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is flirting cheating?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a discussion at work about what a gf or bf would class as harmless flirting or what is classed as cheating?

So most do the workplace banter , maybe a suggestive joke. And most agreed that's fine.

But any texts, emails, or messenger type things were thought of as cheating in some way.

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep that sounds about right

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Our definition is quite simple, anything that would hurt the feelings of the other, or has to be hidden, is cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No flirting with others is cheating.

If you really love that bf or gf you would not need to flirt.

Suggestive flirts are also a no no. Then you are not in love with your bf or gf.

Texts are also a way of cheating.. Ditch them if they do. No one is second best. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a discussion at work about what a gf or bf would class as harmless flirting or what is classed as cheating?

So most do the workplace banter , maybe a suggestive joke. And most agreed that's fine.

But any texts, emails, or messenger type things were thought of as cheating in some way.

Thoughts? "

Sticking your penis in is cheating. Thinking that you might be able to stick it in is cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the other partner would class it as some kind of betrayal then yes it is. If they wouldn't, it's not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our definition is quite simple, anything that would hurt the feelings of the other, or has to be hidden, is cheating."

I agree with this. anything that is within agreed boundaries within a relationship isn't cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone once told me that their definition of cheating is doing something that they would have to hide from their partner. And I agree with this definition.

For example, if you send flirty texts and you have ever felt the need to hide them from your partner? I would say that is cheating (emotionally, anyway).

I do lots of flirting on here, but Marc knows about it all and doesn't mind one bit. So I wouldn't say its cheating.

Its about how you and your partner view your relationship, not some abstract idea of what is defined as cheating.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our definition is quite simple, anything that would hurt the feelings of the other, or has to be hidden, is cheating."

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Our definition is quite simple, anything that would hurt the feelings of the other, or has to be hidden, is cheating."

AGREED!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like everybody thinks the same we did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a discussion at work about what a gf or bf would class as harmless flirting or what is classed as cheating?

So most do the workplace banter , maybe a suggestive joke. And most agreed that's fine.

But any texts, emails, or messenger type things were thought of as cheating in some way.

Thoughts? "

Exactly. People only flirt with people they find attractive. So therefore it's cheating. Imagine if your wife or gf was flirting. You wouldn't like it. works both ways really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheating is having sex behind your partners back. Mr W

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree.

It's what is in the texts or emails that constitutes flirting or cheating, not the actual texting or emailing.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Our definition is quite simple, anything that would hurt the feelings of the other, or has to be hidden, is cheating."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the other partner would class it as some kind of betrayal then yes it is. If they wouldn't, it's not. "

This for me. Anything that you know the other partner wouldn't like.

I don't think flirting is cheating.. nor do I find it disrespectful... Texting would depend on if it's hidden from the partner or not x

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