FabSwingers.com forum: Tips for a newbie?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just joined fab. Would like to know some tips on getting started up from some of the usual members. Thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You need more on your profile. A two word profile will get a two word reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need more on your profile. A two word profile will get a two word reply

Probably no reply to be honest hun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum-search/Profile%2badvice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need more on your profile. A two word profile will get a two word reply

This, plus, change the _iewing status of your cock shots to friends only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't tell anyone if you're a teacher...

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Put more in your profile. Likes, dislikes, what you have to offer. I suggest you take a look at some of the guys in the forum to get inspiration. Welcome to the weird world of fab X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That is fair enough. It is weird and wonderful isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just joined fab. Would like to know some tips on getting started up from some of the usual members. Thanks

Welcome to fab

Always read profiles to see if you are suited to what the other party wants.

Avoid sending messages like how are you.

Make your message stand out from others and put something in the message to show you have read their profile.

And accept that if they delete your message it means that you are not what they are looking for

And always be polite

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at some profiles of the guys on the forums to get some ideas. Your profile is like a big advert for you so sell yourself. Try writing your profile after you have got rid of some 'tension' as sometimes it can be read as if your cock has written your profile.

Above all else it should portray you as a person, and try and be as honest as possible. A lot of people on here have bullshit detectors as fine as any lie detector expert. So your personality in your messages should match your profile and forum posts.

And as shag says 'you need patience' this isn't dial a shag. Nothing is guaranteed.

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok updated it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, a local boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok updated it now."

Still needs work..you have basically got a 3 line profile and repeated your likes and dislikes. It says nothing about you as a person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes local with a terrible profile by sounds of it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yes local with a terrible profile by sounds of it"

What did Shag say? Patience....

Take your time and write the very best profile you can. Ask yourself this/ why would someone shag me instead of (pick random name)? Answer that and you'll be well away

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

It's a marathon, not a sprint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the "if you've got this far" it wasn't very far at all

Your profile is your shop window, particularly to people like myself who makes first contact. It has to be interesting, get your personality and sense of humour across along with explaining what you are here for and what you can offer along with a good selection of classy pics (not lots of different angles of a cock!) There are hundreds of boring profiles that say nothing and are very generic so writing a good one will stand out like a sore cock, ooops I mean thumb amongst these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't tell anyone if you're a teacher...

Teachers have sex?

They should be ashamed of themselves! Spending part of the day with children and then having sex. Disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ha ha cheers and ye just thinking if somethung decent to write really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the "if you've got this far" it wasn't very far at all

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Don't tell anyone if you're a teacher...

Teachers have sex?

They should be ashamed of themselves! Spending part of the day with children and then having sex. Disgusting. "

They are too tired to have sex, what with the teaching, planning, marking and assessment .... then its straight to sleep ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just add to put as much personality into your photos and profile as you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ha ha cheers and ye just thinking if somethung decent to write really "

And for fuck sake spellcheck..a lot of people, while not being grammar nazis, prefer to see a well scripted profile...lazy spelling may indicate laziness in other areas. You dont need to be a Wordworth or Keats, but make an effort.

Some people don't mind, but you need to maximise your chances.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ha ha cheers and ye just thinking if somethung decent to write really

Some people don't mind, but you need to maximise your chances."

Sorry it's my automatic on my phone I type that quick sometimes

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Ha ha cheers and ye just thinking if somethung decent to write really "

Take your time to have a decent profile, adding a few words does not make it a worthwhile change.

Your new amended profile seems a mish mash of words and the if you got this far quote? I mean really? 3 lines are so hard to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the "if you've got this far" it wasn't very far at all

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he hasn't got any cock pics ,hey profile write up not good also you say your straight but you include in your want to meets ts/tv they have cocks sorry to burst any bubbles ,when you write a message read the persons profile and write your message based on it and include a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the "if you've got this far" it wasn't very far at all

he hasn't got any cock pics ,hey profile write up not good also you say your straight but you include in your want to meets ts/tv they have cocks sorry to burst any bubbles ,when you write a message read the persons profile and write your message based on it and include a face pic

I didn't say he did have any, just advised against having any that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most importantly, don't take things too seriously and try to enjoy yourself. None of this is life or death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't tell anyone if you're a teacher...

I see what you did there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't tell anyone if you're a teacher...

Teachers have sex?

They should be ashamed of themselves! Spending part of the day with children and then having sex. Disgusting. "

Filth......

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most importantly, don't take things too seriously and try to enjoy yourself. None of this is life or death. "

Filth indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most importantly, don't take things too seriously and try to enjoy yourself. None of this is life or death. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do people ever ask to get photos done professionally just for fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people ever ask to get photos done professionally just for fab?"

My two main photos were taken professionaly for another profile. I just use them on Fab.

When I have the time I'll get some more done for my fab profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a camera and enjoy photography. Might have to give out my services.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have a camera and enjoy photography. Might have to give out my services."

Make sure you have a variety of top notch pics on your profile if you intend doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a camera and enjoy photography. Might have to give out my services.

Make sure you have a variety of top notch pics on your profile if you intend doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, a local boy

I didn't know Malton was near Gotham

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a camera and enjoy photography. Might have to give out my services.

Make sure you have a variety of top notch pics on your profile if you intend doing that

I hate talking photos of myself :/ prefer being behind the camera.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics the more the better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Cock pics the more the better "

That's for friends only

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How's my profile looking now? Does it need a few more photos or a better description to the profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How's my profile looking now? Does it need a few more photos or a better description to the profile?"

Looks good to me but I'm not your target audience.

I wouldn't say about being on and off Fab. It just seems like you're not sure and might not turn up. Just my feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't drink the Kool-Aid.

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos

Run for your life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't meantion bb bbc or Donald trump lastly don't message someone fancy a fuck

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By *hoenixmanMan
over a year ago

Where men are men, and sheep are nervous...!

"Don't meantion bb bbc or Donald trump lastly don't message someone fancy a fuck

Don't believe him - you send out as many Fancy a Fuck? messages as you like mate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the forums best filtering process around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and the other thing is never pull a woman in forums coz they all meet and chat to eachother hehe xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun. Stick around the forum and/or the chat rooms, get yourself acquainted with what works and what doesn't. Get to know people. There are lovely people on the site that make it worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cheers

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

welcome and enjoy

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"How's my profile looking now? Does it need a few more photos or a better description to the profile?"

There are countless threads offering generic profile advice in the archives, happy reading

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