FabSwingers.com forum: My problem with fab.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love fab, I love it's people, it's forums, it's general pervertedness.... It's a great community to be a part of.

I only have one main gripe.

It's so difficult to get conversations started. With women getting hundreds of messages and (quite rightly) having to choose from a lot of guys it's tough to figure out how to approach people.

im a social guy, I love meeting new people and I'm best at it in person, face to face. I just struggle with the whole "Cold calling" aspect of fab.

I should go to a club sometime... But I worry that walking into a club as a single male may be frowned upon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would only be frowned upon if you attached yourself to a ladies leg and started dry humping her. But saying that you might get lucky and she might like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol I'm not sure that it would be a sure thing. The "desperately dry humping women's legs" technique has a less than 2% success rate (well for me anyway

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Plenty of single guys go to clubs...if you are happier face to face then it sounds like a plan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plenty of single guys go to clubs...if you are happier face to face then it sounds like a plan."

I'll have to pluck up the courage and go to one.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

why would they frown ..u pay good money to get in ..just go and stop worrying

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I don't get hundreds of messages

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op, I think you know your answer - you will make this work for you better when it's more of a social, in person experience. Find someone like me that's local and friendly and get out and about. (I'm not local). And perhaps in the longer term you'll refine your skills online too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to a club on my own, was a bit scared but pushed myself to do it.

If you don't like being there you can just leave and don't have to return.

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