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By *ingersolo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oldham

Sorry for moaning but this is like the internet version of shouting and screaming into the wind.

Anyone that knows me understands I love my job and Work very very long hours. If im asked to cover extra shifts no matter where or when if I can ill do it (even when it takes 2 hours to get there on the buses or means I'm away from home for up to 3 days in a row).

Today I made an exception, by arranging two weeks ago with the boss that I would have the day off. By the end of the week I'll have still worked over 70 hours anyway plus several nights).

It's not just a lazy day off, it's my sons birthday. He's 15 today, lives in boarding school in the lake district and is autistic, and was over the moon to know I'm going to visit him today.

The thing that's really annoyed me is I'm now having texts and calls saying they couldn't cover my shift and I should be there. Glad I've kept the messages so I can prove what was said so it shouldn't go to discipline but put a damper on what should be a fantastic day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore them,don't let them make you feel guilty or bully you

Enjoy your day today

Deal with them tomorrow

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By *ingersolo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oldham

will do chick. Im just telling myself I deserve a day off, my son deserves a good birthday with his mum and its not my fault if the boss is too incompetent to organize rotas properly. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of this is your fault, you arranged the time off with plenty of notice. Try and enjoy the day xx

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley

Had similar years ago, got pulled back from holiday, boy did they pay.

Hope you have a great day with your son, these are the days you'll both remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is yours and your sons day - enjoy it and dont let work cast a shadow - in my last job it got so id block the work number if i was off for a day xxxxx hope you have a good day

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By *revorAndTraceyCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle Upon Tyne

Switch phone off and enjoy a special well deserved day off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Switch phone off and enjoy a special well deserved day off "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you both have a fantastic day,don't even think about work.it's their mistake not yours.you followed the procedure for booking a holiday.by the sound of things you work long enough to deserve a day off for whatever reason you choose.Happy birthday to your son.enjoy

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

It is a pain in the arse when companies try and take liberties like that. If you have arranged it all in advance, enjoy your day off and try and ignore them.

If you have an iPhone, go into the work contact entry and change their text/ring tone to silent - that way you will hear the important stuff but work will silently just build up without interrupting you. It might work on Android too, but I know **** all about Android.

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By *ingersolo OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oldham

Thank you all for your support guys. We both had a great time and turned my phone off while I was there. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you had a good day.

They knew you wanted the day off, not your fault if they can't arrange suitable cover for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you all for your support guys. We both had a great time and turned my phone off while I was there. xx"

good - do it again soon and have a day for you xxx

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

The willing horse always gets the most work.....as the saying goes. Perhaps they might appreciate you more now.

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