FabSwingers.com forum: Friends list and Hotlist and Blocklist

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you use yours?

My friends list is full of those I have met or want to meet or forumite I've become friendly with.

Hotlist is those I like to perv at, but unlikely to meet because of distance or I doubt I'd meet their preferences.

Blocklist is those who have said 'no thanks', just so I don't hassle them again. Also those people I just don't want to chat to.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You're on all three of mine.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Similar I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're on all three of mine.

Does that constitute a 3some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're on 2 out of 3 of those for me OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sulking ..... Ben got my knickers and I don't appear on his friends list

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're on 2 out of 3 of those for me OP "

Bugger... have you blocked me?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"You're on all three of mine.

Does that constitute a 3some

It's as close as I'm going to get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sulking ..... Ben got my knickers and I don't appear on his friends list

Rectified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar, but my hotlist tends to also be people with amusing ranty status updates etc, which can be good for a laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends and block list I use in the same way, but I've started to use the hotlist as a list of forumites I like (non-sexually) but am unlikely to meet, so I can enjoy status updates etc without having to trawl through threads.

That actually sounds really stalkery......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what they're for, I just don't use them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends list people we have met or plan to meet very soon

Hotlist people we think are too hot for us

Block list everyone who annoys the fuck out of us

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

Mines the same as yours OP .... But I've not got a blocked list ... I guess I'm not famous enough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're on 2 out of 3 of those for me OP

Bugger... have you blocked me?

Of course

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Sulking ..... Ben got my knickers and I don't appear on his friends list

It'll probably the closest thing to him getting in my knickers

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Mines the same as yours OP .... But I've not got a blocked list ... I guess I'm not famous enough lol "

My ex-husband & his gf are on my blocked list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a total of one on the block list and zero on the hotlist. Not really putting much strain on the system

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Friends list is for those I know or am planning to meet.

Hotlist is, well, kind of a running competition of suspected unlos and forum posters that I want to check to see if they were telling porkies

Block list, primarily for profiles that show a not so nice side of themselves here on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never used the hotlist have used the other two...

Maybe I should use the hotlist. Will the one in.my jotlist know they are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to use block for guys i didn't fancy, stopped doing that now and only if the guy is really awful or a stalker then i'll block them.

Hotlist is for the people i wanna know are online so i can message them there and then.

Freindslist is for people i really like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really use those lists but I think I may now after reading how others use them.

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

"Mines the same as yours OP .... But I've not got a blocked list ... I guess I'm not famous enough lol

My ex-husband & his gf are on my blocked list

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ha ha I think that's a good move and you've just been added to my hotlist x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sulking ..... Ben got my knickers and I don't appear on his friends list

It'll probably the closest thing to him getting in my knickers

Never say never!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sulking ..... Ben got my knickers and I don't appear on his friends list

Rectified

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hotlist people we think are too hot for us

With you on that one!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Never used the hotlist have used the other two...

Maybe I should use the hotlist. Will the one in.my jotlist know they are?

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nope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends list is quite random, some over met, some I would like to meet and some are just there!

My hotlist is full of men that I would like to meet but probably in my million, wildest dreams would I ever use it to take that plunge and ask.

My blacklist is for those who only message one word messages to me, don't fit my 'criteria' or who has messaged me and clearly I don't want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list is quite random, some over met, some I would like to meet and some are just there!

My hotlist is full of men that I would like to meet but probably in my million, wildest dreams would I ever use it to take that plunge and ask.

My blacklist is for those who only message one word messages to me, don't fit my 'criteria' or who has messaged me and clearly I don't want to meet "

Some I've met!! Bloody phone!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends and block list I use in the same way, but I've started to use the hotlist as a list of forumites I like (non-sexually) but am unlikely to meet, so I can enjoy status updates etc without having to trawl through threads.

That actually sounds really stalkery......

I do exactly the same. Thank god for stealth mode

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"How do you use yours?

My friends list is full of those I have met or want to meet or forumite I've become friendly with.

Hotlist is those I like to perv at, but unlikely to meet because of distance or I doubt I'd meet their preferences.

Blocklist is those who have said 'no thanks', just so I don't hassle them again. Also those people I just don't want to chat to.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Friends list - people I have met and am in contact with.

Hotlist - people I may be about to meet.

Blocklist - jerks and nutters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mines the same as yours OP .... But I've not got a blocked list ... I guess I'm not famous enough lol

My ex-husband & his gf are on my blocked list

ha ha I think that's a good move and you've just been added to my hotlist x"

I do wish you could choose to display who is on your Hotlist. I'd love to know who has me on theirs... just as an ego boost!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My friends list is quite random, some over met, some I would like to meet and some are just there!"

This sums up our friends list.

Our hotlist is really short and mostly for profiles with pictures I like to take a look at.

Our blocklist is really short, too, and is profiles that have been particularly rude.

-Courtney

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Friends list - people that Ive met and because they have already seen me they arent going to be scared by my private pics

Hotlist - you dont want to be on my hotlist

Block list - a small community of misfits who have lived there for so long that it would be cruel to move them out of a familiar environment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them all confused sometimes

Sorry people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block List - Twats

Hotlist - Sigh, if only!

Friends - I've been lucky enough or I'm lucky that the feeling is mutual and it just hasn't happened yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block list ,, nobody I am a friendly chap

Hotlist ,, my wow list with friends in there too

Friends

My brilliant chums from the forums and beyond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends ~ people I've met / want to meet.

Hotlist ~ for Perving, funny status updates & keeping and eye on

Blacklist ~ not many at all, mainly people who live way too close to me & the odd random arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends ~ people I've met / want to meet.

Hotlist ~ for Perving, funny status updates & keeping and eye on

Blacklist ~ not many at all, mainly people who live way too close to me & the odd random arse."

interesting. .............. what do you block the random arse with?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Friends ~ people I've met / want to meet.

Hotlist ~ for Perving, funny status updates & keeping and eye on

Blacklist ~ not many at all, mainly people who live way too close to me & the odd random arse.

interesting. .............. what do you block the random arse with?

Immodium

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Friends list for people we have met or hope to meet.

Hotlist for people I find interesting or people I like to perv!

Block list for people who don't read our profile or come across as nasty in the forums

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

my friends list are mainly people I met off the chatrooms or forums, one or two might be ones that we both have mutual attraction with

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hotlist.....hmm that's private but I have a fair few couples (mainly asian) and a few women on there too.

blocklist.....never blocked anyone or use it don't see the point although sometimes it is tempting..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends ~ people I've met / want to meet.

Hotlist ~ for Perving, funny status updates & keeping and eye on

Blacklist ~ not many at all, mainly people who live way too close to me & the odd random arse.

interesting. .............. what do you block the random arse with?

Immodium"

......Some bastrd told me Andrews!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends list - people I've spoke to and seem nice enough to want to talk to again

Hot list - my fave ever fabbers who I hope to meet

Block list - pushy people, people that don't interest me, one person who unfairly bad mouthed one of my stories as I didn't reply to him, RUDE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*there's also my fave ever fabbers that I actually have met in my hot list too (lucky me!!)

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