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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I joined this site after the breakdown of my marriage in the hope of just having a little fun but it's really hard to contact people when you're crippled with self doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site after the breakdown of my marriage in the hope of just having a little fun but it's really hard to contact people when you're crippled with self doubt. "

You're contacting a lot of people now, good luck dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site after the breakdown of my marriage in the hope of just having a little fun but it's really hard to contact people when you're crippled with self doubt.

You're contacting a lot of people now, good luck dude."

Same here matey, the forum is the place to be. All the best.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i expect your head will be a bit fucked up for a year or so after that .i know mine was ..now im so glad she dumped me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's making you feel bad then perhaps having a break from the site is something to consider. Try again when you're feeling more emotionally robust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest going to a social. Neutral setting where you can meet like minded people with no pressure to chat and flirt. Ease yourself into it rather than looking for a meet straight away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you doubting about yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd imagine that this site will be very good therapy for you, - just reading the Charlie Sheen thread, can only do good for ones self esteem! ")

But good luck mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're having alot of self doubt I don't think you should be pressuring yourself into meeting people. Maybe just chat to begin with, a few social meets. I've been where you are. You really need to sort your head first before you dive in here!!

I've found you've got to have a tough skin on here and at the mo you may not be in the right frame of mind. Just my humble thoughts. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd suggest going to a social. Neutral setting where you can meet like minded people with no pressure to chat and flirt. Ease yourself into it rather than looking for a meet straight away"

This

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Just be here to chat to people with no pressure to meet,that will come within time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What are you doubting about yourself?"

Everything and yet at the same time nothing in particular. I'm just lacking the confidence to send that first message to someone. That's why I thought I'd try the forum because I'm not contacting anyone specific

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

A thick skin is a useful tool on here - you will face a lot of rejection.

If being here acts as a means of dealing with the bigger rejection - good luck and enjoy.

If it will make things worse - come back when the time is right for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I joined this site after the breakdown of my marriage in the hope of just having a little fun but it's really hard to contact people when you're crippled with self doubt. "

Define just having a little fun?

If you mean sex- as a single male you need to know that the odds are stacked against you And you need a tough hide.

Personally, I don't think meeting when depressed is necessarily the best idea- I have seen some people not be able to handle it, they are not always thinking clearly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you doubting about yourself?

Everything and yet at the same time nothing in particular. I'm just lacking the confidence to send that first message to someone. That's why I thought I'd try the forum because I'm not contacting anyone specific

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Send me a message if you want a chat mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined online 'dating'/sex sites when my relationship went tits up.

At times i needed a break from it because i didn't trust myself, just do whatever feels right for you at the time and never feel under any pressure to do anything at all.

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