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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once. So hence why I said, is it really worth it?" If you have messaged her once, personally I wouldn't bother again. | |||
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once. So hence why I said, is it really worth it?" If you've already messaged her and she hasn't responded take it as a not interested and move on. | |||
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once. So hence why I said, is it really worth it? If you've already messaged her and she hasn't responded take it as a not interested and move on. " ^ This. But maybe you were 'bulk deleted' if she gets loads of messages. It's one of those 'can't win' situations really. If you don't message again then in reality she may never have even seen it under a bulk delete. If she opened it and read it and no response - definitely not interested. But if it was just deleted unopened possibly wait a while to endure an appropriate passage of time and try politely one more time - if ignored again then definitely no chance! Damned if you do, Damned if you don't on this one I think! | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x" What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week? | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?" I do. Actually I've done that twice in the past week. | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?" I send first messages frequently. | |||
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once. So hence why I said, is it really worth it? If you have messaged her once, personally I wouldn't bother again." ![]() | |||
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"Has her message been read? How long ago did you send it? If it was more than three days ago and it hasn't been read or deleted, I'd send another." My experience has been you'll get blocked. If not read after 3 days and they've been online...they just trying to be nice instead of honest. Move on...its a woman's world on here and you'll need to search harder...go into forums and join in if you see someone in there that's nice...be nice and reference to their comment in a positive way...It'll get her attention. | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?" Some women do .. ![]() | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week? I do. Actually I've done that twice in the past week." Oh, no... wait. Three times actually ![]() | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() What of you don't have a tea cosy ha ha | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?" I never used to but someone convinced me it was the way forward apparently | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() write her user name on your cock. ![]() | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() ![]() Ha ha it's only 7 inches | |||
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"Is it really worth it? " Never!!! Message more than once dude | |||
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"Funny thing is this person might of wrote on this forum " Well it's not me ![]() | |||
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"If you've sent a message and it has been read and ignored she's clearly forgotten to reply so needs a reminder. Or 12. One every 10 minutes. Or Just leave it. " Yeah, that's how you wore me down Stalky McStalkerson. ![]() | |||
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"Funny thing is this person might of wrote on this forum " get writing her name on your cock then, have that pic as your profile pic, she won;t miss it then. ![]() | |||
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"Funny thing is this person might of wrote on this forum get writing her name on your cock then, have that pic as your profile pic, she won;t miss it then. ![]() Send me a private message who you think. | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?" I do but they often get read and deleted ![]() | |||
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"Send me a private message who you think." Oh, very subtle ![]() | |||
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"Send me a private message who you think. Oh, very subtle ![]() Ha ha ![]() | |||
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"Funny thing is this person might of wrote on this forum get writing her name on your cock then, have that pic as your profile pic, she won;t miss it then. ![]() If i have to. plus if i can tell then so will she probably... ![]() | |||
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"Send me a private message who you think. Oh, very subtle ![]() ![]() oh nvm, i guessed someone else actually. ![]() | |||
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"Funny thing is this person might of wrote on this forum get writing her name on your cock then, have that pic as your profile pic, she won;t miss it then. ![]() ![]() Well you never know | |||
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"Send me a private message who you think. If i have to. plus if i can tell then so will she probably... ![]() If she's posted on the thread, then there's no need for the second message - she'll figure it out and act accordingly. | |||
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"If you've sent a message and it has been read and ignored she's clearly forgotten to reply so needs a reminder. Or 12. One every 10 minutes. Or Just leave it. Yeah, that's how you wore me down Stalky McStalkerson. ![]() It was hypnotic 'shag Steve....shag Steve.....shag Steve..." ![]() | |||
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"Send me a private message who you think. Oh, very subtle ![]() ![]() ![]() Maybe you should pm me! ![]() | |||
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"Send me a private message who you think. Oh, very subtle ![]() That's my guess too ![]() | |||
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"Just message. She can only say no ![]() He may have rejection issues ![]() | |||
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once. So hence why I said, is it really worth it?" Always send another message. (Just not another fifty) | |||
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"Send me a private message who you think. Oh, very subtle ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha i nearly did as well. ![]() | |||
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"I hate it when I look at a profile and notice that I have actually sent a message months ago but haven't a clue what it was about ![]() ![]() That's what the private notes are for. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Send me a private message who you think. Oh, very subtle ![]() ![]() You're my second choice! ![]() | |||
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" ![]() ![]() He started it, miss! Besides, it's not a guess. I'm certain... ![]() | |||
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" ![]() ![]() ![]() No, you neither confirmed or denied. Which was suitably discreet, I thought.... | |||
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention. " True. North Yorkshire | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week? I do. Actually I've done that twice in the past week. Oh, no... wait. Three times actually ![]() Damn and I was hoping it was me but nope...empty again... .. ![]() | |||
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"Do we know who it is yet? " I do ![]() | |||
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"Send me a private message who you think. If i have to. plus if i can tell then so will she probably... ![]() Hopefully ![]() | |||
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"Its a green light until you're blocked! ![]() I'm picturing you saying that whilst stroking your twidley ends..... ![]() | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() Do this and follow around Tesco's she will take it as a compliment ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention. True. North Yorkshire" Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess. Coz both people have ***l... | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week?" Me ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention. True. North Yorkshire Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess. Coz both people have ***l..." It's not me, the op has never messaged me before. It's the other North Yorkshire lady with the ***l ![]() | |||
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention. True. North Yorkshire Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess. Coz both people have ***l... It's not me, the op has never messaged me before. It's the other North Yorkshire lady with the ***l ![]() but you're north yorkshire. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention. True. North Yorkshire Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess. Coz both people have ***l... It's not me, the op has never messaged me before. It's the other North Yorkshire lady with the ***l ![]() ![]() ![]() Gotham's in North Yorkshire ![]() | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() Wow, that is inspired. Shit I've just been arrested for standing outside my neighbours house with a tea cosy. | |||
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"You could have posted your area in the title op, which may have attracted attention. True. North Yorkshire Oh hold on. I think my first choice was right and the other person put too many **** in their guess. Coz both people have ***l... It's not me, the op has never messaged me before. It's the other North Yorkshire lady with the ***l ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() yeah that wasn't obvious haha. oh well now we know. ![]() | |||
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"Its a green light until you're blocked! ![]() Easy Trigger, easy........ | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() ![]() What if she's got a long name? ![]() | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() ![]() ![]() why do you think i made my name so long? if he can't fit it on his cock then i'm not interested. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You never know :P | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Each letter needs to be 1cm long, and a space of 5mm between each letter. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Inbox me who you thought it was | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() haha nope. I know who it was now. ![]() | |||
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"Each letter needs to be 1cm long, and a space of 5mm between each letter. ![]() ![]() Flaccid or tumescent? | |||
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"Write her username on a post-it note, stick it on a tea cosy, pop the tea cosy on your cock and upload a photo. That'll get her attention. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Upper case? ![]() | |||
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"If you have messaged her once, personally I wouldn't bother again." Agree | |||
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"I take it you've messaged before? I would leave it, I would never message more than once if my first message was ignored x What women actually messages first on here? It's a rare and dying breed. Thought they had too many messages to read let alone search and instigate a conversation lol...ok sarcasm over.....but seriously. ..who has in the last week? I do. Actually I've done that twice in the past week." Sorry Harley I really did mean to reply to you but was so flabbergasted that you messaged first I'm still in shock ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Each letter needs to be 1cm long, and a space of 5mm between each letter. ![]() ![]() If you're a grower then while it's hard, a shower i don't mind either way. | |||
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"I should elaborate more. There is a girl on this site who looks amazing but I don't want to cross that line of desparation and message her more than once. So hence why I said, is it really worth it?" If I were her and you messaged me again, I would delete both your messages | |||
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