FabSwingers.com forum: True friends

By *aven Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Putney

Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

yes I suspect that there is its possible to find true friendship anywhere.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

I'd hope so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

What, like when you'd actually SHARE your chocolate with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

On fab? I hope so. There are a lot of lovely people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found a true friendship here

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

What, like when you'd actually SHARE your chocolate with them?

And your cake to..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes as much as in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Met some people from here who I class as my friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely. I met one of my best male friends on here. We don't play anymore but we'll always be great friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

What, like when you'd actually SHARE your chocolate with them?

And your cake to.."

My friends here and away from here know I'm not sharing my food with them

So that said, yes I have made a few people I would see are true friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to think you could.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Entirely possible, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we make some fantastic friends in this life so yes certainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have several people on here that we now consider good friends

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I think I have found a good friend. Even had to promise that if I ever get married I have to invite them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think that I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

What, like when you'd actually SHARE your chocolate with them?

And your cake to.."

That's crazy talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. Anywhere you come into contact with other humans there is a risk of friendship.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I think I have

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Yes

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Met my best friend swinging some 11 years ago. We used to fuck but ended up very close friends.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield

Met some people through swinging who have become really good friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely. Anywhere you come into contact with other humans there is a risk of friendship."

"A risk" of friendship.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yup... for sure!

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Made some Great friends on here who i no i wil be in contact way after Fab

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I have found true friendships here and I value them as mush as my vanilla friendships.

Friendship is the family you choose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely. Anywhere you come into contact with other humans there is a risk of friendship.

"A risk" of friendship.

That made me chuckle too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, it's possible to find friendship anywhere.

A true friendship for me though would develop over time as opposed to being for just a period of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is ,and true friendship between opposite sexes happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes from the fast food jury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

Yes but they have to be searched for carefully..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

Yes but they have to be searched for carefully.. "

I like ones that share their beer

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Yes, true friends can be found on Fab. I've recently been very ill and my Fab friends have been so supportive and looked after me. More so than vanilla friends to be honest. As long as you are open to it true friends can be found anywhere

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Yes, it does happen occasionally.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'll say it does. I met my best guy friend on here years ago now. And he's a true friend.

Also made a friend with a female I met on here over 2 years ago.

Andy recently met some people who may well become real friends.

My circle of true friends is quite small though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without doubt you can x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, my best mate was my first meet on here, never play now but very close, go visit, drink tea, go to gigs, family events, stuff like that so yeah, of course friendship happens on here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I'll say it does. I met my best guy friend on here years ago now. And he's a true friend.

Also made a friend with a female I met on here over 2 years ago.

Andy recently met some people who may well become real friends.

My circle of true friends is quite small though

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Yup

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

If you had asked me at the beginning of this year if I even believed in true friendship at all, I'd have probably said no. My opinion on friendships in general was not good. I guess that's what happens when you've been let down by a lot of so-called friends in your life.

All I can say is I was wrong. Very wrong. There are some good people to be found on here. And one lady in particular has become a true friend to me. A real lifesaver and confidant. I feel truly blessed to have found her. A wonderful woman and a wonderful friend.

So yes, there is such a thing as true friendship on here. I know that for a fact.

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

a friend will help and support you.

a real friend will be on the naughty step with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've met some lovely people through the swinging lifestyle who are true friends.

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By *aven Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Putney

Wow - such lovely positive comments - I remain optimistic lol xxx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow - such lovely positive comments - I remain optimistic lol xxx"

So you should x. We're really close to one couple we've now known for about three years

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

No, it's not possible. I've been friends with some people for over four years and they've never once brought chocolate to a meet.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I've got three really good friends on here, ones I'd trust with my body...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Yes met some great people who I class as friends, got a brother from another mother and others who are awesome in every way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes id share my last rolo with a few really lovely people in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely. I met one of my best male friends on here. We don't play anymore but we'll always be great friends

I met a great friend here, we've never played but we talk every day ?? He's yummy as lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

Simply put -yes.

I met one of my closest friends on this site. Someone who I would do anything for and trust implicitly.

I have also met several other people whom I consider good friends too.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

I like other girls to talk to on here can not talk to my girl friends about this side of our life Jane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I've been here long enough to class anyone as a friend to be honest.

I chat to a few I am very fond of but I've not met them in the flesh so I would say calling them friends is too strong a word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like other girls to talk to on here can not talk to my girl friends about this side of our life Jane"

same here Jane none of my friends know that im on fab they would have a fit and thats putting it mildly

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

24 November 2013 I met someone on here who turned into a true friend...he's snoring gently beside me. I've also met four men who have remained true friends. One lives in Wilmslow and he used to drive me to Chorley hospital to visit my dad when he was dying.

Another we ended up chatting, I didn't find him sexually attractive and he was married. Once a month we would go to the theatre (his treat) and dinner (my treat). His wife knew and was happy as he was her carer and his once a month "date" made both their lives happier.

She phoned me when he had a fall and ended up in hospital. She phoned when it was discovered he had lung cancer. When he died I travelled in the hearst with her.

Friendship can begin anywhere.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

All my closest friends I have met on the scene, I can be myself around them out of the scene my closest friends are my mum and my sister. I'm blessed to have some loving friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes over 3 yrs ago met my best friend on here .

Plus have a few couples who are friends on here and in the real world I've known since I joined nearly 6 yrs ago. And one lovely friendship that's blooming away nicely. And I am so looking forward to seeing her soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its very possible, I've made a few already and its a blessing that I have found one man in particular, he makes me smile and cheers me up no end. Its more than friendship too but I do also see him as a best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

Yes but they have to be searched for carefully..

I like ones that share their beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

I'm sure plenty of people do find true friendship on here and that's great for them .

But we wouldn't look for true friendship on here , that's not on our agenda .

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

We arranged to meet a couple in the prem inn for a drink before we went to Xtasia a couple of years ago , got on well ,,,, spent the evening messing around with them in Xtasia and at the end of the evening we thought what great folk they were and wouldnt it be great to see them again ,,,,,,, it seems they thought the same thing because when we got home there was a message waiting for us on Fabs asking us to theirs the following weekend ,they only live 10 miles away and we have become the very best of friends , we see them nearly every week if not twice a week and its not all about the sex either although thats a fantastic part of our friendship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes as much as in the real world "
can we be friends

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes, I've found one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice to read positive threads always make me smile

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am here for sex, not friendships outside of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the few i consider true friends ive known for yearsss

id take a pinch of salt with friendships that develop and are maintained through an internet connection

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

You can count your true friends on one hand and have spare fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We clicked the first time we met, like peas in a pod, decided to do couple profile, and the fun is still ongoing.

We can't go to any clubs or parties without each other, doesn't feel right. We are even spending Christmas together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes there true friendship here. We have met some really fantastic people. We all met at a club but we are all on here and we couldn't ask for better friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

We have made some great friends on here, haven't played with each other we met at a social hit it off and friendship continued off fab. Andy and I also met on here and we have been togetger over 2 years now. X

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

"You can count your true friends on one hand and have spare fingers"

i went to a evening get together back in the summer and got to know quite a few new faces and had a good chat and a laugh ,,,, upon leaving a elder gentleman that i know asked me if i had a good time ,,, yes i told him , i have made some good new friends , he smiled and said only time will tell if they will become friends , he said that he would call them acquaintances and any man who has more than 5 true friends is a very wealthy man in deed ,,,,,, had me thinking on my way home and yes i had to agree with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We arranged to meet a couple in the prem inn for a drink before we went to Xtasia a couple of years ago , got on well ,,,, spent the evening messing around with them in Xtasia and at the end of the evening we thought what great folk they were and wouldnt it be great to see them again ,,,,,,, it seems they thought the same thing because when we got home there was a message waiting for us on Fabs asking us to theirs the following weekend ,they only live 10 miles away and we have become the very best of friends , we see them nearly every week if not twice a week and its not all about the sex either although thats a fantastic part of our friendship

Same with us. Our closest friends from here live in Cheltenham and we saw them just a few weeks back when sex was not even on the cards. It was just amazing to see them and we'd quite happily just spend days out in their company

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Outside of Fab I have 5 true friends, we go back to childhood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely. Anywhere you come into contact with other humans there is a risk of friendship.

"A risk" of friendship.

I saw that too. Made me chuckle......

In answer to the OP, I'd say yes, it's possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

She phoned me when he had a fall and ended up in hospital. She phoned when it was discovered he had lung cancer. When he died I travelled in the hearst with her.

Friendship can begin anywhere. "

Inspiring. Enough said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. When the sex stops it'll fizzle out.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

"No. When the sex stops it'll fizzle out.

definitely not. My best friend ever is a lady I stopped having sex with over 10 years ago. We remain close friends without the sex and see each other socially at least once a week. I'm friends albeit less close with several ex swinging partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol"

I don't have any true friends in the swinging world on this or any other swinging site.

Apart from my hubby that is, I met him via another swinging site and apart from being married, he is also my best friend

Before i met him i had many men friends who all said they wanted to remain "friends" with me when i stopped swinging after meeting my future hubby. However once they got no sex with me though these "friendships" vanished and I never heard from any of them except once in a blue moon when they asked if I was swinging again and would i meet them (answer ... no) lol.

I don't "do" friendships with females at all neither here nor in the real world as I find most women boring anyway.

So no, no true friendships here apart from hubby. I would only think they were after something as that has been the way in the past

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

She phoned me when he had a fall and ended up in hospital. She phoned when it was discovered he had lung cancer. When he died I travelled in the hearst with her.

Friendship can begin anywhere.

Inspiring. Enough said. "

inspiring indeed

sometimes you just dont know who or what is around the corner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

She phoned me when he had a fall and ended up in hospital. She phoned when it was discovered he had lung cancer. When he died I travelled in the hearst with her.

Friendship can begin anywhere.

Inspiring. Enough said.

inspiring indeed

sometimes you just dont know who or what is around the corner"

Absolutely. Sometimes life takes in a direction we'd never considered.

It's ok to go with the flow.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"Is there such a thing as true friendship here???

Just wondering lol

Yes but they have to be searched for carefully..

I like ones that share their beer

I like the ones who share their wine - and yes I like to think I have made some really good friends xx

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