FabSwingers.com forum: compliments

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When I meet women (not meet but interact) out and about such as in a supermarket or pub, I sometimes tell them that they are very attractive.

I have never had an adverse reaction but I am always nervous about saying anything in case I do get a negative response, and so often stay schtum.

How would/do ladies on here react if a stranger commented positively on their appearance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I meet women (not meet but interact) out and about such as in a supermarket or pub, I sometimes tell them that they are very attractive.

I have never had an adverse reaction but I am always nervous about saying anything in case I do get a negative response, and so often stay schtum.

How would/do ladies on here react if a stranger commented positively on their appearance?

I never get any compliments so I'm not quite sure what my reaction would be. Soz no help I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be flatte_ed but my normal response is humour.

Something like "Have you forgotten your glasses today?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not very good at accepting compliments - not sure whether its years of being made to feel crap by the ex that i never believe it when people say nice things about me - or whether im so mistrusting that i dont take it for what it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I meet women (not meet but interact) out and about such as in a supermarket or pub, I sometimes tell them that they are very attractive.

I have never had an adverse reaction but I am always nervous about saying anything in case I do get a negative response, and so often stay schtum.

How would/do ladies on here react if a stranger commented positively on their appearance?

I never get any compliments so I'm not quite sure what my reaction would be. Soz no help I know. "

Sorry to hear that, and surprised to hear that.

Would PM you but I'm too old lol.

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

"When I meet women (not meet but interact) out and about such as in a supermarket or pub, I sometimes tell them that they are very attractive.

I have never had an adverse reaction but I am always nervous about saying anything in case I do get a negative response, and so often stay schtum.

How would/do ladies on here react if a stranger commented positively on their appearance?

Need to say first what your compliments might be.

Big difference between 'what a lovely smile' and 'great tits'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I meet women (not meet but interact) out and about such as in a supermarket or pub, I sometimes tell them that they are very attractive.

I have never had an adverse reaction but I am always nervous about saying anything in case I do get a negative response, and so often stay schtum.

How would/do ladies on here react if a stranger commented positively on their appearance?

I never get any compliments so I'm not quite sure what my reaction would be. Soz no help I know.

Sorry to hear that, and surprised to hear that.

Would PM you but I'm too old lol."

It's true. I guess it comes of being with an ex that liked to put me down at every opportunity. But thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can take compliments when I sense they're genuine. As long as he doesn't think I'm going to fall at his feet and show my gratitude I'll say thank you. I compliment men when something stands out as being complimentary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once complimented a total stranger at London Bridge station.

She was beautiful, but quirky and I complimented her on her 'fabulous shoes'

A very pleasant coffee & chat happened, but nothing further...

Shame...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Need to say first what your compliments might be.

Big difference between 'what a lovely smile' and 'great tits'

I take your point.

Usually calling the lady gorgeous or sexy. They can choose to ignore it or respond.

And I do say that quite often it's not the pretty women with a good figure that I find the most attractive, sometimes the ladies who are a bit plain or larger physically just ooze sexuality to me!

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

If a random man gave me a compliment I'd think he was taking the piss. I'm terrible at accepting compliments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love compliments, so if anyone approaches me with them i say thanks. I get a lot about my tattoos and my rainbow hair or overall look, mostly from women.

Been chatted up in shops by guys and it doesn't bother me and had some nice chats while walking round doing my shopping but it's usually guys i don't fancy so nothing comes of it.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

I used to freak and be sarcastic too but now I'd just grin and say thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I meet women (not meet but interact) out and about such as in a supermarket or pub, I sometimes tell them that they are very attractive.

I have never had an adverse reaction but I am always nervous about saying anything in case I do get a negative response, and so often stay schtum.

How would/do ladies on here react if a stranger commented positively on their appearance?

i smile and say thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd blush smile and say thank you. If I liked I thought the same if tell you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time i smiled at someone in the supermarket a little fart popped out and it was the loudest I'd ever heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I smile at members of the opposite sex x they look and run ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It very rarely happens to me (in good at being invisible), but if it does I just smile and say thank you. Unless it's something inappropriate like 'nice arse', then I just ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say "that's a smashing blouse you're wearing" if nothing else, it's gets a laugh.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I always say thank you as I think it takes a lot for some guys to give compliments like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how I'd react. It's never happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I thought it was a genuine compliment I would smile & say thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember the last time I got a genuine compliment, not counting Fab ones. I was wearing a shirt at a party that received one. The woman liked it so much she unbuttoned it and nearly had it off my back just to see the label. But that was the shirt not me

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"If I thought it was a genuine compliment I would smile & say thank you."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have a great butt, because every time I finish talking to someone and start to walk away. I hear them whisper "What an ass!!"

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