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Do you prefer to get to know someone on here first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..

I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.

Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..

I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.

Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha"

No I completely agree why give your number to someone u know nothing about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like to chat and get to know some one first.

Its all part of the sensuality passion and fun.

Sharing jokes and likes and dislikes .

When you get to know some one first it makes meeting them so much more delightful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect that those that dive straight in act like "a kid in sweety shop" as someone once said!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those women are probably really men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im the same i like to get to know some1 first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other hand these women may have been messed around in the past and before they get into long drawn out chat they would like to establish straight away that you are a women too

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By *eddABCMan
over a year ago

Stretham Hill Greater London


"I think those women are probably really men"

They're just thirsty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..

I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.

Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha"
the reason they do it is because they've been chatting to loads of women for ages and its not been going anywhere or they suspect the woman is a man ,so they cut to chase and want to speak so they know you are a woman

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As most of my meets on here come through the forums, I can get a general feel of what the person is all about anyway. I much prefer to get to know someone first, and will swap phone numbers early doors if after a few pm's a meet seems imminent.

I state on my profile that I like a social first, but I know that's not everyone's cup of tea, nor is it practical if a lady has traveled 2 or 3 hundred miles to see me.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I like a few messages on here but then soon get bored of ping pong messages if the other person has no intention of meeting. But then i dont understand when i dont talk to them anymore.. yes i like talking but am not looking for chat buddies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all interested in getting to know someone first. Just meet at a club and get in with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Do you prefer to get to know someone on here first?

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I need a connection. But you can get a connection with some people quite quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me communication is key..chatting on here and getting to know someone first then once you feel comfortable exchange numbers and flirt outrageously before luring victim into my web of debauchery,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to chat on here first - lead up to the fem to fem phone chat - which we find really breaks the ice and then meet up -

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I like having a chat with someone before hand...it's good to know what someone likes and don't before a potential meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like to chat and get to know some one first.

Its all part of the sensuality passion and fun.

Sharing jokes and likes and dislikes .

When you get to know some one first it makes meeting them so much more delightful "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..

I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.

Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha"

Great way to end an exchange here. I don't like phone calls or Skype or any of that, so if someone expects phone calls, jog on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chatting on here & getting to know someone is all part of the allure & fun for me ....can't be a big of banter & flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We chat on here first and meet socially second. Always best to form a rapport with someone your going to shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to get to know them on here, then move on to kik or whatsapp after, hopefully a social next then a meet (obviously sometimes distance doesn't allow for a social first!) bit those are rare.

I generally use the block function for anyone too heavy in their first message.

However there is a limit to how much I will talk to them first (well now their is) after chatting to a few guys for months on end and they can't commit for no good reason to a social or meet (the 'I'm gonna fuck you this way and that when we meet' brigade) there is getting to know someone and them using me for a wank. Obviously the ones I do chat too for months and have good reason why they can't meet or I can't etc, that's entirely different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For one to one meets, yes, otherwise its a bit clinical or souless for me and I like fun and sensual.

In a club, in the heat of the moment- not so much. In fact talking too much in a club can work the opposite way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatting on here & getting to know someone is all part of the allure & fun for me ....can't be a big of banter & flirting "

I can think of a couple of things which you may prefer over banter and flirting. May I show you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chatting on here & getting to know someone is all part of the allure & fun for me ....can't be a big of banter & flirting

I can think of a couple of things which you may prefer over banter and flirting. May I show you? "

Please do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me communication is key..chatting on here and getting to know someone first then once you feel comfortable exchange numbers and flirt outrageously before luring victim into my web of debauchery, "
who doesn't love debauchery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk for ages before meeting and before adding as friends.....its worked well so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only give my number to someone I'm actually going to meet, and to get to that point I need to chat quite a bit on here first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting to know you.. Hmmm which part is the part you want to know. Life history.. Or what sex is lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning everyone. I get quite a few messages off women on here who dive straight in asking if I want to talk on the phone etc..

I would at least prefer to exchange messages first before phoning/meeting someone.

Am I being old fashioned or is that how everyone does it on here? haha"

I can understand why women do this with other women

I'd say a lot would want phone chat first to make sure your female before they start talking and getting to know you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you chat... What is that connection we all say we need. Connect to his balls or was bullshit chat. Connect where?

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We always meet for a drink and a chat not keen on playing ping pong messages find that 99% that do are waster,men pretending to be a couple or a single female

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Yes I do, through chatting first on here. Only once has this let me down.

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