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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so I've been thinking about this for some time.

I'm 36 and have been the same wieght since my late teens.

Am I to skinny?? Women don't seen to be attracted to my. Is this because they don't see me as a strong protective man??

Any help, advise or opinions great fully accepted.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion is your body is fine, hot in fact, facially i don't find you appealing. Am sure other people would though, not everyone likes the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its preferences, same as many don't like them who spends to much time in the gym.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I like lean men. They are still strong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like lean men. They are still strong."

Thanks you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look average weight to me, one thing you must remember is most western countries the people are slightly over weight or over weight, so average weight looks skinny, they have weight / height ratios if you are worried, being a healthy weight is good for your heart, liver and protects against things like diabetes, cancer e.t.c So don't feel bad about yourself. If someone doesn't like you as the way you are fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much do you weigh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like about 62kg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was very skinny until I hit my mid forties and then put on weight.

You are what you are...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ok so I've been thinking about this for some time.

I'm 36 and have been the same wieght since my late teens.

Am I to skinny?? Women don't seen to be attracted to my. Is this because they don't see me as a strong protective man??

Any help, advise or opinions great fully accepted.

Thanks "

Are women not attracted to you generally or on here? If it's the latter it's not your body!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was very skinny until I hit my mid forties and then put on weight.

You are what you are..."

I think you mean you are what you eat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like about 62kg"

This is so going to be a new game ^_^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to be overweight (slightly) then underweight, get bigger during the winter, then spend a the first few month of the year in the gym. It's what works for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look average weight to me, one thing you must remember is most western countries the people are slightly over weight or over weight, so average weight looks skinny, they have weight / height ratios if you are worried, being a healthy weight is good for your heart, liver and protects against things like diabetes, cancer e.t.c So don't feel bad about yourself. If someone doesn't like you as the way you are fuck them."

He can't Fuck em! That's the problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will undoubtedly be too skinny for some women, just as I'm too fat for some men. It might seem like all women are looking for a big muscly guy, but remember that there will be a whole swathe of women who aren't that bothered either way and you don't tend to hear their voice in threads or topics. There's a lot of pressure on men from the media to have a certain physique, but as with very thin bodies being held up as an ideal for women, it's often not founded on attraction from the opposite sex.

It's easy to hang your perceived lack of success on one factor ("women don't like me because I'm too skinny") but it doesn't seem helpful to do that with a feature that you basically can't change, like your build, skin colour or height. Think about the things you can influence, like your photos, profile, messages and approach.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks like about 62kg"

Good guess 65kgs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like about 62kg

This is so going to be a new game ^_^"

Want to guess my weight? I'm just under 6'2" if you want to be accurate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like about 62kg

This is so going to be a new game ^_^

Want to guess my weight? I'm just under 6'2" if you want to be accurate! "

74kg?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks like about 62kg

This is so going to be a new game ^_^

Want to guess my weight? I'm just under 6'2" if you want to be accurate!

74kg?"

Just seen the guess the weight thread. I'll jump in there...

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

OP, i'm one of those women RubyWoo said who doesn't care about bodies too much. Sure, I don't like a guy to be like Homer Simpson or Mr Burns but otherwise I'm not too bothered. However, it's a whole package thing for me.

Personally your pictures aren't doing it for me. Can you take a picture of yourself when you've made an effort to go out for an event or party or out on the pull?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with your body it be your mind Id find sexy and hot.

Ps so 45 is old for you really

.. Bit contradictory there. Age discrimination.. Put me right off

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By *eally Filthy CoupleCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Women are attracted to confident men who are comfortable in their own skin. I would concentrate more on that than worrying about your body which is fit and healthy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with your body it be your mind Id find sexy and hot.

Ps so 45 is old for you really

.. Bit contradictory there. Age discrimination.. Put me right off"

45 defiantly not to old for me.

You look stunning I my eyes.

Must remember to change my age range.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Nothing wrong with your body it be your mind Id find sexy and hot.

Ps so 45 is old for you really

.. Bit contradictory there. Age discrimination.. Put me right off"

Why shouldn't he state his age preferences?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Nothing wrong with your body it be your mind Id find sexy and hot.

Ps so 45 is old for you really

.. Bit contradictory there. Age discrimination.. Put me right off

45 defiantly not to old for me.

You look stunning I my eyes.

Must remember to change my age range."

You're allowed preferences. Changing them to suit others is off putting for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing wrong with your body it be your mind Id find sexy and hot.

Ps so 45 is old for you really

.. Bit contradictory there. Age discrimination.. Put me right off

Why shouldn't he state his age preferences?!! "
I know what you mean as women do it all the time lol.

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

You can't appeal to everyone. I used to get hang up about my weight as i always struggled to put muscle on, but as i get older i don't care as much, as guys my age come in all shapes and sizes, and it gets harder to keep as fit as you used to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer broad built men

Someome for everybody on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look fine to me. I wouldnt be into any guy slimmer than you though. Nor do i like guys who hace over done it so much in the gym thst thet look more like a cloud then a man lol. Just my opinion though based on my preferences.

What I don't like is your hairy arse crack pic. Never keen on hairy arses as I like to play with the male g spot. Too many Cock pics too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look fine to me. I wouldnt be into any guy slimmer than you though. Nor do i like guys who hace over done it so much in the gym thst thet look more like a cloud then a man lol. Just my opinion though based on my preferences.

What I don't like is your hairy arse crack pic. Never keen on hairy arses as I like to play with the male g spot. Too many Cock pics too. "

LOL apologies for the damn auto correct in my previous message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look fine to me. I wouldnt be into any guy slimmer than you though. Nor do i like guys who hace over done it so much in the gym thst thet look more like a cloud then a man lol. Just my opinion though based on my preferences.

What I don't like is your hairy arse crack pic. Never keen on hairy arses as I like to play with the male g spot. Too many Cock pics too. "

Cloud...

Love it, that made me laugh so much.

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