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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not so much a question for the couples as that's something of a given.

But for single folks do you have one person on here that you talk to about others? Whether it's potential meets, other users or just a good natter? Is it an fb, a fwb or just a confidant that you can trust? And how did that relationship evolve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. You know I do!

She is a lovely funny lady, who has similarities of personality to myself x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not really. I don't know anyone of you well enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

There's a couple of people I know quite well on here. I'm aware of a little about what (and who) they do away from me and vice versa.

But I/we don't share details. If we were all in a room or group chat, I'd tell them everything! But behind their backs, no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. You know I do!

She is a lovely funny lady, who has similarities of personality to myself x"

Haha yes, I'm fully aware of your partner in crime actually it was that that led me to this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one that I speak to several times a day, only on here mind, he kind of knows everything about me and my personal life, he's given me some great advice over the past few months and we've had a jolly good laugh too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have someone once. But now sometimes a male friend will listen to me if I need it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to have someone once. But now sometimes a male friend will listen to me if I need it "

Do you feel like you need a confidant? Do you miss that 'person'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. I have someone from here that I chat too lots about all sorts. He acts a bit like my filter too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a couple of people I speak to more regularly than others, one in particular but it's more about everyday things.

I enjoy chatting to him, he's a lovely guy and very funny and a good listener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much a question for the couples as that's something of a given.

But for single folks do you have one person on here that you talk to about others? Whether it's potential meets, other users or just a good natter? Is it an fb, a fwb or just a confidant that you can trust? And how did that relationship evolve?"
I trust everyone until they give me reason not to ,I'm a friendly guy most I chat to I would say enjoy chatting to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never chat about other members , respect their privacy to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend not to talk about other users from on here ,I do have a couple of friends I've known for around the 5 yr mark but our chats dont mention who ,what or when we tend to concentrate on each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"never chat about other members , respect their privacy to much"

It's not about respect or privacy, its about opening up about your life to another

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think that's a further question, do people feel like they need someone to talk to like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to have someone once. But now sometimes a male friend will listen to me if I need it

Do you feel like you need a confidant? Do you miss that 'person'?"

It was my error that caused it. Just have to move on and get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have a few people on here who I am close with and chat to most days about anything we want x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think that's a further question, do people feel like they need someone to talk to like that?"

The guy I chat with everyday is a fellow that I've 'connected' with on a friendship basis because our chats aren't sexual, they are every day conversations and I love the fact I've found someone here that is like that, we have the odd flirt here and there.

I would say almost everyone else I chat to is on a level of 'we are going to play' at some point, not to say I won't with the other guy but he seems to be one of the only ones who genuinely means it when he asks how my day has been.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Not so much a question for the couples as that's something of a given.

But for single folks do you have one person on here that you talk to about others? Whether it's potential meets, other users or just a good natter? Is it an fb, a fwb or just a confidant that you can trust? And how did that relationship evolve?"

I've one or two people I can chit chat to. Especially if it's just to have a moan or talk about fab related matters.

There's one person I've known on here for quite a while now. She's a real confidant for me. I totally trust her. That trust has built up over a long time. I've told her things I've never told anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a friend that I share with. It's very grounding as I'm relatively new to the scene and he's been here for years, so can offer an alternative perspective.

We're friends beyond the realms of fab. I know his partner and children and he's met my sister, so there's a lot of trust there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have someone from here I talk to, but I won't talk about other people I might meet from here in more than just general terms, because I don't think it's appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really; I may occasionally drop snippets of my life to the few people I sometimes talk to but I'm a bit of a private loner in life.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Yes. You know I do!

She is a lovely funny lady, who has similarities of personality to myself x

Haha yes, I'm fully aware of your partner in crime actually it was that that led me to this thread"

Peas in a pod!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few people I talk to on a fairly regular basis, no pressure to chat we just message when we want too about all sorts of stuff.

Any chat fab related is generic and not specific.

And it's evolved over a period of time.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Not any more.. used to have someone that chatted regularly but over the last year less and less. Been 3 months since we exchanged a message here. I miss his friendship.

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