FabSwingers.com forum: Can you cum without physical stimulation?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is something that has alway's baffled me. Being a young male on here you get a lot of assumptions that you will cum before it begins and it is so frustrating because I personally prefer a long session of 40mins+. But aside from just the accusations young males get, I often see woman saying they cum from just kissing their partner. It's just something I can't get my head around. Same thing with wet dreams, I don't understand how people can cum in their sleep either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my dear man James, only ever happened once in my experience when I was so seriously turned on. I did have a man cum when I literally touched his cock for 5 seconds, that was a crap experience for me as he went floppy and couldn't get it up again

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I need to be touched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this problem with men sometimes, or a man will penetrate me for no more than 2 mins and cum, I know some men can't help it, but an u not train urself or pull out? I don't know? For me I cannot cum with penetration only oral

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had this problem with men sometimes, or a man will penetrate me for no more than 2 mins and cum, I know some men can't help it, but an u not train urself or pull out? I don't know? For me I cannot cum with penetration only oral "

I'm curious to know what makes people different in the fact why some can only cum from oral or masturbation. This makes more sense to me than being able to cum without being touched bug it's still a little strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me clitoral stimulation makes me cum but only with finger penetration also I cannot or will not cum with just one, and it seems it has to be with the tongue nothing else has ever worked, I still enjoy penetration but just have the same effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I (mrs) can and have orgasmed without any physical stimulation but not on a meet x ( as I rarely if ever orgasm on a meet )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is something that has alway's baffled me. Being a young male on here you get a lot of assumptions that you will cum before it begins and it is so frustrating because I personally prefer a long session of 40mins+. But aside from just the accusations young males get, I often see woman saying they cum from just kissing their partner. It's just something I can't get my head around. Same thing with wet dreams, I don't understand how people can cum in their sleep either.

Thoughts?"

Oh I miss my days of wet dreams so of the most amazing orgasms I've had! I guess it's because you're so relaxed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have orgasmed in my sleep before. It's always a really disappointing experience, as just when I really begin to enjoy the dream the orgasm prematurely occurs and I wake up. It's all a bit 'was that it?'

It happened a lot in my year of no sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have orgasmed in my sleep before. It's always a really disappointing experience, as just when I really begin to enjoy the dream the orgasm prematurely occurs and I wake up. It's all a bit 'was that it?'

It happened a lot in my year of no sex."

Really? Wow! I wish!

Only ever orgasm with toys, fingers or a cock. Penetrative sex makes me orgasm most and I can cum repeatedly! So glad I'm not a man! Must be shit not being able to cum over a dozen times in a session! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened a lot in my year of no sex.

Really? Wow! I wish!

It only happens when I haven't had sex for a long time, so it really isn't an enviable ability in my opinion. I'd much rather be able to have lots of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!"

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

*Mental note tickle zoyas feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

*Mental note tickle zoyas feet"

Well it was more stroking softly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

I could have said while he was licking and fingering me but you know I didn't want to be too grotesque!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

I could have said while he was licking and fingering me but you know I didn't want to be too grotesque!!

Not like you lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

I could have said while he was licking and fingering me but you know I didn't want to be too grotesque!!

Not like you lovely

I know, don't know what's wrong with me, I need a slap round the face with a kipper! (Or cock!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did when under 18 when french kissing a girl and my cock was twitching like mad and rubbing against my pants and jeans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

I could have said while he was licking and fingering me but you know I didn't want to be too grotesque!!

Not like you lovely

I know, don't know what's wrong with me, I need a slap round the face with a kipper! (Or cock!)"

Ive a side of salmon will that do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

I could have said while he was licking and fingering me but you know I didn't want to be too grotesque!!

Not like you lovely

I know, don't know what's wrong with me, I need a slap round the face with a kipper! (Or cock!)

Ive a side of salmon will that do..

Hit me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

*Mental note tickle zoyas feet

Well it was more stroking softly

Fine! *mental note soft stroke zoyas feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

*Mental note tickle zoyas feet

Well it was more stroking softly

Fine! *mental note soft stroke zoyas feet"

Oi! Get off fab!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

I could have said while he was licking and fingering me but you know I didn't want to be too grotesque!!

Not like you lovely

I know, don't know what's wrong with me, I need a slap round the face with a kipper! (Or cock!)

Ive a side of salmon will that do..

Hit me!"

Stand still then...here goes....WHACK!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you cum without physical stimulation?"
No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

I could have said while he was licking and fingering me but you know I didn't want to be too grotesque!!

Not like you lovely

I know, don't know what's wrong with me, I need a slap round the face with a kipper! (Or cock!)"

As long as there's a sound effect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

I could have said while he was licking and fingering me but you know I didn't want to be too grotesque!!

Not like you lovely

I know, don't know what's wrong with me, I need a slap round the face with a kipper! (Or cock!)

Ive a side of salmon will that do..

Hit me!

Stand still then...here goes....WHACK!!!!!!

Fuck me!! That's it she's back!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met a guy a few weeks back who apparently came when he was 'down there' on me, I'm not so sure though!

Sorry smiled at the "down there" bit you sound like my mother ...always makes me think of Oz

And I have orgasmed thru just my feet been tickled..

I could have said while he was licking and fingering me but you know I didn't want to be too grotesque!!

Not like you lovely

I know, don't know what's wrong with me, I need a slap round the face with a kipper! (Or cock!)

Ive a side of salmon will that do..

Hit me!

Stand still then...here goes....WHACK!!!!!!

Fuck me!! That's it she's back!! "

Wooooooooooooooo Hoooooooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did when under 18 when french kissing a girl and my cock was twitching like mad and rubbing against my pants and jeans.

Aww! Must've felt great at the time though!

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Mmmm I was fucking Bella as se was kissing a woman on the bed the other woman standing with me holding Belles pussy open watching my cock penetrating her. She sort of had an unending orgasum standing up. Just watching. As I fucked belle I I started to grope the cuming woman's tits. It was like she was in my power. I put her on the bed for belle to lick out and finger as I fucked her. Rapture.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Mmmm I was fucking Bella as se was kissing a woman on the bed the other woman standing with me holding Belles pussy open watching my cock penetrating her. She sort of had an unending orgasum standing up. Just watching. As I fucked belle I I started to grope the cuming woman's tits. It was like she was in my power. I put her on the bed for belle to lick out and finger as I fucked her. Rapture. "

Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did when under 18 when french kissing a girl and my cock was twitching like mad and rubbing against my pants and jeans.

Aww! Must've felt great at the time though!

It was, never got kissed like it before, as a kid your leg shake anyway, mine were going 10 to the dozen lol.

funny trying to make an excuse to go to the toilet to clean up consider you went 15 minutes earlier lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I need some sort of physical stimulation on my clit or in my vagina to cum.

However, if someone is good at kissing I do tend to get very wet, which is always nice when leading up to more

I love kissing, but I could never cum from that alone, either.

-Courtney

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

It happened a lot in my year of no sex."

I get this occasionally, especially when I haven't had sex in a while too - a depressingly common event, as it happens. Mind you, a couple of nights ago I had a dream about a friend and I orgasmed hugely all over the place - when I woke up it was like I'd invoked a freak cum slick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm... I did have a really hot threesome dream one night, and I did have an orgasm in my dream and when I woke up there was still physical evidence. But I remember that it was so intense that I think I might have actually been playing in my sleep...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I still don't understand how you can go from 0-100 without physical stimulation. However I have noticed women seem to say it happens to them often.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

On very rare occasions and when I've been incredibly mentally aroused without actual genital contact, the minute they've actually touched me sexually I've orgasmed. It's like the mental bit is the buildup and the physical contact is the trigger. Only once have I orgasmed without any touch at all and that was through a very, very dirty phonecall from someone who knew me very intimately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened a lot in my year of no sex.

Really? Wow! I wish!

Hi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I've not had sex and not masturbated for a while I sometimes like tensing and relaxing myself and I have very nearly came a few times without being touched. But I got so irritable and dont have the patience soI have to touch it and make it go pop.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

I can and have done in the past, also in my sleep ( not sure if dreaming at the time though) and occasionally I can just when doing mundane everyday things like shopping which isn't helpful

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

had a relationship with a lady where on occasion she would climax just through kissing and stroking her nipples..

very rare although a really amazing experience..

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