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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Chat and seem to have a connection with a lady but next day find blocked..what the hell? If you think I'm a perv or a dick then fine ignore or tell me, please!! don't say like to keep in touch or know you more, is it just me?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Who knows why the fuck anyone does anything

The Doors | People Are Strange

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sq9oR9x171w

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not the first person to register their concern in this matter.

Neither are you the first to be told you cannot control the actions of others.

Control the possible.

Everything else is just fluff.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Always look on the bright side of liff.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Chat and seem to have a connection with a lady but next day find blocked..what the hell? If you think I'm a perv or a dick then fine ignore or tell me, please!! don't say like to keep in touch or know you more, is it just me? "

It isn't just you.

In an ideal world people would always respond to polite interaction but this isn't an ideal world I'm afraid.

Try not to take these things personally

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"Chat and seem to have a connection with a lady but next day find blocked..what the hell? If you think I'm a perv or a dick then fine ignore or tell me, please!! don't say like to keep in touch or know you more, is it just me? "
Take it with a pinch of salt

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Chat and seem to have a connection with a lady but next day find blocked..what the hell? If you think I'm a perv or a dick then fine ignore or tell me, please!! don't say like to keep in touch or know you more, is it just me? "

mate don't take it personally just remember to never get you're hopes/expectations up and you will never be disappointed..

i've had the same thing a few times too women approach me in the chat rooms when I'm on cam or byinbox pm etc and we hit it off normal relaxed conversation and all seems to be going well then they go all radio silent etc and hardly bother replying anymore..

it gets a bit annoying sometimes because it seems every woman off here who has contacted me first and everything seems to be going smooth and well then just seemingly disappears into thin air (their all verified btw both photo and by others)....point is you try arranging a social meet etc with some and their all up for it then change their minds it's like why bother contacting me in the first place?..

anyway the site is what it is no one owes anyone else anything, just get a bit happy if you attend a social meet with whoever and if you hit things off and it leads to something else then all the best..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everybody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always look on the bright side of liff. "

Who's liff ? Sounds like a right cnut ?

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By *unkysoulWoman
over a year ago

Mitcham, Surrey


"Who knows why the fuck anyone does anything

The Doors | People Are Strange

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sq9oR9x171w"

That's me on a Doors fest!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Nobody has said "It was a man" yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever believe half of what you see and none of what you hear.

Take everything with a kingsize pinch of salt and just try not to take anything seriously on here.

Good luck.

xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you.

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

log on, new message and friend request from a profile

go to view profile

user has blocked you

Who knows, people are strange indeed.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Easy way to find out if you're to sensitive.

Ask for a profile critique.

...or do a beard thread.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - sensitivity is fine but you may benefit from adjusting your expectations here. If you frequently get knocked or upset, it will lower your levels of enjoyment.

Users block and don't mail others due to site protocol and a lot of users causing others hassle when they have been rejected.

No response or being blocked just means no interest and a wish to prevent recurrence of contact, should either party forget in the future.

There are lovely and friendly people here but aim to not let your experiences of being blocked discolour your perception.

Your being sensitive can be fine, if you can limit the extent to which you may be hurt here. If that's tough, look at what you could change, so that you remain in good form.

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"Op - sensitivity is fine but you may benefit from adjusting your expectations here. If you frequently get knocked or upset, it will lower your levels of enjoyment.

Users block and don't mail others due to site protocol and a lot of users causing others hassle when they have been rejected.

No response or being blocked just means no interest and a wish to prevent recurrence of contact, should either party forget in the future.

There are lovely and friendly people here but aim to not let your experiences of being blocked discolour your perception.

Your being sensitive can be fine, if you can limit the extent to which you may be hurt here. If that's tough, look at what you could change, so that you remain in good form."

it gets annoying after a while though when they show interest at first and are all into having normal conversation which may lead to a social then end up just disappearing/not replying or blocking..

pretty much why I don't have any expectations realistically speaking which has pretty much made me less enthusiastic at times..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chat and seem to have a connection with a lady but next day find blocked..what the hell? If you think I'm a perv or a dick then fine ignore or tell me, please!! don't say like to keep in touch or know you more, is it just me? "
it's just you

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