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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Normally, I am chilled and relaxed.

But yesterday at work, it seemed that everyone and every thing just wanted to wind me up.... Ok, I am full of cold, so my temper level isn't as high as it normally is.

Anyone got any tips on being zen like and chilled, when all you want to do is go all Micheal Douglas in Falling Down and the world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything most other people do is nothing to do with you at all, it's to do with them and how they are.

That's what makes me not give a shit.

Some people are arseholes who do stuff on purpose to piss you off. Don't make their day by being pissed off because of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile through the pain........ people are freaked-out by constant smiles and will avoid you, leaving you to wallow in your own self-pity,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Smile through the pain........ people are freaked-out by constant smiles and will avoid you, leaving you to wallow in your own self-pity,,,,, "

Yep I was once told "always smile it'll either make someone happy or pissed off that you're happy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything most other people do is nothing to do with you at all, it's to do with them and how they are.

That's what makes me not give a shit.

Some people are arseholes who do stuff on purpose to piss you off. Don't make their day by being pissed off because of them."

I think he said he wanted to be more chilled and not more angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not good at this, I get wound up easily. But try to remember that ignoring them is the most insulting reaction of all. Don't give them the satisfaction of a response.

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

Sing "Let it go" from Frozen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Breathe through it. Don't let the bar stewards wear you down. Put on a happy face.

Chill motherfunker chill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a guy in here thinks that its huge fun to constantly wind me up well i had the last laugh when i told him to take a hike yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything most other people do is nothing to do with you at all, it's to do with them and how they are.

That's what makes me not give a shit.

Some people are arseholes who do stuff on purpose to piss you off. Don't make their day by being pissed off because of them.

I think he said he wanted to be more chilled and not more angry."

Why would what i said make someone more angry?

It's true, most people do or say things coz of who they are and not what other people are. Why take that to heart when you aren't even a factor here?

If someone is trying to wind you up by being an arsehole then why make them happy by being wound up? It just makes you sad. I like having the power over myself to be happy and not give a shit about things that really don't, or shouldn't, matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sing "Let it go" from Frozen. "

That is without doubt the best ever answer for any situation.....

I salute your genius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything most other people do is nothing to do with you at all, it's to do with them and how they are.

That's what makes me not give a shit.

Some people are arseholes who do stuff on purpose to piss you off. Don't make their day by being pissed off because of them.

I think he said he wanted to be more chilled and not more angry.

Why would what i said make someone more angry?

It's true, most people do or say things coz of who they are and not what other people are. Why take that to heart when you aren't even a factor here?

If someone is trying to wind you up by being an arsehole then why make them happy by being wound up? It just makes you sad. I like having the power over myself to be happy and not give a shit about things that really don't, or shouldn't, matter."

From my personal experience, going around thinking other people are arseholes and doing things to wind me up generally makes me more angry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything most other people do is nothing to do with you at all, it's to do with them and how they are.

That's what makes me not give a shit.

Some people are arseholes who do stuff on purpose to piss you off. Don't make their day by being pissed off because of them.

I think he said he wanted to be more chilled and not more angry.

Why would what i said make someone more angry?

It's true, most people do or say things coz of who they are and not what other people are. Why take that to heart when you aren't even a factor here?

If someone is trying to wind you up by being an arsehole then why make them happy by being wound up? It just makes you sad. I like having the power over myself to be happy and not give a shit about things that really don't, or shouldn't, matter.

From my personal experience, going around thinking other people are arseholes and doing things to wind me up generally makes me more angry."

Some people do that though. I did say most people don't and are just the way they are and you aren't the factor in any of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the stance of not giving a fuck about most things for a while now...makes life so much easier.

There's very little I actually care about but what I do care about i take very seriously.

People these days seem to get off on being offended, it's like they log onto the Internet with a raging hard on looking for their next fix of offence.

Same with everyday things such as work, people are always looking to offend or be offended......personally I can't be arsed with all that.

Underlying politics and hidden agendas are common place at work....same again, people get off on it....its of extremely little interest to me.

Like has been said, ignore them...this really pisses them off. I work with several people like this.....it soon comes back to bite them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But chances are if everyone is pissing you of its far more likely the issue is you ? Just breathe through it

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