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By *izzyRascal OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Hants

For a little while at least. I've quite enjoyed being hidden and going directly to those I'm interested in or just chatting on the forums. However, I wanted to try out the who's near function. Hoping to not be bombarded again.

What does everyone else do to manage messages coming in? Think its best just to block everyone?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I generally find after 2 replies from me, they stop messaging me....

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Take off all interest ticks

Those searching for specific interests don't get you on their list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, I have blocked men from messaging, my inbox is soo peaceful its lovely

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

If you untick looking for (men, couples etc) that also drops you from loads of searches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Set your message filters

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I just ignore them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally find after 2 replies from me, they stop messaging me.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a little while at least. I've quite enjoyed being hidden and going directly to those I'm interested in or just chatting on the forums. However, I wanted to try out the who's near function. Hoping to not be bombarded again.

What does everyone else do to manage messages coming in? Think its best just to block everyone?"

I just rely on being naturally fugly to limit messages! It works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's important to reply if u can - and just make it one sentence. People have taken the time to write. I have been "bombarded" like u say and it's almost impossible to reply - now I have as standard on my profile "that I may not reply...." If it was reversed it would be nice for me to receive a reply - it keeps me humble and connected to my humanity.

1. Profile says I don't reply to all

2. I don't have boxes ticked

3. Filters on and really tight

4. And if "hi and here is my cock" - delete

Enjoy X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For a little while at least. I've quite enjoyed being hidden and going directly to those I'm interested in or just chatting on the forums. However, I wanted to try out the who's near function. Hoping to not be bombarded again.

What does everyone else do to manage messages coming in? Think its best just to block everyone?

I just rely on being naturally fugly to limit messages! It works! "

You are so far away from fugly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be polite and say you're not looking so that guys don't bother messaging you, it doesn't work.

I just shrink my age filters usually, that helps get messages down, or turn them off altogether if i'm busy chatting to friends already.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I post my face picture.. works for me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I generally find after 2 replies from me, they stop messaging me.... "

You really do drag it out then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I opened up my filters today for the first time in ages and widened my age range. It's been ok so far,just about manageable with the other things I'm doing today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going with the block em all approach at the moment. It's good

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I set all my filters, I've never not been able to manage my inbox

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Oh but I've had my profile hidden for a few weeks now I forgot about that

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"For a little while at least. I've quite enjoyed being hidden and going directly to those I'm interested in or just chatting on the forums. However, I wanted to try out the who's near function. Hoping to not be bombarded again.

What does everyone else do to manage messages coming in? Think its best just to block everyone?

I just rely on being naturally fugly to limit messages! It works! "

That's ok for you but what about poor sods like me that aren't fugly?

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By *izzyRascal OP   Woman
over a year ago

North Hants

Thanks guys. I've been hidden a couple of weeks and it has worked nicely so its always an option to go back to. Have added something to my profile to say I may not respond to every message. See how the first 24 hours go and then may tighten up ... the filters

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