FabSwingers.com forum: Sex with an ex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

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By *emaleinthedarkWoman
over a year ago

London

Nope.

Been there, done that.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Good grief no. Sure fire way to confusion.

They are an ex for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

No.

Yes.

It was nice but doesn't work out well in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought everyone had done their ex !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what type of ex ....

Ex husband .. never

Ex as in someone who I played with in the past .. possibly

Do whatever feels right for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

P did with his first Wife before he met me. Said it was superb and fiery. Sent her back to the bloke she left him for well sorted. Makes me jealous when I think of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't fancy my exes in any shape or form.

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I have and I would.

No more to be said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes.

No.

Yes.

It was nice but doesn't work out well in the end."

Exactly..but the sex blows my mind!! :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was still single depending on which ex was asking, probably yes. Have before. But Im more than happy only fucking my wife

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Good god no!!!

I know where he's been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

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don't do it you know what will happen xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one of them! We are back together, It's not happened yet, but it will

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

meh, already ruined

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good god no!!!

I know where he's been

Hahaha this made me giggle..and that's one of my concerns..just genuinely believe I won't find that click sexually again!! It's the only thing I miss...I don't miss the arse he was!!

Sorry if you are reading this boyo!! :O hahaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never , they are an ex for a reason

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Good god no!!!

I know where he's been

Hahaha this made me giggle..and that's one of my concerns..just genuinely believe I won't find that click sexually again!! It's the only thing I miss...I don't miss the arse he was!!

Sorry if you are reading this boyo!! :O hahaaaaa "

My ex is on here too (only recently) with the woman he left me for!!! Trust me, you will find a sexual click - I didn't think I would but have found 2!!!!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Recipe for disaster in my view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrrrrrmmmm yes I have and still do from time to time (I know but we are both human, we both have 'needs and urges') it's turned into a bit of a fwb kind of thing, he has his life and I have mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good god no!!!

I know where he's been

Hahaha this made me giggle..and that's one of my concerns..just genuinely believe I won't find that click sexually again!! It's the only thing I miss...I don't miss the arse he was!!

Sorry if you are reading this boyo!! :O hahaaaaa

My ex is on here too (only recently) with the woman he left me for!!! Trust me, you will find a sexual click - I didn't think I would but have found 2!!!! "

Oh I do hope so lol!!

Thanks for the advice :*

Fab pics btw xx

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By *edMan
over a year ago

cambridgeshire

An old gf was an ex because it turned out she was everyone's ex at one time or another, and an ex multiple times with some.

That's an ex best left ex'd I'd say

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Recipe for disaster in my view."

I won't disagree with that!

But I still would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd never go back.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

If we are both free agents and agree it's just for sex I would, but she never wanted to when we were together so highly doubtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never , they are an ex for a reason "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Errrrrrrmmmm yes I have and still do from time to time (I know but we are both human, we both have 'needs and urges') it's turned into a bit of a fwb kind of thing, he has his life and I have mine."

I'm sca_ed to death of any of those feeling creeping back!! it's taken my ages to boot them :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes.

No.

Yes.

It was nice but doesn't work out well in the end."

See above ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

No.

Next?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god sex with my ex was amazing, literally knew each other inside out. Sex would probably be pretty awesome cos we dislike each other a lot so it would be very angry sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good god no!!!

I know where he's been

I know Exactly what you mean!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Errrrrrrmmmm yes I have and still do from time to time (I know but we are both human, we both have 'needs and urges') it's turned into a bit of a fwb kind of thing, he has his life and I have mine.

I'm sca_ed to death of any of those feeling creeping back!! it's taken my ages to boot them :/"

Yeah I can see what you mean but me and the ex have always been more friends then husband and wife, in fact we've had more sex since we split then we ever did in 15 years of marriage. For me (and he also says for him) it's just a fuck, I treat it as a meet to be honest, there is no desire what so ever 'mentally' from either of us, we both no where we stand, he knows I go off sleeping with other men and he has his 'love that he's wanting' in his life,he just says treat me like one of your meets, so I do.

We have spoke about if he gets with his love of his life or I find a partner, we know that we can't do it forever but while we both want sex and we know where we stand, we aren't hurting anyone

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Good god no!!!

I know where he's been

I know Exactly what you mean!!!!"

no comment!!

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By *imkev76Couple
over a year ago

GOSPORT

Nope! Never! ! They are an ex for a reason and those reasons never go away! !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the reason many do it is cos its easier to fall back to them and shag than meeting new ones lol.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Nope! Never! ! They are an ex for a reason and those reasons never go away! !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god sex with my ex was amazing, literally knew each other inside out. Sex would probably be pretty awesome cos we dislike each other a lot so it would be very angry sex! "

yes i had sex in january with an ex i knew in side out, it was great ... i am now a dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the reason many do it is cos its easier to fall back to them and shag than meeting new ones lol."

I still meet new ones (well one offs) I just have a high sex drive obviously!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god sex with my ex was amazing, literally knew each other inside out. Sex would probably be pretty awesome cos we dislike each other a lot so it would be very angry sex!

yes i had sex in january with an ex i knew in side out, it was great ... i am now a dad."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have and I would again.

The sex is just too god damn good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooooooooo .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

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hell no .... Never ... I'd rather never have sex again !!

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By *omeotherguyMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

hell no .... Never ... I'd rather never have sex again !!

That relationship left its mark!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, no, never. They don't get to fuck me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

Don't bother... try something new...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No to all three. Those ships have sailed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the reason many do it is cos its easier to fall back to them and shag than meeting new ones lol.

I still meet new ones (well one offs) I just have a high sex drive obviously!"
That is right, so I guess you are not totally away from each other, still got feelings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you know each other's emotional state ..

Myself I did once then it got emotional again , so now no I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

hell no .... Never ... I'd rather never have sex again !!

That relationship left its mark!"
yeah he did a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the reason many do it is cos its easier to fall back to them and shag than meeting new ones lol.

I still meet new ones (well one offs) I just have a high sex drive obviously!That is right, so I guess you are not totally away from each other, still got feelings."

I would like to think on my part there are no feelings, all my love and need (as in a married need) went along time ago for that man, to me he is the father of my kids who happens to be a great shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grief no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had sex with any of my ex's.

So I wouldn't go back now and fuck them

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I'd never go back. "
to northern Ireland ? Why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never had sex with any of my ex's.

So I wouldn't go back now and fuck them

-Courtney"
that sounds rather strange unless your one and only love is marc with the big feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD NO!

Remember ex's are like fireworks. If you go back after the initial spark has gone out its certainly going to blow up in your face and leave scars forever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never had sex with any of my ex's.

So I wouldn't go back now and fuck them

-Courtney

that sounds rather strange unless your one and only love is marc with the big feet

Its not strange. Marc with the big feet was my first and last...until swinging, that is. Now I'm

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only one ex from a proper relationship and no I don't think going back is a good idea

Forwards not backwards

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I have done, but I don't think I will again. Main reason I did was because I knew they knew how to make me cum, it's rare that will happen for me with someone new!

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

"Nope, no, never. They don't get to fuck me again."

That is a very good answer. A very good way of looking at things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it.

But wouldnt again as he was lying about his relationship status..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not a chance. I'm friends with a few of my exes. Having sex with them woould lead to a car crash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a reason why they're ex's, so no, I wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

yes did. not with one ex :D something is always brings back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope, no, never. They don't get to fuck me again."

what if you split not for cheating or bad attitude :D

Still no??

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

"I have done, but I don't think I will again. Main reason I did was because I knew they knew how to make me cum, it's rare that will happen for me with someone new!"

This is exactly why I still play with my ex I know how to make her squirt also she only certain sexual activitys with me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did so recently, while the physical aspect was as good as ever it felt flat as there was no emotion, don't regret it though it gave me closure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, you know what each other like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no prob with it, I've done it

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By *ozzy87Man
over a year ago

Crawley

Only the 1 I never had sex with. She'd be the exception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never a good idea........

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

See now I do it beacuse im the only one who can make her squirt plus a few other sexual activities xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since we didn't have sex in the final years of our marriage I very much doubt we would now. The emotions that it would stir up would be too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's put it this way - I used to have nightmares about waking up in bed with my ex! I'd rather wake up in bed with a rabid Rottweiler!

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By *ouble_CreamCouple
over a year ago

cheltenham

Yes, the sex was the foundation of our relationship when together. And so after being split up almost a year and both emotionally moved on, it was easy to go back for the good bits when the opportunity arose! No fall out no problems, no issues. Just great sex how it used to be with someone who knew exactly what to do... I'd do it again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They wish they could!

Nah they're exes for a reason. I never look back, it detracts from the now.

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Never and never tempted either

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

a ex is a ex for a reason!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you?

Do you?

Would you?

I'm so tempted!!

Have done

Wouldn't do anymore

As someone else said, ex for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just have a few weeks ago with my ex fiance.. got in touch a year ago have kissed a few times but had sex a few weeks ago it was a bit strange and i didnt kno if it would bring up old feelings but was actually nice and il probably do it again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance.....he's an ex for a reason....even the mention of his name still gives me the shivers and god knows where he's been since we split and im happy with my life now.x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have and I wont now.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I only have two exes.

In both cases, I'd rather shit in my hands and clap rather than go anywhere near either of them ever again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only have two exes.

In both cases, I'd rather shit in my hands and clap rather than go anywhere near either of them ever again."

:')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once (not ex wife), but she wants a regular fb but time is against either of us meeting again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only have two exes.

In both cases, I'd rather shit in my hands and clap rather than go anywhere near either of them ever again."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No chance, she was miserable sod

A right moaning and complaining mood Hoover. Worst 6 weeks I ever had

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

"No chance, she was miserable sod

mood Hoover"

Love that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did and was the worst think that i ever did didnt take me long to realise that he was an ex for a reason

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