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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi.. I used 'trans girls' as a catch all term... I know it's not everyone's choice but thus isn't amount politics ...

Do you find that men message you with 'straight' profiles but then come on all submissive. I find this a little weird .. Not only this, but Iv also noticed some guys say "I don't normally do this" and don't then publish verifications from me because they don't want women to think they do.

Also the number of 'couples' who email me but then I realise it's just the guy trying something extra ha, oh well, I'm coming to the conclusion that it's the women on here who close that mode of expression for their men. Maybe .

Thanks for reading

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I admit I occasionally used to find a lot of trans/tv/t-girls attractive in the past and used to speak to a few of them and have a good time watching em on cam etc...

then I came to realise I shouldn't as I'm not gay/bi etc and not really looking to meet any so I should be real with myself and just stick with women really as I was being a hypocrite in a sense...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I don't close any mode of communication for my partner. He met t girls before we were a couple and now we meet them together. Why any woman would do this is quite beyond me ...

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"I don't close any mode of communication for my partner. He met t girls before we were a couple and now we meet them together. Why any woman would do this is quite beyond me ..."

Maybe they're threatened by it or feel their man's masculinity is threatened by it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You realised you shouldn't ? But isn't attraction just a part of who you are ? Why deny yourself your desires ... It's your choice and I respect that but personally I think you should have to restrict yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should not .. I meant xx

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"You realised you shouldn't ? But isn't attraction just a part of who you are ? Why deny yourself your desires ... It's your choice and I respect that but personally I think you should have to restrict yourself "

it's like this though I've never been with anyone sexually or intimately who isn't a woman so you know part of me was just drawn to their feminine side...

being straight you have to know where drawing the line is and knowing you're limitations, sure I find some attractive and their polite in normal conversation but that's it really I can't live a lie and be something else which I'm not as then I'm a hypocrite and a liar too..

sometimes that means burying you're desires too or interests and being true to what you really are deep down.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I don't close any mode of communication for my partner. He met t girls before we were a couple and now we meet them together. Why any woman would do this is quite beyond me ...

Maybe they're threatened by it or feel their man's masculinity is threatened by it. "

I would say that many women who post on here love this type of play. I think its a myth that women are threatened by t girls. I love the experience and even better when its with maths my partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You realised you shouldn't ? But isn't attraction just a part of who you are ? Why deny yourself your desires ... It's your choice and I respect that but personally I think you should have to restrict yourself

it's like this though I've never been with anyone sexually or intimately who isn't a woman so you know part of me was just drawn to their feminine side...

being straight you have to know where drawing the line is and knowing you're limitations, sure I find some attractive and their polite in normal conversation but that's it really I can't live a lie and be something else which I'm not as then I'm a hypocrite and a liar too..

sometimes that means burying you're desires too or interests and being true to what you really are deep down."

??? Either it's your thing or it isn't. Surely on this site you can let your personal feelings fly, why deny who you are.

On the flip side, if it's not your thing, feel free to say "no thanks"

"NO THANKS"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not a girl tho

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Your not a girl tho "

Where does this come in the discussion? Which message? Best to quote it ...

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"

??? Either it's your thing or it isn't. Surely on this site you can let your personal feelings fly, why deny who you are.

On the flip side, if it's not your thing, feel free to say "no thanks"

"NO THANKS"

"

for you're information I AM being who I AM....I was offered meets by 3 t-girls who approached me but I declined where as I could have easily said yes because when it really comes down to it's not really my thing BECAUSE I'M STRAIGHT I just find a few of them attractive in appearance that's all which I admit..

would you rather I lie and meet some then change my mind and say I can't do this or just waste some ones time like a lot do on here?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I hate how some chaps use Tgirls

Sadly, a lot of bio women don't like chaps who're bi or play with Tgirls and won't play with those who do.

Everyone has their own preferences but I wouldn't want to play with anyone so narrow minded myself.

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By *un and fabulousCouple
over a year ago

Tottington

I think that ultimately society will accept that attraction need not be based on gender.

It appears currently more acceptable (by my observation) for girls to be more open about their sexuality and attractions, whether they be with the same or the opposite sex. Girls tend to be more open in their affections. I would venture to estimate that more than half the girls on fab say they are bi or bi-curious!

The sooner we accept that sex is something to be enjoyed, regardless of our gender or sexuality, the better our lives will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

??? Either it's your thing or it isn't. Surely on this site you can let your personal feelings fly, why deny who you are.

On the flip side, if it's not your thing, feel free to say "no thanks"

"NO THANKS"

for you're information I AM being who I AM....I was offered meets by 3 t-girls who approached me but I declined where as I could have easily said yes because when it really comes down to it's not really my thing BECAUSE I'M STRAIGHT I just find a few of them attractive in appearance that's all which I admit..

would you rather I lie and meet some then change my mind and say I can't do this or just waste some ones time like a lot do on here?"

I apologise. My comments were meant in general and should not have been attached to yours.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think that ultimately society will accept that attraction need not be based on gender.

It appears currently more acceptable (by my observation) for girls to be more open about their sexuality and attractions, whether they be with the same or the opposite sex. Girls tend to be more open in their affections. I would venture to estimate that more than half the girls on fab say they are bi or bi-curious!

The sooner we accept that sex is something to be enjoyed, regardless of our gender or sexuality, the better our lives will be. "

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"

I apologise. My comments were meant in general and should not have been attached to yours.

"

*sighs*....no need to apologise I might have come across as a bit harsh myself in my reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know I'm not a girl .. But I'm identifying as trans .. And I look like a girl ... So I'd like to be called "she" not "he"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't come here for this but my point is being proven about some men/boys on here. No wonder so maybe women have angry profiles about time wasters. ... It's a few idiots who ruin this experience for the genuine men who want to meet and be cool. Anyway ,, sorry for them

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"

I might have sounded like I was blaming women for men's actions on my original post ... But. Men just do with the path of least resistance to get what they want from this site I guess. I'm in s cynical mood... Had a few bad experiences with guys who can't be honest about their desires x"

this is what I'm talking about and why I wrote what I wrote as my first response that the bottom line is I like women and want to stay true to that instead of doing what those guys did in leading people on and then living in denial etc and getting angry about it OP.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"

I might have sounded like I was blaming women for men's actions on my original post ... But. Men just do with the path of least resistance to get what they want from this site I guess. I'm in s cynical mood... Had a few bad experiences with guys who can't be honest about their desires x

this is what I'm talking about and why I wrote what I wrote as my first response that the bottom line is I like women and want to stay true to that instead of doing what those guys did in leading people on and then living in denial etc and getting angry about it OP."

I like your honey post. It shows people ebb and flow and sexual desires can be very mixed up and people need time to reflect and withdraw. ones sexuality is such a person thing, I don't think it can be rushed or moulded to fit what someone else wants. I think op the couple dynamic is always an interesting one. Depending on their history and how they came to being where they are ...

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"

I might have sounded like I was blaming women for men's actions on my original post ... But. Men just do with the path of least resistance to get what they want from this site I guess. I'm in s cynical mood... Had a few bad experiences with guys who can't be honest about their desires x

this is what I'm talking about and why I wrote what I wrote as my first response that the bottom line is I like women and want to stay true to that instead of doing what those guys did in leading people on and then living in denial etc and getting angry about it OP.

I like your honey post. It shows people ebb and flow and sexual desires can be very mixed up and people need time to reflect and withdraw. ones sexuality is such a person thing, I don't think it can be rushed or moulded to fit what someone else wants. I think op the couple dynamic is always an interesting one. Depending on their history and how they came to being where they are ..."

*honest not honey. I need to go to bed as sleeping pattern is messed up after late night and sleeping all day

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"

I like your honey post. It shows people ebb and flow and sexual desires can be very mixed up and people need time to reflect and withdraw. ones sexuality is such a person thing, I don't think it can be rushed or moulded to fit what someone else wants. I think op the couple dynamic is always an interesting one. Depending on their history and how they came to being where they are ..."

it's better to be truthful with yourself and others at the end of the day because if you're not then things take a turn for the worst pretty fast and things can turn ugly..

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

Reminding me why LGBT must stand together as a community.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

How is Sexual orientation ie straight men in any way relevant to being submissive?

I might have missed it in the playground above but in years of munches, play events, just being on the kink scene I've learnt people are diverse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In reply to your the OP my belief is that the TV/CD/TS and BBW becomes the fabled "any port in a storm". This is not true of all as there are certainly admirers of both. But if people aren't putting up veri's etc then this should tell you that they are not proud of what they have done. If a horny guy can't get laid with a woman he fancies then he'll lower his standards and imagine her instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As to the submissive nature of the conversation i think this is probably linked to pre ejaulatory fantasy. If they are submissive then it's not really their fault and they aren't to blame for having sex with the tv etc

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


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I meet quite a few guys & couples in clubs who are straight & with no interest in me sexually. It doesn't stop us having a chat & a giggle, its all just part of the fun "

This

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

It's different strokes for different folks and everyone should do what they enjoy.

It's when people try decide what others should do or impose their opinions others when trouble starts. Live and let live.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If you are going to post please do so within the forum rules. That includes having some respect for other posters.

If you quoted any relevant posts or commented on them they will have been removed too.

Can people please remember that mods are not here every minute of the day or reading every post as it is being posted. If you feel something is breaking rules please report it rather than complain it hasn't been taken off

Back to the OP please

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"You realised you shouldn't ? But isn't attraction just a part of who you are ? Why deny yourself your desires ... It's your choice and I respect that but personally I think you should have to restrict yourself "

If you click on reply and quote we will be able to see who you are answering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You realised you shouldn't ? But isn't attraction just a part of who you are ? Why deny yourself your desires ... It's your choice and I respect that but personally I think you should have to restrict yourself

If you click on reply and quote we will be able to see who you are answering "

Asianmale, because he was saying he was attracted to some ts but didn't meet them because he was straight.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"You realised you shouldn't ? But isn't attraction just a part of who you are ? Why deny yourself your desires ... It's your choice and I respect that but personally I think you should have to restrict yourself

If you click on reply and quote we will be able to see who you are answering

Asianmale, because he was saying he was attracted to some ts but didn't meet them because he was straight."

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