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INTERVIEW AND HIGH HEELS

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok i have an inter_iew this morning i treated my self to new suit bla bla but do i play it safe with flats or wear my gorgous new shoes with a 5inch heel now ive been and checked its not ttoooooo slippy so do i risk it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it depends on what the inter_iew is for. But for me I would wear what looks best with the suit. Just my opinion xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you can wear heels and get there not hobbling cause your feet are killing wear them lol

if not go for flats, your fter a job you dont want to turn up limping and thinking about your poor feet all the way thro

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i do wear heels most of the time and have worn them to break them in i just think they look cool with my suit lol its a managers position so apperance plays a big part i think im rationaliseing because they were stupidly expensive lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go in your flats, then change into your heals when you get there, lol.

It depends really on what looks better.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Ok i have an inter_iew this morning i treated my self to new suit bla bla but do i play it safe with flats or wear my gorgous new shoes with a 5inch heel now ive been and checked its not ttoooooo slippy so do i risk it "

It depends if your new job involves a pole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i do wear heels most of the time and have worn them to break them in i just think they look cool with my suit lol its a managers position so apperance plays a big part i think im rationaliseing because they were stupidly expensive lol "

The other thing to take into account is the height issue, heals make you taller and therefore in a management position can put you above the people "under you"

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ok i have an inter_iew this morning i treated my self to new suit bla bla but do i play it safe with flats or wear my gorgous new shoes with a 5inch heel now ive been and checked its not ttoooooo slippy so do i risk it

It depends if your new job involves a pole."

That's kinda what I think too... sorry. I think a smart heel is fine. A 5" heel is OTT for an inter_iew. If your flats are smart then wear them. If you have an inbetween then go with that. I'd avoid 5" heels for an inter_iew.

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By *entcouple4550Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

My preferred mode of dress for an inter_iew is...flippers,cricket pads,a kilt and an old style deep sea divers helmet. In todays competitive job market it really makes you stand out from the crowd.

I suppose I should add that I have been unemployed for the past 23 years.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

In any management role you will be expected to make 'sensible' decisions.

The vast majority of society will not think 5 inch heels are a sensible workwear choice... thus are likely to think you can't even make a good call about what shoes to wear never mind their business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on which gender is doing the inter_iew...Man will give you a ten outta ten for the heels Woman will give you a who the hell does she think she is for wearing them....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"In any management role you will be expected to make 'sensible' decisions.

The vast majority of society will not think 5 inch heels are a sensible workwear choice... thus are likely to think you can't even make a good call about what shoes to wear never mind their business.

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I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BTW...Good luck with the inter_iew...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would go with what you feel happy with, if you feel confident with your image then this will come across during inter_iew. The other thing to think about is how the shoes will be perceived if they are on show, ie, if you have to do a presentation. I personally would go for comfort and smart but with something individual for them to rdmember you by, a black suit with courts but a glimpse of coloured blouse under the jacket etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok i have an inter_iew this morning i treated my self to new suit bla bla but do i play it safe with flats or wear my gorgous new shoes with a 5inch heel now ive been and checked its not ttoooooo slippy so do i risk it

It depends if your new job involves a pole."

Exactly!

I have Chaired a few inter_iew panels in my time and first impressions DO count! I've seen people turn up for an inter_iew for jobs that involve going for meetings with governent ministers, senior civil servants, CEOs etc dressed in jeans and trainers, blouses open to the waist, football/bowling/polo shirts.

If you're applying for a management position in a Peter Stringfellow establishment then 5" heels would be ideal, if not...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Good luck with your inter_iew.

Hope you gets the news to kick start a great 2011 for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well went to inter_iew in my heels ---

parked up and changed my mind at last min lol

still had a fab inter_iew felt rather over dressed in a suit as the other 3 seemed more casual smart if you know what i mean , still must have done something right as i have a second inter_iew next week

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

well done......... and good luck at the second stage x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well done......... and good luck at the second stage x"

Oooh mate while ya on can i borrow ya 7" black ones with the bows on next week?? xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ty im soooo excited it was a tough inter_iew but i was well prepd so hopefully fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ty im soooo excited it was a tough inter_iew but i was well prepd so hopefully fingers crossed"

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ty u , x

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

ooh well done

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks just hope i get the dam thing ive lost count of the amount of inter_iews i been to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"go in your flats, then change into your heals when you get there, lol.

It depends really on what looks better."

my thoughts exactly, I often do this, you just need a big handbag and they are very "on trend" right now.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

well done and good luck for next week x

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