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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here's one I'm curious about...

Its well known that whilst many heterosexual guys go for different things in women, you'll typically find that there are many factors the vast majority of guys find attractive, such as full lips, big eyes, long legs, firm boobs and bum etc

(please note that was just an example to lead into the real question below, which I'd like this thread to stay on)

It seems amongst guys who like guys however, tastes are more diverse, for example, some like feminine, youthful or boyish guys, others like stereotypically rugged and handsome types (that women would probably be thought to find attractive), and then of course you have the BEARS - hefty, soft, hairy chunky men, the spectrum seems pretty spread out.

So this question is meant for the bisexual and gay guys on here, what do you find attractive in other men, and can you explain why?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

as a bi guy its about the attitude etc of the guy and the enjoyment of mutual oral etc in a 3 some..

not sure i have ever been attracted to a guy physically in a 'mmm like the look etc way'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm blissfully bi-sexual but I can honestly say that I'm not even remotely attracted to men or other CD's for that matter.....

For me it's simply about sex,

However if I could change my body and face...... I would swap for a younger and more androgynous model....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmmm, I was hoping for a greater response, still, I know lots of bi guys on here don't like to talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as a bi guy its about the attitude etc of the guy and the enjoyment of mutual oral etc in a 3 some..

not sure i have ever been attracted to a guy physically in a 'mmm like the look etc way'.."

It's all about what's happening "in the moment".

I've never once walked down the street and thought, " I'd like a bit of that " about a bloke. But I can get very turned on at the sight,, or even scent of a woman.

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By *ancadamMan
over a year ago

Stockport

what i find attractive in a man initially is a masculine appearance of unexaggerated build and clean presentation.quite ordinary looking men in good shape can be noticeable to me.the deal breaker is if they project a vain or unfriendly character no matter how physically attractive they may seem the whole package is spoiled .i find the most attractive men are bemused by being found attractive while the men who 'work' their image switch me off instantly .what about you op??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"what i find attractive in a man initially is a masculine appearance of unexaggerated build and clean presentation.quite ordinary looking men in good shape can be noticeable to me.the deal breaker is if they project a vain or unfriendly character no matter how physically attractive they may seem the whole package is spoiled .i find the most attractive men are bemused by being found attractive while the men who 'work' their image switch me off instantly .what about you op??"

Personally I like the youthful, delicate pretty boy types, even more so if they're smooth and athletic, they just feel nice to touch.

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By *ancadamMan
over a year ago

Stockport

blimey !this thread has died a death.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I like skinheads, big cocks, rough trade.

and Rupert Penry Jones who is the total opposite.

I am not into dom/sub so I am wanting to meet strong minded, self assured cocky bastards.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and someone who owns his sexuality, knows he is gay/bi and carries it, if that makes sense.

Wimps pussyfooting about behind the wife's back do my tits in......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and someone who owns his sexuality, knows he is gay/bi and carries it, if that makes sense.

......"

Ahhhhh View,,,,, An image of the leather guy from the Village People has taken residence inside my eyelids

Quick send me a smooth lickable femboy too stroke furrowed brow.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality and confidence as well as being clean and well groomed.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"and someone who owns his sexuality, knows he is gay/bi and carries it, if that makes sense.

......

Ahhhhh View,,,,, An image of the leather guy from the Village People has taken residence inside my eyelids

Quick send me a smooth likeable femboy too stroke furrowed brow.....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Referred to by some replies here but I've noted from a lot of 'bi' guys here that they don't particularly find other guys attractive, even if they're having some form of sex with them. I'm sure that the opposite could be the case: there would likely be some men that they could not have sex with, due to finding them a complete turn-off.

I've heard of guys liking just, for example, a cock and to play with it, or like it touching their own, when playing with a female. And the guys who will somehow get involved with a guy ONLY when a female is around, such that the bloke becomes almost a sexual accessory to sexual play.

A lot of these things are more fab-centric though. There are similar guys around who will get a blow job - but not give one - from all genders, and some of them also fucking any gender. They predominantly have a preference for females and wouldn't self-identify as having interest in the same gender, but would play from opportunities that they find.

I think that from the gay guys I know - and these are men who are predominantly gay and not bi, they have diverse tastes in men, just as females do. I don't know any that go for the 'bear' look - but there seems a reasonable number out there, due to the popularity of events for them.

Of the fully bi guys I know - who date and shag both genders - they are similarly attracted to aspects of personality as well as physical looks across a spectrum.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I don't have a visual or physical type where men are concerned at all but I have realised (as much as I hate to admit it) that I may be slightly more shallow when it comes to women. There is a difference between women I consider attractive and women I consider attractive and also fancy and part of it is definitely visual. I haven't managed to narrow it down yet but it's all about the face and a degree of delicacy in their facial features, for want of a better word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like skinheads, big cocks, rough trade.

and Rupert Penry Jones who is the total opposite.

I am not into dom/sub so I am wanting to meet strong minded, self assured cocky bastards."

I'd have to fight you for Rupert

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I like skinheads, big cocks, rough trade.

and Rupert Penry Jones who is the total opposite.

I am not into dom/sub so I am wanting to meet strong minded, self assured cocky bastards.

I'd have to fight you for Rupert

I am a gentleman, you can play with him first and then I will finish him off good and proper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like skinheads, big cocks, rough trade.

and Rupert Penry Jones who is the total opposite.

I am not into dom/sub so I am wanting to meet strong minded, self assured cocky bastards.

I'd have to fight you for Rupert

I am a gentleman, you can play with him first and then I will finish him off good and proper

Deal

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