FabSwingers.com forum: Fab swingers seems to be useless for single guys!! Discuss

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I was balls deep most of the time....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's a tool - nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your sexual orientation to bi-curious or bisexual and watch your fortunes change

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No issues here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it? news to me..might not get it when i want it....but...if it WAS useless..I'd still be here having a laugh and using the chatrooms..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works for me.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It works perfectly well for decent guys with good profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It works perfectly well for decent guys with good profiles

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try the site with more fish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It works perfectly well for decent guys with good profiles

I connect only with men who I approach first on here, and they've all been lovely. And they've all had good profiles.

Effort in = reward out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been fun so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try the site with more fish?"

or maybe try being pro-active on this one?...I sense a lack of effort to be honest..even in the OPs appearingly short lived profile.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I'm not sure the OP was asking for profile advice...

I guess you get out what you put in really. Have you put enough effort in?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Arranged 2 social meets for this weekend with single males....guess what? They both went quiet and got back to me at 8pm tonight wanting to meet now!

I don't think so! And that was after chatting to them for a couple of days!

Seems most singles just like the thought of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe try the site with more fish?

or maybe try being pro-active on this one?...I sense a lack of effort to be honest..even in the OPs appearingly short lived profile."

What is OP??

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Perhaps for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try the site with more fish?

or maybe try being pro-active on this one?...I sense a lack of effort to be honest..even in the OPs appearingly short lived profile.

What is OP??"

The Original Poster. Or the Original Post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe try the site with more fish?

or maybe try being pro-active on this one?...I sense a lack of effort to be honest..even in the OPs appearingly short lived profile.

What is OP??"

you the original poster.

you have on your profile interested in adult parties..there are socials clubs parties all around you..moreso in your areas down south...research properly. And it is the best way to meet people especially if new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it is not, the forum is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this sex thing?

Does it match the drapes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it is not, the forum is fun

stop talking rubbish...met a good few on the forum too lol

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see"

Shame you're not closer

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Oh just LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never had a problem when I was single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it is not, the forum is fun

stop talking rubbish...met a good few on the forum too lol"

Same here.

In fact I prefer the forum because there's no rush, no expectations and if you get together it's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see

Shame you're not closer

proximity is no guarantee of attraction...

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

It's a forum

Many things are discussed

Why the need to instruct us to 'discuss'

Am going back to ignoring threads dictating to me to discuss

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Thinking on become a nun with my success of late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see"
they're probably scared of being in same room when bra straps are released .xx

hugs

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Discuss"

Wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a tool - nothing more.

Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!

Men are more than just their tool!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet lots of single guys , and they seem to think fab is good

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late

Hugs. I'm joining you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be difficult for single guys on here, given the ratio of males to females/couples. Perhaps if more guys were a bit more respectful and reliable then life would be easier for the rest of the single guys....but that will never happen. Cynical much

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Arranged 2 social meets for this weekend with single males....guess what? They both went quiet and got back to me at 8pm tonight wanting to meet now!

I don't think so! And that was after chatting to them for a couple of days!

Seems most singles just like the thought of it

thank god its not just me

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"What is this sex thing?

Does it match the drapes?

Depends are they straight?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see

Shame you're not closer

proximity is no guarantee of attraction..."

never said it was

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late

Hugs. I'm joining you x"

Loads with bravado with very little follow though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late

Hugs. I'm joining you x

Loads with bravado with very little follow though!

Trumps are bad enough!! It's even worse when they follow through!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late

Hugs. I'm joining you x

Loads with bravado with very little follow though!

I followed through..musta been last nights curry

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Just *yet* another tiresome 'No-one will fuck me' thread...

As a last resort, take to the forum to blame the site rather than make an effort to write a decent profile and increase your chances.

Maybe the thread should be called;

OP is a useless single guy - discuss.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Arranged 2 social meets for this weekend with single males....guess what? They both went quiet and got back to me at 8pm tonight wanting to meet now!

I don't think so! And that was after chatting to them for a couple of days!

Seems most singles just like the thought of it

thank god its not just me

trust me, it is not just you!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Your warning is longer than your profile, put more effort into your profile as some other single guys do and you may have the same success as them!

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

back to curled up on my sofa with clean thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet people often as I'm very busy.

Guys tend to get bored of waiting lol

I can't help being a busy women x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Ask the single guy that's sat next to me apprantely he is having a whale of a time right now......

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late

Hugs. I'm joining you x

Loads with bravado with very little follow though!

I followed through..musta been last nights curry

I still luvs ya, just not at yours for a few hours

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Thinking on become a nun with my success of late

Hugs. I'm joining you x

Loads with bravado with very little follow though!

Trumps are bad enough!! It's even worse when they follow through!!

Think I'll stick with the nun thing then

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

"Ask the single guy that's sat next to me apprantely he is having a whale of a time right now......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a tool - nothing more.

Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!

Men are more than just their tool!!!

Yup! I've changed back from my Friday night Cock Pic!

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask the single guy that's sat next to me apprantely he is having a whale of a time right now......

Oooooh get you Mrs!

Go on - who is it?? Spill!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a tool - nothing more.

Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!

Men are more than just their tool!!!

Yup! I've changed back from my Friday night Cock Pic! "

Thank god for that! Haven't been able to stomach any food since I saw it!!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just *yet* another tiresome 'No-one will fuck me' thread...

As a last resort, take to the forum to blame the site rather than make an effort to write a decent profile and increase your chances.

Maybe the thread should be called;

OP is a useless single guy - discuss.

There's really no need for your tone. New people pop in all the time and they are perhaps unaware that the question has been asked many a time. How about a little tolerance and maybe some patience for newbies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It works for me. "

that's cos you.,ve nice pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works for me just takes time I now have two meets lined up with two beautiful women can't wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a tool - nothing more.

Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!

Men are more than just their tool!!!

Yup! I've changed back from my Friday night Cock Pic!

Thank god for that! Haven't been able to stomach any food since I saw it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a tool - nothing more.

Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!

Men are more than just their tool!!!

Yup! I've changed back from my Friday night Cock Pic!

Thank god for that! Haven't been able to stomach any food since I saw it!!

That bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't meet people often as I'm very busy.

Guys tend to get bored of waiting lol

I can't help being a busy women x"

Well and truly with you on that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm doing ok, it is what you make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is this sex thing?

Does it match the drapes?

Depends are they straight?

I had straight drapes once.... Then I discovered how good the ones that aren't straight are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disagree, with the right attitude and correct approach it's a gold mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a tool - nothing more.

Oh Lickety that's so harsh!!

Men are more than just their tool!!!

Yup! I've changed back from my Friday night Cock Pic!

Thank god for that! Haven't been able to stomach any food since I saw it!!

That bad?

Actually it looks pretty damned good covered in a wet white t-shirt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discuss"

It works for me.

Anything else you'd like to discuss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see"

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met with two single men this week. This site works for those who are prepared to make an effort.

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Just *yet* another tiresome 'No-one will fuck me' thread...

As a last resort, take to the forum to blame the site rather than make an effort to write a decent profile and increase your chances.

Maybe the thread should be called;

OP is a useless single guy - discuss.

The whole original post lacks common sense, thought and any understanding.

It's hard to be patient with new members when they show little patience or application themselves.

To infer that the whole site is useless just because you haven't met anyone, is at best lazy, at worst a complete cop out, whether you've been here 5 days or 5 years.

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By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"It must be difficult for single guys on here, given the ratio of males to females/couples. Perhaps if more guys were a bit more respectful and reliable then life would be easier for the rest of the single guys....but that will never happen. Cynical much

It certainly is hard. I (mrs) had a meet off fab , and he was a lovely guy, respectful and fit (he's in the Royal Marines) but despite a good profile, a few veris and decent pics not a single person looked at his profile in august and so after that and being messed about by a couple he gave up! He's now dating

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just *yet* another tiresome 'No-one will fuck me' thread...

As a last resort, take to the forum to blame the site rather than make an effort to write a decent profile and increase your chances.

Maybe the thread should be called;

OP is a useless single guy - discuss.

The whole original post lacks common sense, thought and any understanding.

It's hard to be patient with new members when they show little patience or application themselves.

To infer that the whole site is useless just because you haven't met anyone, is at best lazy, at worst a complete cop out, whether you've been here 5 days or 5 years.

It is hard but it's possible!

Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.

For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.

For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.

New people should READ the existing threads before posting.

And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.

If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.

Is that what we want????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.

For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.

New people should READ the existing threads before posting.

And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.

If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.

Is that what we want????"

Ummm we? Who made us special enough to make demands?

I don't want resurrected threads popping up. People want live conversation not talk to ghosts on threads. If you have been here so long that the forums get too repetitive for you,it's time to leave or learn to ignore the ones that bore you.

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

It's not just single guys that get cold feet it's ladies too. I was cancelled yesterday after weeks of chatting. Plus I've had a few no shows or as previously said they go quiet.

Luckily I've had a few lovely meets.

These forums seem to pick on the single guys. Just read people's statuses and you will see that couples and ladies are just as bad.

Us single guys have a hard time on here. Yes there are the morons on here but the genuine guys who actually make an effort still get shot down as we classed in the same bracket. Though recently it been nice to see a couple of forums praising single guys.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"Discuss"
. Yes . Very true if members have only a few lines as a profile and poor pictures . Why would anyone bother contacting someone who cannot bother marketing themselves correctly .

All you have to do is have a good well written profile , good pictures , and only contact those whom you believe to be suitable matches .

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I find fab useful for normal conversation and occasionally perving on nice profiles if it helps OP?..

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"New people should READ the existing threads before posting.

And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.

If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.

Is that what we want????"

I don't know cause I can't speak for everyone's wants, just my own wants and that's simply to see a little kindness now and again.

If one is going to take the time to post, one can easily be positive rather than negative in the response can one not?

I'm not expecting harmony, people can have different opinions and argue to toss till the cows come home but do it in a civil manner. Forums can bring out the worst in us if we let that happen. There's a choice. Choose to be mean or sarcastic to a perfect stranger or choose to be kind and decent. It's pretty straightforward to me.

I'm not that normal though.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Ok here fab is a tool but is a way to chat, and flirt and build a rapport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discuss"

What you on about. There's shit loads on single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's full of ignorant people who arnt arsed about givin u the time of day. god forbid it never happens to them ay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even be bothered to trawl through the pointless crap in this thread. Either you get the site or you don't.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.

For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.

New people should READ the existing threads before posting.

And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.

If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.

Is that what we want????"

Lots of the threads are just as you describe and certainly certain topics are not discussed because they are just too controversial ... I am not talking anything taboo here. I think its fine to talk about the same things, because different people are here, on and off, or the forums are in danger of becoming a clique. that's why I try to post to various different threads, start a few of my own but also avoid those that are merely a conversation that people could be having between and amongst their group without it being played out in public. In the latter case, I don't even bother with the threads, but maybe the posters should be reminded they can text or whatsapp these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.

For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.

New people should READ the existing threads before posting.

And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.

If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.

Is that what we want????"

So it's ok for the elite few to post the same shit day in day out... just not ok for new people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discuss"

It can be useless for women and couples too. Depends on many factors.

Some people are rude and stuck up. Some people are lovely.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I have met a few people from the forum, don't get me wrong most have been from a social or a club but it can happen

I think honestly some of it is luck, a connection and right place right time

There are a few people I would like to meet but due to football l, I can only really meet every other weekend in Manc though can sometimes meet in London / se

I think between now and Christmas I am free 2

Weekends (2 club evenings and 1 meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't treat swinging as if it's life or death...kick back and take some wine 'n' cheese and relax.Swinging isn't just about Fabland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.

For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.

New people should READ the existing threads before posting.

And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.

If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.

Is that what we want????"

Thinking back to when I first joined, I didn't even know the forums existed.

Having literally stumbled over them, it was weeks before I found the courage to post. As an "outsider" it looked very much like a closed shop.

I wouldn't have had a clue about searching threads to find advice.

Also, I'd never posted on any sort of forum before. Apprehensive doesn't begin to describe how I felt.

When I see someone asking for help all I see is how I felt.

Tuppence spent.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see"

Only problem with me chatting with you is distance! That and I'm just under your lower age range but I'm a lovely guy to talk to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discuss"

Speak for yourself fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree. It's shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see

Only problem with me chatting with you is distance! That and I'm just under your lower age range but I'm a lovely guy to talk to!

He actually is!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thread repeats will be happening forever. Thoughtless questions will be happening forever. It's within our power not to be mean to people forever.

For those who join and have no idea they surely deserve a chance to learn right? If they don't learn they're easily ignored.

New people should READ the existing threads before posting.

And nobody should be able to start a thread until they'd contributed to a reasonable number of existing ones.

If inane, repetitive, unimaginative threads are allowed to proliferate unchallenged, they will become the norm....and the forum itself will be inane, repetitive and unimaginative.

Is that what we want????

So it's ok for the elite few to post the same shit day in day out... just not ok for new people?

I see where your coming from.

I can think of two threads that are started every day without fail.

Add in a few weekly snog, marry, run over with a bus, look at my lovely face threads.

I have the ability to self censor. If a thread doesn't appeal or I don't have time to participate, I don't.

Why people read a thread that they know will annoy them and then start another thread moaning about the subject or content of the thread they just read is beyond me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see

Only problem with me chatting with you is distance! That and I'm just under your lower age range but I'm a lovely guy to talk to!

He actually is!! X"

See I'm not all mouth no trousers

Although I very rarely wear trousers at home! And I LOVE using my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Discuss"

Although i've not had any luck as yet i am fairly new and have seen a few profiles that have been getting meets so i am still optimistic, just patient as well!

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

"It works perfectly well for decent guys with good profiles

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It works perfectly well for decent guys with good profiles

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had an issue with it. What issues are there out there that can't be solved, for any profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm doing fine thanks! Quite enjoying my time here

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

Single guys have to work a little harder....but that helps you find a nicer person....

It's not all fun for the girls !!

Imagine waking up to a hundred messages with all sort of weird offers !!!

Believe me ...that must be a lot harder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it on here, some fantastic people, some of whom ive met and others i would love to meet in the future

As shag says" have patience"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't doing it right. When doing the macarena, it's all in the hips. Dance like Tom Jones baby

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see

Shame you're not closer

proximity is no guarantee of attraction..."

Always amuses me such comments as it appears the assumption is proximity is a guarantee of a shag!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

"Discuss"

disagree!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ask the single guy that's sat next to me apprantely he is having a whale of a time right now......

With whom, as you're on here.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's all on a spectrum for them, not about absolutes. Garbage in/out and all that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's as good as you make it...

Can't really say much else. I am a single guy, I can't even accommodate and I am a bloody student.... yet still I manage to meet great people...

Anyway good luck, manage your expectations and try not to be too disappointed when things don't work out

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

"Discuss

It can be useless for women and couples too. Depends on many factors.

Some people are rude and stuck up. Some people are lovely. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Leave then.MrW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree it is useless for single guys

about 1 message in 30 is a guy we would actually meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its ace

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Leave then.MrW"

Did you really need to say that? Do you think it's helpful?

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

No problems specific to being single.

Had three meets this week cancelled, by couples for various reasons, but this happens to everyone.

Or are you upset because the queue of women trying to meet you isn't long enough.

This site isn't about sex, its about meeting other people who enjoy sex.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

No complaints here. Had my unfair share of both M&F's, been very selective with only the best the site had to offer locally, waded through tons of time wasters, but after over 10 years of swinging & lots of fabulous Meets I retired last night & now only sticking to regulars as most (not all) newbs think the site is some form of instant gratification instashag & don't 'get' the lifestyle choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny coz ever fucker on here that messages me seems to.be married men...

Can't find a decent single guy worth chatting to never mind meeting... Oh well

We shall see"

I'm single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Agree it is useless for single guys

about 1 message in 30 is a guy we would actually meet."

u know i wanna pounce..

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I accept that my _iews on forum etiquette are non-standard, and will attempt to adjust my behaviour accordingly.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Discuss"

speak for yourself..... i'm having a blast!!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Discuss"

I don't agree. It's worked well for me.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Everyone I've met on or through here has been really nice so I'm enjoying myself. I think what you put in to this site is what you get out.

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