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"I did, weekly with THT. Stopped when I fell ill as I couldn't commit my time. I did outreach stuff and worked in their call centre. " Oh, I did it as a friend was affected. I chose to volunteer as I felt guilty about the money I earn and felt I had to give back more to society than just cash. It's a purely selfish motivation. | |||
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"I've been a volunteer gardener for 3 years. I loved it so much I chose to gain some horticulture qualifications and become a professional gardener." Such a purposeful thing to do, cultivating the beauty of nature | |||
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"I don't really have the time to volunteer. I do want to do some volunteering for Dog Trust, though. I'm going to look into what I can do on a semi-regular basis. What about you, OP? -Courtney" Is once a week okay. I used to do volunteering for dogs trust when I left school every Friday morning. The day fly's in with the dogs. | |||
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"Yep " Yeah it was another of your posts that made me think about it. I look at my local volunteering website every so often but I'm sort of waiting for something to jump out at me. I don't really think there is such a thing as true altruism cause it absolutely does make me feel better that I'm giving something back so there's always an element of that. I'm just looking for inspiration really. I think maybe I'd like to do something with people. I'm sort of thinking about older people who don't have anyone. Shopping or company or something. I've befriended before but it in the mental health sector. I'm curious about your experiences with disclosure checks too. I just assumed it was mandatory but it's not. That's actually maybe something for another thread but I'm not sure my blood pressure can take it. | |||
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"I don't really have the time to volunteer. I do want to do some volunteering for Dog Trust, though. I'm going to look into what I can do on a semi-regular basis. What about you, OP? -Courtney Is once a week okay. I used to do volunteering for dogs trust when I left school every Friday morning. The day fly's in with the dogs." That was great of you. And yeah, once a week is what I was thinking. We already donate, but I would love to help out the dogs in a real way -Courtney | |||
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"I don't really have the time to volunteer. I do want to do some volunteering for Dog Trust, though. I'm going to look into what I can do on a semi-regular basis. What about you, OP? -Courtney" I used to be a leader in the Girl Guides but it sort of turned into a glorified babysitting thing and I ended up feeling too responsible for getting the kids home cause their parents didn't bother to collect them. Shame really cause I loved the Brownies when I was wee but I work too late to get there on time through the week so I did the Guides instead. Jupiter... I didn't know the Scouts had girl leaders?! | |||
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"I don't really have the time to volunteer. I do want to do some volunteering for Dog Trust, though. I'm going to look into what I can do on a semi-regular basis. What about you, OP? -Courtney Is once a week okay. I used to do volunteering for dogs trust when I left school every Friday morning. The day fly's in with the dogs. That was great of you. And yeah, once a week is what I was thinking. We already donate, but I would love to help out the dogs in a real way -Courtney" I think it's more satisfying than donating. It's a completely different type of joy when you get to actually take care of the dogs. I really wanted to play with them all day but I wasn't allowed because some of them weren't capable of it and had different conditions and disorders. | |||
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"I do alot for charity but I dont like to talk about it. " You just did | |||
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"I don't have the time or inclination. I get my get out of hell free cards off helping the old lady next house over by collecting her prescriptions and running her to hospital in the middle of the night when she mistakes glass cleaner for her eye drops. I also chainsaw her hedge, garden and tell her off over her knot but she never listens " That all sounds like proper neighbourliness and volunteering to me. | |||
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"I don't really have the time to volunteer. I do want to do some volunteering for Dog Trust, though. I'm going to look into what I can do on a semi-regular basis. What about you, OP? -Courtney I used to be a leader in the Girl Guides but it sort of turned into a glorified babysitting thing and I ended up feeling too responsible for getting the kids home cause their parents didn't bother to collect them. Shame really cause I loved the Brownies when I was wee but I work too late to get there on time through the week so I did the Guides instead. Jupiter... I didn't know the Scouts had girl leaders?!" I'm not a leader!! Far too much responsibility!!! Yes they let girls in now & we're on our 2nd female district commissioner. I help out with the gang show - making costumes, back stage dressing during show week, deep cleaning the hut, raking leaves etc... The boys help too so no sitter needed | |||
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"With the CRB check, they do it all after they receive your info when you apply. They'll let you know if it's all okay or if you can't proceed. " I have one. I just didn't realise that companies didn't have to carry them out. I assumed it was a mandatory thing when people volunteered with kids or vulnerable adults. It's not. | |||
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"I don't have the time or inclination. I get my get out of hell free cards off helping the old lady next house over by collecting her prescriptions and running her to hospital in the middle of the night when she mistakes glass cleaner for her eye drops. I also chainsaw her hedge, garden and tell her off over her knot but she never listens That all sounds like proper neighbourliness and volunteering to me. " Yeah probably. Love the old stick really. | |||
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"With the CRB check, they do it all after they receive your info when you apply. They'll let you know if it's all okay or if you can't proceed. I have one. I just didn't realise that companies didn't have to carry them out. I assumed it was a mandatory thing when people volunteered with kids or vulnerable adults. It's not. " Ohh misread, sorry. I thought it was a requirement too, we had to have no violent offences or anything like hate crimes for ours. I do know certain crimes were okay. | |||
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"With the CRB check, they do it all after they receive your info when you apply. They'll let you know if it's all okay or if you can't proceed. I have one. I just didn't realise that companies didn't have to carry them out. I assumed it was a mandatory thing when people volunteered with kids or vulnerable adults. It's not. Ohh misread, sorry. I thought it wasrequirement too, we had to have no violent offences or anything like hate crimes for ours. I do know certain crimes were okay. " With the crb you will know if your not allowed to work with children or vulnerable adults . If you have not been Told by a court eg sex offender you can work with kids There is a Second bit of the crb that you don't see and your not allowed to see and that's the letter sent from the chief Constable if your suspected in a case or have a series of allegations that can't be proved The rest of your crb is for information only and gives an idea of your offendin history but does not disbar you from working with kids by A registered sex offender rapist etc is only disbarred from working with children whilst they are actually on the sex offenders register as soon as there requirement to sign the register ends so does The ban on working with children It is a criminal offence to apply for a job working with children etc when your on the register but is not an offence to baby sit others children unless you have been told by probation no unsupervised acces with kids | |||
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"With the CRB check, they do it all after they receive your info when you apply. They'll let you know if it's all okay or if you can't proceed. I have one. I just didn't realise that companies didn't have to carry them out. I assumed it was a mandatory thing when people volunteered with kids or vulnerable adults. It's not. Ohh misread, sorry. I thought it wasrequirement too, we had to have no violent offences or anything like hate crimes for ours. I do know certain crimes were okay. With the crb you will know if your not allowed to work with children or vulnerable adults . If you have not been Told by a court eg sex offender you can work with kids There is a Second bit of the crb that you don't see and your not allowed to see and that's the letter sent from the chief Constable if your suspected in a case or have a series of allegations that can't be proved The rest of your crb is for information only and gives an idea of your offendin history but does not disbar you from working with kids by A registered sex offender rapist etc is only disbarred from working with children whilst they are actually on the sex offenders register as soon as there requirement to sign the register ends so does The ban on working with children It is a criminal offence to apply for a job working with children etc when your on the register but is not an offence to baby sit others children unless you have been told by probation no unsupervised acces with kids " This sorta makes it sound like I'm a sex offender. I'm not a criminal, don't have a record or anything. Anyway, I wasn't working with children, it was mainly adults. Some could've been classed as vulnerable. | |||
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"I do accounts for some small charities and do work-related volunteering around widening participation into the profession. " I do accounts for a couple of small charities too. Great thing to be able to do and use my skill set at the same time | |||
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"With the CRB check, they do it all after they receive your info when you apply. They'll let you know if it's all okay or if you can't proceed. I have one. I just didn't realise that companies didn't have to carry them out. I assumed it was a mandatory thing when people volunteered with kids or vulnerable adults. It's not. Ohh misread, sorry. I thought it wasrequirement too, we had to have no violent offences or anything like hate crimes for ours. I do know certain crimes were okay. With the crb you will know if your not allowed to work with children or vulnerable adults . If you have not been Told by a court eg sex offender you can work with kids There is a Second bit of the crb that you don't see and your not allowed to see and that's the letter sent from the chief Constable if your suspected in a case or have a series of allegations that can't be proved The rest of your crb is for information only and gives an idea of your offendin history but does not disbar you from working with kids by A registered sex offender rapist etc is only disbarred from working with children whilst they are actually on the sex offenders register as soon as there requirement to sign the register ends so does The ban on working with children It is a criminal offence to apply for a job working with children etc when your on the register but is not an offence to baby sit others children unless you have been told by probation no unsupervised acces with kids This sorta makes it sound like I'm a sex offender. I'm not a criminal, don't have a record or anything. Anyway, I wasn't working with children, it was mainly adults. Some could've been classed as vulnerable. " Yes it does a little bit but I meant to say the opposite and the checks made are very thorough and not just looking at criminal record If you look into criminal record checking it's actually quite complicated and very interesting Especially the amount thay goes on behind the scenes that can make you feel like a criminal when you realise what has been checked and you did not realiswxrhey did that | |||
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"As some of you may know I run a charity for autistic kids, I do it because having two autistic kids and realising there wasn't any services in our area, like support groups for parents and professionals or clubs for kids. " Hi Sorry to jump on that. I realise that it's not the same thing but could you recommend any good research sites for Dispraxia? | |||
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"Not volunteering in the true sense but I`m area co-ordinator for a large tractor club and hopefully in the New Year will be doing some proper volunteering for one or both of the preserved railways in my area. " Tractor club and preserved railways people would pay for that you are so lucky | |||
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"As some of you may know I run a charity for autistic kids, I do it because having two autistic kids and realising there wasn't any services in our area, like support groups for parents and professionals or clubs for kids. Hi Sorry to jump on that. I realise that it's not the same thing but could you recommend any good research sites for Dispraxia? " I don't know of any but my sister has dispraxia, I can certainly ask her tomorrow for you xx | |||
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