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By *ustme1xxx OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

Here we go. And here come all the comments to go along with it when somebody simply asks a question.

Been in a loving swinging relationship for 2 1/2 years and sadly broke up about 2 months back.

Lost my business recently and now contemplating bankcrupcy.

Has anyone been in a similar situation, I just can't seem to pick myself up from it..... No not feeling sorry for myself just asking if anyone has been through a similar situation.

Please don't post nasty negative things, all I want is advice xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak to your doctor. there's a lot of emotional support out there, you can refer yourself for it.

A lot of people have made it through what you're experiencing. You will too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are with you

I recently come out of a 24 year marriage

Moved house and then got made reduduant 8 weeks ago

So not great

I had good days and bad days

But trying to stay positive. At least I have my health

I cry most days

But talk to your doctor x

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Put yourself first. Everything else can fuck off. Be the centre of your own universe. Make this a catalyst for change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My thoughts are with you

I recently come out of a 24 year marriage

Moved house and then got made reduduant 8 weeks ago

So not great

I had good days and bad days

But trying to stay positive. At least I have my health

I cry most days

But talk to your doctor x"

and talk to peeps who have a good ear

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By *ustme1xxx OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

Thankyou for all your nice words, don't know what I am looking for but, it's nice to know peolpe give a damn xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I make myself bankrupt if I have sweet FA and debts that just appear out of nowhere?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I make myself bankrupt if I have sweet FA and debts that just appear out of nowhere?"

You have to apply for a bankruptcy order. It's a year long process, and it's not easy going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I make myself bankrupt if I have sweet FA and debts that just appear out of nowhere?"

Also, debts don't just appear. Seek help with your spending. CAB can advise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I make myself bankrupt if I have sweet FA and debts that just appear out of nowhere?

Also, debts don't just appear. Seek help with your spending. CAB can advise. "

Its from over paid tax credits 5 years ago when I was with my ex. But I only received first letter today stating this is a final warning

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Advice on what?

Breaking up socks the big one and hurts like hell but if it was the right thing to do then good things will come.

Never been made bankrupt myself but know someone who has been ad they are now a very successful accountant so although it is a big deal it isn't necessarily a life ruining moment.

Focus on you for a while. Don't jump into any rebound situations and get proper advice on the bankruptcy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can I make myself bankrupt if I have sweet FA and debts that just appear out of nowhere?

Also, debts don't just appear. Seek help with your spending. CAB can advise.

Its from over paid tax credits 5 years ago when I was with my ex. But I only received first letter today stating this is a final warning "

Then call them and talk it over. They'd rather you paid than take you to court. If it was a mistake on their part, they'll possibly show leniency.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Its from over paid tax credits 5 years ago when I was with my ex. But I only received first letter today stating this is a final warning "

I'd speak to the CAB before talking to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My thoughts are with you

I recently come out of a 24 year marriage

Moved house and then got made reduduant 8 weeks ago

So not great

I had good days and bad days

But trying to stay positive. At least I have my health

I cry most days

But talk to your doctor x"

You have my number V and I've told you I'm a good listener and always there if you need a chat that's what friends are for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its from over paid tax credits 5 years ago when I was with my ex. But I only received first letter today stating this is a final warning

I'd speak to the CAB before talking to anyone."

Yeh that's my plan

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Has anyone been in a similar situation, I just can't seem to pick myself up from it..... No not feeling sorry for myself just asking if anyone has been through a similar situation."

I was with someone for 22 years. Even though it was the right thing to do, and long overdue, when I left him my world seemed to collapse around me.

Emotional and financial problems galore. My best friend said at the time "it won't always be this bad". I believed her as she's always right

I'm now over 4 years on and life has been great for at least a couple of years.

So OP, you will get through it, life will be good again and you'll forget the bad times. The trick now is to allow yourself to look after yourself properly.

And if that means seeing the GP or getting advice elsewhere then do it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Its from over paid tax credits 5 years ago when I was with my ex. But I only received first letter today stating this is a final warning

I'd speak to the CAB before talking to anyone.

Yeh that's my plan "

They can be fantastic or crap depending on the office, so if you don't feel confident try another office

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