FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Who feels

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.

I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.

Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.

I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's not your massive cock.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.

I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.

Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.

I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "

I dunno I think my personality is better than my looks lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel relief.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to have good banter with someone and be attracted to the person .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Looking at some of the freaks that have viewed me, I feel pretty happy they didn't message me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x"

Have you got your filters on ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.

I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.

Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.

I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "

Massive personality is actually a turn on for me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x

Have you got your filters on ?"

Nope, well no one over the age of 55 but anyone 22 and up can message etc

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.

I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.

Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.

I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "

Yes, so I don't look at who has looked at me very often, nor do I look at my sent box. But, I flip it around and think it's complimentary to my pictures and/or posts on the forum to have enticed them into my lair, and they leave knowing a little more about silly ole me so, I recommend focusing on the positives and important stuff as who is watching is unimportant in the grand scheme of things

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.

I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.

Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.

I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "

Allo, Allo monsieur. We get loads of people viewing our profile and not just local, with no message..... not bothered though, they probably haven't even read the profile anyway, just looked at the pics.... whatever haha.... xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it as they're wanking over your pics and you're doing them a service.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think of it as they're wanking over your pics and you're doing them a service."

glad I could help I guess?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look at the updates thing. I wonder if I'm missing much

-Courtney

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x"

Doh, I've just realised I'm bloody guilty. I've looked at your profile and not messaged before, although I also have messaged you too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually get a handful of views most weeks,can't see who though as I'm not a site supporter at the moment.

Don't bother thinking about it too much....if they want to message they'll message.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone just likes looking at pics there's no point in messaging.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look at the updates thing. I wonder if I'm missing much

-Courtney"

Depends on what's happening in your area

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.

I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.

Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.

I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "

Actually I think 'their loss'

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x

Doh, I've just realised I'm bloody guilty. I've looked at your profile and not messaged before, although I also have messaged you too. "

You don't have to message when you look!! Go into stealth mode!! Perfect!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look at the updates thing. I wonder if I'm missing much

-Courtney

Depends on what's happening in your area "

Fair point!

-Courtney

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"Think of it as they're wanking over your pics and you're doing them a service."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look at the updates thing. I wonder if I'm missing much

-Courtney"

Not in Leeds you're not

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There goes my chances of a meet in Yorkshire anyway

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look at the updates thing. I wonder if I'm missing much

-Courtney"

No its the same crap

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.

I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.

Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.

I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "

Tbh I'm grateful that everyone who looks at me doesn't message me!

It typically takes about an hour for 100 people to view me. When I post a new pic it takes about 6 minutes!

If all those people messaged me is have to have my profile permanently hidden!

A tip though:

If someone looks at you more than once they're possibly interested - so try sending them a friendly message?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There goes my chances of a meet in Yorkshire anyway "

We don't want to bore you with our status updates

-Courtney

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never look at the updates thing. I wonder if I'm missing much

-Courtney

Depends on what's happening in your area

Fair point!

-Courtney"

I like my area, I get updates from Derby, Nottingham and Sheffield. Always something going on, but I don't look often because the forums are more interactive

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Who feels that tinge of disappointment when you see on local updates the someone local has viewed your profile, but then there is no message.

I'm not saying that people have any obligation to, but I do sometimes wonder what it is that's put them off.

Of course not everybody finds everybody attractive.

I think my absolutely massive pppppersonality might deter folk. "

I've just realised that I've only ever had literally two or three local ladies EVER message me (And this was before I changed my profile to 'not meeting at the moment').

I'd never really given this any thought before now. Thanks OP!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just checked mine and had about 7 views 'just the minute' not one message, I don't mind though, I'm not everyone's cup of tea x

Have you got your filters on ?

Nope, well no one over the age of [b]55[/b] but anyone 22 and up can message etc"

As I mentioned in another thread, I am now 56

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top