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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So many single guys on here that can't accom? This makes things very difficult as I can only accom sometimes! Only so much you can do in a car and outside this time of the year isn't much fun!!

Just saying

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

"So many single guys on here that can't accom? This makes things very difficult as I can only accom sometimes! Only so much you can do in a car and outside this time of the year isn't much fun!!

Just saying

I'm the same as you, try suggesting a hotel - although many don't want to cough up, even when you offer to go halves xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the same reasons as you can only accom on occasion. And it's not necessarily always because they're attached

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

Know exactly what you mean

Love a naughty hotel meet but they can get expensive. To be fair though, in this day and age it swings both ways. It seems there are a lot of us ladies who can't accomodate. Wish I could! But I'm only in the country try for a short time so back at my parents.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably the same reasons as you can only accom on occasion. And it's not necessarily always because they're attached

Not assuming they are attached!

I get pestered all the time to accom and it seems unfair. I have my kids at home all the time, they don't go to their dad's.

Has anyone tried to get a hotel during the day? Bloody difficult!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big up the single guy reply here!

It could be they house share in which case it can get very awkward

They live at home with family, more awkward

They are attached, not awkward but never gonna happen

They simply don't want to mix their fab life together with real life

Also, they may not have much money, because if they are attached (unless you are very clever) all money is accounted for, if you live at home chances are you don't have my disposable income, or they are just shit with money.

Just a few reasons why they might not be able to accommodate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The solution is ,look for genuine couples,alot seem able to accommodate .

Wink,wink,nudge ,nudge !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has different reasons for there situation, don't discriminate them if It can't work just move on

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"The solution is ,look for genuine couples,alot seem able to accommodate .

Wink,wink,nudge ,nudge !!!"

Just to complete the set there are many many couples who don't accommodate.

"Meet now at yours" is a common cry....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone has different reasons for there situation, don't discriminate them if It can't work just move on

Not discriminating!!! (Not that I think that's the correct term). Just wanted to know why a huge majority of single guys can't accom???

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think there's a perceived risk attached to inviting a stranger into your home and I can understand people not being willing to take it. I have no alternative suggestions I'm afraid apart from clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the same reasons lots of women can't or choose not to accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't expect anyone to accommodate tbh.

I prefer to meet in a hotel or at a club especially if it was my 1st time meeting them.

Budget style hotels are pretty cheap these days especially if you split the costs, could be an alternative to your car......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't expect anyone to accommodate tbh.

I prefer to meet in a hotel or at a club especially if it was my 1st time meeting them.

Budget style hotels are pretty cheap these days especially if you split the costs, could be an alternative to your car......"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Big up the single guy reply here!

It could be they house share in which case it can get very awkward

They live at home with family, more awkward

They are attached, not awkward but never gonna happen

They simply don't want to mix their fab life together with real life

Just a few reasons why they might not be able to accommodate x"

I'm in shared accommodation and am willing to bring people home just have to be curtious to the other people in the house but seeing as most don't speak hardly any English and have taken food from my fridge

I'm not sure I care lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has different reasons for there situation, don't discriminate them if It can't work just move on

Not discriminating!!! (Not that I think that's the correct term). Just wanted to know why a huge majority of single guys can't accom??? "

Because it means they have to pick their dirty pants up off the floor,change the sheets and clean the loo?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has different reasons for there situation, don't discriminate them if It can't work just move on

Not discriminating!!! (Not that I think that's the correct term). Just wanted to know why a huge majority of single guys can't accom??? "

I agree bad choice of words but I was just trying to say, everyone has there own life if fab. Maybe they don't want to mix the 2 together.

I can accommodate but I'm yet to as I don't want to invite just anyone round.

I'm happy to pay hotel costs for ladies who can't accommodate or travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone has different reasons for there situation, don't discriminate them if It can't work just move on

Not discriminating!!! (Not that I think that's the correct term). Just wanted to know why a huge majority of single guys can't accom???

Because it means they have to pick their dirty pants up off the floor,change the sheets and clean the loo?

Oh no she never went there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd feel very uncomfortable inviting a total stranger to my home let alone the fact that I have my kids full time! Hotel meets are far more fun.

If someone is willing to jump to conclusions based on one small aspect of my profile then theyre probably not the kind of person I want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd feel very uncomfortable inviting a total stranger to my home let alone the fact that I have my kids full time! Hotel meets are far more fun.

If someone is willing to jump to conclusions based on one small aspect of my profile then theyre probably not the kind of person I want to meet"

Exactly! If you say on your profile that your a single parent and can't accommodate, as I do then that's fine. I'd never try to pressure someone into accommodating.

I get lots of messages from single guys who can't accommodate but expect me to even when I explain about my situation. I've had guys expect to come when my kids are in bed!!!

or I've been asked to give them a blow job on my door step ffs!!

Im aware that I live in a very military area and lots of the guys live in accommodation so therefor it could be difficult. It can be worked around.

What annoys me is the "I can't accom (no explanation) so you have to" attitude!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site. "

Oh dear, did we fall out the wrong side of the bed this morning????

Don't take things so personally (especially on here). I'm not "bashing" anyone Hun, just an observation, that's all. Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site.

Oh dear, did we fall out the wrong side of the bed this morning????

Don't take things so personally (especially on here). I'm not "bashing" anyone Hun, just an observation, that's all. Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!! "

Virtual sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as some women that can't accommodate, most probably are married lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just don't want to invite strangers off the internet into their homes

Just a thought.....

Of course it's easier and more socially acceptable to just say they're probably married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate but there are some real nutters on here both men and women so would always on the side of caution

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By *orfun7Man
over a year ago

mold

Probably because there on here as single when really there wife and kids are at home watching coronation street at the house they can't accom in haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same as some women that can't accommodate, most probably are married lol."

I was talking about genuine single guys! Can smell a married a mile off!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I can accommodate and used to a lot. I don't now and if I had my time again, I wouldn't.

People are often too loose lipped with other people's addresses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!! "

Hotels and clubs mainly.

I don't think people should have to explain their reasons either. They might not have kids or housemates or family at home, they might just value their privacy and not want to invite randoms from the internet to their home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site.

Oh dear, did we fall out the wrong side of the bed this morning????

Don't take things so personally (especially on here). I'm not "bashing" anyone Hun, just an observation, that's all. Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!! "

Quite easily usually! Like I said before, hotel meets are lots of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is it strange when it's probably the same reasons as it is for the single female...smh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site.

Oh dear, did we fall out the wrong side of the bed this morning????

Don't take things so personally (especially on here). I'm not "bashing" anyone Hun, just an observation, that's all. Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!!

Virtual sex

The ones that confuse me are the can't accom can't travel and won't meet locals!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site.

Oh dear, did we fall out the wrong side of the bed this morning????

Don't take things so personally (especially on here). I'm not "bashing" anyone Hun, just an observation, that's all. Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!!

Virtual sex

The ones that confuse me are the can't accom can't travel and won't meet locals! Give me a solution to how you'd like to meet then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So many single guys on here that can't accom? This makes things very difficult as I can only accom sometimes! Only so much you can do in a car and outside this time of the year isn't much fun!!

Just saying

I'm the same as you, try suggesting a hotel - although many don't want to cough up, even when you offer to go halves xx"

When I never used to be able accom due to living in halls at uni, I always used to offer to pay for the hotel and wouldn't ask a woman to go halves it's ungentlemanly like I think, but that's obviously my opinion and as I have very few bills I can splash out on that luxury from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't be tight and get a hotel between you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind accommodating but I reserve the right to offer that hospitality on my own terms and that rarely involves a first meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm too lazy to dust my room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if I dismember all of these dead hookers there is no way they will fit in the cupboards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I'm too lazy to dust my room "

I was right!

I win

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Because I'm too lazy to dust my room

I was right!

I win

Hurray for you! And your prize...

You get to have sex with all of us!

Hurray for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How is it strange when it's probably the same reasons as it is for the single female...smh

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Because it is more acceptable for a woman to be married here lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The solution is ,look for genuine couples,alot seem able to accommodate .

Wink,wink,nudge ,nudge !!!"

We can accommodate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site.

Oh dear, did we fall out the wrong side of the bed this morning????

Don't take things so personally (especially on here). I'm not "bashing" anyone Hun, just an observation, that's all. Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!! "

Apologies

I wasn't taking it personally, I was trying to do the school run/dog walk, answer some work emails and respond to a ridiculous topic on Fab at the same time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site.

Oh dear, did we fall out the wrong side of the bed this morning????

Don't take things so personally (especially on here). I'm not "bashing" anyone Hun, just an observation, that's all. Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!!

Apologies

I wasn't taking it personally, I was trying to do the school run/dog walk, answer some work emails and respond to a ridiculous topic on Fab at the same time

If it's ridiculous why respond??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Even if I dismember all of these dead hookers there is no way they will fit in the cupboards."

Have you tried disposing of them in the neighbours bins??

or pop them to the local pig farm

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Even if I dismember all of these dead hookers there is no way they will fit in the cupboards.

Have you tried disposing of them in the neighbours bins??

or pop them to the local pig farm

Has anyone else just read that with s "Winston Wolf, at your service" voice in their head?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site.

Oh dear, did we fall out the wrong side of the bed this morning????

Don't take things so personally (especially on here). I'm not "bashing" anyone Hun, just an observation, that's all. Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!!

Apologies

I wasn't taking it personally, I was trying to do the school run/dog walk, answer some work emails and respond to a ridiculous topic on Fab at the same time

If it's ridiculous why respond??

I apologise.... again....

You're absolutely right, how dare single guys not accommodate. Shame on you all! (Insert whichever emoticon refers to tongue in cheek humour)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you having a laugh???

For the record I am a single parent but I still a compare at the right time for the right people.

I'm just dumbfounded (it's the second time I am using that word this morning) that you're going to bash single guys for not doing something that you are also not prepared to do?

Some, OBVIOUSLY NOT ALL, single women have a very odd idea of the dynamic between men and women on this site.

Oh dear, did we fall out the wrong side of the bed this morning????

Don't take things so personally (especially on here). I'm not "bashing" anyone Hun, just an observation, that's all. Was wondering how things are supposed to work if neither can accom!!!

Apologies

I wasn't taking it personally, I was trying to do the school run/dog walk, answer some work emails and respond to a ridiculous topic on Fab at the same time

If it's ridiculous why respond??

I apologise.... again....

You're absolutely right, how dare single guys not accommodate. Shame on you all! (Insert whichever emoticon refers to tongue in cheek humour) "

So you should!!!

Never said they had to, just wondered why they didn't? Especially when they expect a woman to!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably the same reasons as you can only accom on occasion. And it's not necessarily always because they're attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I'm too lazy to dust my room "

I'll bring a duster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met loads of men who accommodate.

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