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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Started reading and posting on the forums today and I have noticed it seems to be a pretty bad thing if you have been on for a decent length of time without a verification.

Is that a general consensus?

I made this profile a long while ago and then never really bothered with it and decided to give it ago recently. I need all the help I can get haha don't want that to be ruining my chances even more xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would start again to be honest .

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I would start again to be honest .

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yeh, it's not like you have a stream of veris to lose. Open a new one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't even give it a thought either and I only just went and became a site supporter as well haha but I think you might be right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few will meet non veried also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just rearrange and expand on somethings. Not everyone is into veri's and they are pretty easy to get if you put your mind to it.

Veri's are not one of the things we look for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no verification

to many verifications

verified by wrong person

it's a minefield out there

get yer self along to a social, get verified and meet some people.... or start again or....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh thanks for advice, I think I will try and give it ago for a couple of weeks and hopefully I will be able to get verification off a lovely lady and take it from there. I work away for months on end anyway so if I made a knew one it would end up the same after a while.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeh thanks for advice, I think I will try and give it ago for a couple of weeks and hopefully I will be able to get verification off a lovely lady and take it from there. I work away for months on end anyway so if I made a knew one it would end up the same after a while."

Have a look in the meets and events thread for something happening near you easy way to get veri'd not that I've ever been but with all those people there you'll only have to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd just start again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want a quick veri, get a cam veri in the chat room.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally I'd just start again "

Would you instantly dismiss a guy for not having a verification in a long time? X

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

I think being around, even if not having a meet and being verified, shows stability. I'm more wary of new accounts who often go UNLOS quickly or say back again, as unstable rather than no veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I'd just start again

Would you instantly dismiss a guy for not having a verification in a long time? X"

Hmmm... possibly not but I'd be curious as to why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would wonder why no veri so would probably put me off. Get to socials and get your self some veris as well as opening your network of people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Like you said, OP, leave it a while and get a veri of some kind (cam or social or meet) or start again fresh as an antelope in 2016.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone won't talk to me because I'm not meet verified I just keep it moving onto the next...just see it as another preference for these ladies who only meet 'meet verified' folks which is fair enough as there are a lot of twats on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met more non veris than veris. All depends how well we get on x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Personally I'd just start again

Would you instantly dismiss a guy for not having a verification in a long time? X"

I wouldn't if he explained in his profile why x

Like others have said, get on the cam or to a club or social - I imagine there will be loads with Xmas just round the corner. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeh thanks everyone it's good to hear what other people think, I put a line at the bottom of my profile explaining why and we will just wait and see where this adventure takes me. At the end of the day am just on here for some fun am not gonna cry if no one wants to meet me haha I do ok when I'm out lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think being around, even if not having a meet and being verified, shows stability. I'm more wary of new accounts who often go UNLOS quickly or say back again, as unstable rather than no veris"

Yeh I've noticed that over the past week on my news feed there one girl who makes a new profile every other day for some reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would start again to be honest .

"

So is this why so many profiles decide to "leave" and "return"...

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"I think being around, even if not having a meet and being verified, shows stability. I'm more wary of new accounts who often go UNLOS quickly or say back again, as unstable rather than no veris

Yeh I've noticed that over the past week on my news feed there one girl who makes a new profile every other day for some reason "

Stick with stable

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I don't think it matters greatly about veri's

Stay where you are, no need to depart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to answer carefully about veri threads as I started a bit of a stink last time!

Me personally will ONLY meet unverified guys, verifications put me off, I know guys shag before they join this site but when I can see who they've slept with previously I judge them on that. If they sleep with someone I think is not attractive it would put me off meeting the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have met unverified - some have been here before anyway - and we were all that at one point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met a few unverified people. I am dubious when someone has been a member for over a year with no verification of any kind. That's when I look at other factors. I met someone who had one verification from over a year ago. We chatted and he had been working somewhere remote. I used my spidey senses and ended up having some really great sex. Others who have no verifications have been suspect and go quiet when I tell them I don't have naked pics or have fantasy sex chats.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have to answer carefully about veri threads as I started a bit of a stink last time!

Me personally will ONLY meet unverified guys, verifications put me off, I know guys shag before they join this site but when I can see who they've slept with previously I judge them on that. If they sleep with someone I think is not attractive it would put me off meeting the guy. "

I never even thought of it from that point of view, in a serious relationship I totally agree hate knowing or even talking about who a partner has slept with actually. But since I'm now a complete commitmentphobe I would say a verification on a site like this proves that they are genuine and the real deal and are up for laugh, as a posed to a detailed summary of there sexual endeavours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a few unverified people. I am dubious when someone has been a member for over a year with no verification of any kind. That's when I look at other factors. I met someone who had one verification from over a year ago. We chatted and he had been working somewhere remote. I used my spidey senses and ended up having some really great sex. Others who have no verifications have been suspect and go quiet when I tell them I don't have naked pics or have fantasy sex chats. "

Spidey senses are greatly undervalued.

Love that term.

I used to be more wary of 'old' profiles with no veri's but then I realised that it's no different really to a 2 month old profile with no veri's.

I trust my gut. If something doesn't seem right I stop communication. I've met people before with no verifications, and I will again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to answer carefully about veri threads as I started a bit of a stink last time!

Me personally will ONLY meet unverified guys, verifications put me off, I know guys shag before they join this site but when I can see who they've slept with previously I judge them on that. If they sleep with someone I think is not attractive it would put me off meeting the guy.

I never even thought of it from that point of view, in a serious relationship I totally agree hate knowing or even talking about who a partner has slept with actually. But since I'm now a complete commitmentphobe I would say a verification on a site like this proves that they are genuine and the real deal and are up for laugh, as a posed to a detailed summary of there sexual endeavours "

If you're good looking, do general chit chat until you agree to meet for a social, don't ask for tits, fanny or arse hole pictures, don't try and get dirty sex chat out of someone and that that should confirm to someone that you aren't a time waster/picture collector or just someone that wants wank material.

No verifications to me means the perso. is fussy and won't just fuck anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met a few unverified people. I am dubious when someone has been a member for over a year with no verification of any kind. That's when I look at other factors. I met someone who had one verification from over a year ago. We chatted and he had been working somewhere remote. I used my spidey senses and ended up having some really great sex. Others who have no verifications have been suspect and go quiet when I tell them I don't have naked pics or have fantasy sex chats.

Spidey senses are greatly undervalued.

Love that term.

I used to be more wary of 'old' profiles with no veri's but then I realised that it's no different really to a 2 month old profile with no veri's.

I trust my gut. If something doesn't seem right I stop communication. I've met people before with no verifications, and I will again. "

My spidey senses have worked very well for me over the years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A varied and interesting response. I guess there isn't any really clear answer just go with the flow

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"I think being around, even if not having a meet and being verified, shows stability. I'm more wary of new accounts who often go UNLOS quickly or say back again, as unstable rather than no veris"

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


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No verifications to me means the perso. is fussy and won't fuck anyone.

"

Fixed your post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care whether I'm given verif's or not. Too many users are obsessed with them. You'll never please everyone, so why try to please anyone ?

Putting a time limit on getting verifs, is just silly. "If you havent got one in 3/6/12 months, you must be fake" - pfft.

People make profiles, then dont come back for ages. In my case, I'm just not bothered, whether I meet lots of people - or none at all.

I certainly don't worry about someone else in the future, disapproving of whoever verified me today.

Tbh, I'd prefer to meet someone with just a few, than someone with 'too many'. (That also applies to photos).

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