FabSwingers.com forum: Its official!!!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

....well 'ish'. I looked down the list of members who had viewed my profile and there was a new lady with a massive message about her learning fast and that she would just block and delete people. Very friendly I thought so looked at her profile (joined a week ago) and it has another addition which states she has been put straight and informed that this is a site for women and they 'call the shots' so just be patient. Thats news to me I thought this site was all equal....

Who gives out this advice to the newcomers? I hope she changes her profile soon it just looks so arsey and I think shes being set up for a fall. Shaking head here....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"....well 'ish'. I looked down the list of members who had viewed my profile and there was a new lady with a massive message about her learning fast and that she would just block and delete people. Very friendly I thought so looked at her profile (joined a week ago) and it has another addition which states she has been put straight and informed that this is a site for women and they 'call the shots' so just be patient. Thats news to me I thought this site was all equal....

Who gives out this advice to the newcomers? I hope she changes her profile soon it just looks so arsey and I think shes being set up for a fall. Shaking head here....

we will just wait for the complaint thread "why can't i find some good guys"

it will probably come on a thursday because they always do....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thing is there are loads of blokes who have the attitude that woman on this site are lauding it over them but I think its not a widespread thing and most people respect fellow members. but if men see it actually written on a profile, its like chinese whispers and before you know it the suggestion that women hold all the cards becomes ingrained as being the truth of this site. Naive women reading it can be influenced too. Nobody wants such negative attitudes do they?

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The trick, for both guys and gals, is to stand out from the crowd.

A list of demands, wills & wont's from a girl will not make her more likely to get a good meet.

In the same way that being a whiner will not endear anyone to a guy.

If you're going to meet someone and it's going to be a pleassureable experience for both parties, you need to be on equal terms with each other.

When it comes to single guys, it's genearlly in the 'gift' of the girl or couple to offer a meet. But if they choose carefully, they can all save themselves a lot of grief.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thing is there are loads of blokes who have the attitude that woman on this site are lauding it over them but I think its not a widespread thing and most people respect fellow members. but if men see it actually written on a profile, its like chinese whispers and before you know it the suggestion that women hold all the cards becomes ingrained as being the truth of this site. Naive women reading it can be influenced too. Nobody wants such negative attitudes do they?"

Karma is a wonderful thing and in life you usually get what you deserve. As Fabio indicated, the only guys who will put up with that type of attitude are often the desperate ones. She'll end up wondering why there are no good guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives out this advice to the newcomers? I hope she changes her profile soon it just looks so arsey and I think shes being set up for a fall. Shaking head here....

I know the profile you mean as she has looked at ours and even winked us - however, it has put me off contacting her as Im worried that this "all powerful" woman may sneer at us normal people - god forbid she should delete and block us!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for responding to my post. Its great to read your opinions, you guys "loving group hug" xxx

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