FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Hi

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all does anybody find it hard to get meets etc

Even when I send messages people don't read them ?

I know I'm not the best looking guy but must be someone lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people look at the profile before reading the message.

Are you selling yourself?

Would you reply to a message from your profile? If not, change it. If you would then, in the words of shag, patience!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pics are horrible and I'd delete your messages as well.sorry

You need more tasteful pics .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No I just say hi how are you fancy a chat

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

It is hard on here.. be patient.. polite.. and have fun..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What type of pictures would you recommend ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"Your pics are horrible and I'd delete your messages as well.sorry

You need more tasteful pics . "

Agree. Ok mine are not the best but sorry mate.. thats from a ladys point of view.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"No I just say hi how are you fancy a chat "

That's your first mistake. Most people won't reply to that. I currrently have 43 unread messages that just say that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No cock pics for a start

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Help needed then I think lol best way to start a message

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pics are horrible and I'd delete your messages as well.sorry

You need more tasteful pics .

Agree. Ok mine are not the best but sorry mate.. thats from a ladys point of view."

Yours are slightly better .lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Hi all does anybody find it hard to get meets etc"

Yep!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pics are horrible and I'd delete your messages as well.sorry

You need more tasteful pics . "
you have lovely pics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I just say hi how are you fancy a chat "

We would not reply to that especially with cock pictures. Not very imaginative, or enticing, is it?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hi all does anybody find it hard to get meets etc

Even when I send messages people don't read them ?

I know I'm not the best looking guy but must be someone lol"

Why is it that you put more effort into this thread than you did your profile?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree about the photo's and the lack of any info on your profile. I wouldn't reply.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

People often look at a profile before even opening the message...

Look at your profile. Does it inspire people to reply??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm new to all this so looking for help and advice

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Your pics are horible"

The profile is a bit wank too.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I'm new to all this so looking for help and advice "

Are you specifically asking for profile advice?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"Your pics are horrible and I'd delete your messages as well.sorry

You need more tasteful pics .

Agree. Ok mine are not the best but sorry mate.. thats from a ladys point of view.

Yours are slightly better .lol"

I can sleep well tonight now knowing that. Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Pics put me off and another message saying "Hi fancy a chat" is not going to get me interested.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice really to make it more appealing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Any advice really to make it more appealing "

Right, your pics aren't nice at all, there must be more you you than your cock (especially hastily taken cock pics in the bathroom with your pants round your ankles!) there is no info on there at all. I'm not surprised you aren't getting any interest.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pics are horrible and I'd delete your messages as well.sorry

You need more tasteful pics . you have lovely pics "

Thank you

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't have a good body I thought that would put a lot of people off

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to start having a look at other mens profiles and seeing how you compare with the competition around you

At the moment your profile text or your pics aren't appealing

Good luck

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston


"Your pics are horrible and I'd delete your messages as well.sorry

You need more tasteful pics . you have lovely pics

Thank you

"

I suppose they are ok. Hehe

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm new to all this so looking for help and advice "

Put some effort in. A one sentence profile with a few toilet cock pictures is not terribly endearing.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Don't have a good body I thought that would put a lot of people off "

How do you expect to shag them then????

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

[Removed by poster at 21/11/15 19:02:39]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ltravioletWoman
over a year ago

In amongst the Unicorns & fairy dust

To be brutally honest ,,, like other posters have said "" you have been on here a week your profile should be your shop window ,,,, set your stall out geezer and be patient yes I know lots of guys think there cock is a gift to every one but that ain't so on here ,,, cock pics actually bore me and there's got to be a profile that intrigues my mind to back up the pics ,,, granted I'm that "" elusive female unicorn "" lots of people are looking for them ,,,, you've got to stand out ( not your cock ) look at your profile and make an honest judgement ,,, would you meet you ,,, I do apologise for being brutal but you did ask ,,, this is a swingers site and not instashag xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've changed my profile text more times than I can remember now, it just says hi I'm will, until I can sort it out when I have more time it will stay like that, it's been long winded in the past and been told it's too long and most don't bother to read them, my messages where tailored to the profile I was sending it to, I never said just hi, or how are ya, you have to put more effort in than that to get any reply, also, the pics, get rid of them, cock shots are not welcomed by most unless they are specifically asked for, mine aren't great I know but I do know cock pics are less favoured.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your bathroom is cleaner than the interior of your car so there is that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all does anybody find it hard to get meets etc

Even when I send messages people don't read them ?

I know I'm not the best looking guy but must be someone lol"

4 cock pics 1 with a handful of cum + 2 lines of txt isn't going to impress anybody you say you're not good looking but we can't judge because can't see u! Let us know who your are what you like and get to know people on chat/forums it makes you a lot more appealing than a pretty empty profile

IMO (I know my profile isn't great) but at least I have a variety of pics and at least a little bit about me!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trim your bush

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top