of buying that £50 dress that will just hang in my wardrobe, I will pay for another nights hotel for the young girl"

I remember reading an autobiography some years ago about a woman's early years how she'd overcome all the trauma and poverty she had experienced. The authorities sent her on a weeks holiday to the seaside and all she had to take was the clothes she stood up in and a hairbrush. It made me feel pretty rubbish when I look at my toiletry bag I take anywhere just for an overnight stay. We're programmed to need every little item possible for every part of our body,maybe if we experienced living on the streets we'd quickly realise what was more important especially with Xmas coming and how excessive we are.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

That's brought a tear to my eye xx I have 24 yr old cousins & can't see them doing anything like that!

We're just sorting through toys, games & books that are no longer used to give to children at our Women's Refuge. I can't do much but every little helps xx

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

This helps restore my faith in humanity Sounds like you've raised a fine young woman there OP. What a lovely story

Pride will vanish

And glory will rot

But virtue lives

And cannot be forgot

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

What a lovely thing to do. So nice that there is still kindness like this in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a really nice thing for your daughter to do xx

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

What a nice thing for your daughter to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How wonderful, you should be so proud. What a lovely person your daughter is xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you brought her up very well indeed. Much respect to you both x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Awwww that's just so lovely to hear. You must be very proud of her

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole


"My daughter is leaving London today to move back home to Lincolnshire today. But over the past few months she has got to know a homeless girl who sits outside the store where she worked. Over the time she has bought her coffee, given her food took her to buy food, and given her some of her old unwanted clothes and shoes etc. Today she went into town and went to visit the young girl and explain that she is moving and the girl was very upset to hear the news and thanked my daughter for all she had done. My daughter with the deposit she got back from her flat had booked her a room in a hotel for the night and given her money for food. I thought that was such a kind thing to do. But she has not just booked her in for one night she has booked her in for three nights over Christmas. I sobbed when she told me. as she said it was money worth spending. Like she said who knows it could be her one day in that same situation as the young girl "

That is so nice.

So many people aren't thankful for the life we lead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet your proud ...you should be, what a lovely lady you've raised heart warming

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all. I wish I could take all the credit for the way she was raised. But I have my mum and late dad to thank a lot for. Without them guiding me And helping me I don't know how I would have coped. But I do know she has a lot of my good traits. As nearly 6 years ago I gave up everything, my job, my relationship, my social life everything to care for my mum after she had a massive stroke resulting in her being left disabled virtually me having to do everything. So I suppose a lot is how we bring our children up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all. I wish I could take all the credit for the way she was raised. But I have my mum and late dad to thank a lot for. Without them guiding me And helping me I don't know how I would have coped. But I do know she has a lot of my good traits. As nearly 6 years ago I gave up everything, my job, my relationship, my social life everything to care for my mum after she had a massive stroke resulting in her being left disabled virtually me having to do everything. So I suppose a lot is how we bring our children up "

I wanted to pm you but can't due to your filters, but wanted to say that I am in similar circumstances and although it is tough, we can only do our best, and I think your best has obviously been above and beyond good enough, as I hope mine has too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a positive story,OP your Daughter is a star and so are you as you brought her up with good morals etc.

In the world of hate we sometimes live in its nice to know random acts of kindness still happen.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

OP, you and your extended family raised a good un..

lovely story and be rightly proud of her..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op

Your daughter is a wonderful young woman. Your story really touched me .

I helped out at a food bank today, I had not intended too. I was in the local community center. The food bank was in another room . They were short of helpers due to the weather.the people who came were in dire need of support . One young mum had not eaten for two days . She used her food for her children. Her selflessness also touched me so gave her the cash I had planned to buy a good bottle of wine with. Her need was greater . I told her to get something for her self a treat for tonight. She said she would spend it on an electricity card.

Its the time of year to show you care, not just about family and friends but every one. So may I humbly ask you if you have a fee spare quid when shopping , and I know times are tight. Pick up some extra shopping and drop it off at your local food bank . They do such amazing work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's brought tears to my eyes. How wonderful!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How proud you must be.

The food bank centre is only across the carpark from me but tescos have a trolly about once a month to fill. I spend about £15 and by pasta and tins of soup and basic beans ect, its amazing how much you can get.

I will also do one big shop for them before Christmas and take it to the centre.

I did a good deed yesterday, I sat next to a girl on the train she was about 25 I guess and she had just been released from prison and was on her way home. She didn't say what she had done but served three months, she had lost her home and job but had a friends she could stay at.

The train journey was about an hour and I was just talking to her about not giving up hope and people give second chances and that she could get help. She seemed a pleasant enough person and when she got off seemed more full of hope, I gave her £10 to get some breakfast as that was the only cash I had on me.

I'd love to know that she is going to do OK for herself

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

Can only reiterate all the positive and good wishes the others have previously said, such kindness is rare in this day and age and it's a pleasure to hear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a heart touching thread

Have read a few times thought out the day

Brought tears to my eyes each time

I can't afford it give financially at the moment due to being unemployed but give my time. Volunteering on Christmas Day at a care home.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

I'm in tears, & I'm ashamed that I have never been as good a person as your daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a wonderful message and a great thing to do. We have helped feed the homeless locally at xmas.

What we hate about London are the number of people pretending to be homeless.

1. At my ex wife's work (a magic circle law firm) they found a trainee on £48k who was making nearly that a week begging at kings cross. He was thankfully released when they found out.

2. We have someone locally who drives to a supermarket. camps down with a sleeping bag and a sign and his dog and again makes a very good living from people who think he is genuinely homeless. We only found out from street life.

Not everyone is as they appear but in this case more impressive is the way that your daughter helped. It is impressive how much time she spent rather than throwing money at the problem carelessly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter is leaving London today to move back home to Lincolnshire today. But over the past few months she has got to know a homeless girl who sits outside the store where she worked. Over the time she has bought her coffee, given her food took her to buy food, and given her some of her old unwanted clothes and shoes etc. Today she went into town and went to visit the young girl and explain that she is moving and the girl was very upset to hear the news and thanked my daughter for all she had done. My daughter with the deposit she got back from her flat had booked her a room in a hotel for the night and given her money for food. I thought that was such a kind thing to do. But she has not just booked her in for one night she has booked her in for three nights over Christmas. I sobbed when she told me. as she said it was money worth spending. Like she said who knows it could be her one day in that same situation as the young girl "

Your daughter is a credit to you. What a fantastic thing to do. People like her make the world a better place. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter is leaving London today to move back home to Lincolnshire today. But over the past few months she has got to know a homeless girl who sits outside the store where she worked. Over the time she has bought her coffee, given her food took her to buy food, and given her some of her old unwanted clothes and shoes etc. Today she went into town and went to visit the young girl and explain that she is moving and the girl was very upset to hear the news and thanked my daughter for all she had done. My daughter with the deposit she got back from her flat had booked her a room in a hotel for the night and given her money for food. I thought that was such a kind thing to do. But she has not just booked her in for one night she has booked her in for three nights over Christmas. I sobbed when she told me. as she said it was money worth spending. Like she said who knows it could be her one day in that same situation as the young girl "

Just a "little" lump in my throat now.

You must be immensely proud, and rightly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww a mixture of feelings welled up when i read that - first of all you have raised a lovely person up in this awful world- second gave me faith in human nature - third what a joy that other girl is going to feel - all wonderful and heartwarming xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Op

Your daughter is a wonderful young woman. Your story really touched me .

I helped out at a food bank today, I had not intended too. I was in the local community center. The food bank was in another room . They were short of helpers due to the weather.the people who came were in dire need of support . One young mum had not eaten for two days . She used her food for her children. Her selflessness also touched me so gave her the cash I had planned to buy a good bottle of wine with. Her need was greater . I told her to get something for her self a treat for tonight. She said she would spend it on an electricity card.

Its the time of year to show you care, not just about family and friends but every one. So may I humbly ask you if you have a fee spare quid when shopping , and I know times are tight. Pick up some extra shopping and drop it off at your local food bank . They do such amazing work

"

This.

And all of the other good stuff Fabbers have been inspired to do too.

One girls actions cause a ripple of good.

The ripple causes a tide and soon we're moving oceans.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

that is such a lovely thing to do

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

must be some sort of award you could nominate her for as such a lovely thing to do

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