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"Did you get a receipt for the money? " If so you need trading standards | |||
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"Couple of months ago I bought a new van from a showroom that turned out to be clocked 60 thousand miles. Now after a lot of hassle I got my money back. Anyway, when I bought the van he offered to tax it for me so I agreed. I paid £250 to tax a van I had for one month. Turns out the guy didn't send the log book off and I wasn't the registered keeper. So dvla won't refund me my tax money. So I've been calling this guy and every time he lies to me about paying the tax back. Anyway now he has started ignoring my calls. I've got to the point now where I have lost patience and I'm going to his showroom on weekend to bollock him. What would you do?? I'm not a violent person but this guy is kind of asking for it right? His showroom will have cctv though so not sure what to do. ???? " Small claim,s court is your only sensible option. | |||
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"Drive a van right up his shitter." This is a little harsh. | |||
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"Drive a van right up his shitter. This is a little harsh. " Exactly, it's difficult to engage reverse gear whilst shrouded in darkness | |||
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"Couple of months ago I bought a new van from a showroom that turned out to be clocked 60 thousand miles. Now after a lot of hassle I got my money back. Anyway, when I bought the van he offered to tax it for me so I agreed. I paid £250 to tax a van I had for one month. Turns out the guy didn't send the log book off and I wasn't the registered keeper. So dvla won't refund me my tax money. So I've been calling this guy and every time he lies to me about paying the tax back. Anyway now he has started ignoring my calls. I've got to the point now where I have lost patience and I'm going to his showroom on weekend to bollock him. What would you do?? I'm not a violent person but this guy is kind of asking for it right? His showroom will have cctv though so not sure what to do. ???? " Wear a Hoodie | |||
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"Drive a van right up his shitter. This is a little harsh. " I had just finished my third consecutive coffee as I wrote that and was a little over excited. In hindsight I think a light weight motor cycle may have been more appropriate. I apologise. | |||
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"Couple of months ago I bought a new van from a showroom that turned out to be clocked 60 thousand miles. Now after a lot of hassle I got my money back. Anyway, when I bought the van he offered to tax it for me so I agreed. I paid £250 to tax a van I had for one month. Turns out the guy didn't send the log book off and I wasn't the registered keeper. So dvla won't refund me my tax money. So I've been calling this guy and every time he lies to me about paying the tax back. Anyway now he has started ignoring my calls. I've got to the point now where I have lost patience and I'm going to his showroom on weekend to bollock him. What would you do?? I'm not a violent person but this guy is kind of asking for it right? His showroom will have cctv though so not sure what to do. ???? " Well done on getting your money back, I remember that thread Whatever you did then worked, so do the same again. If you can prove he took the money, and didn't tax the van in your name, I'd have thought that was fraud. Perhaps threatening to phone the police on your mobile, when in his showroom, very LOUDLY (but calmly) might help? Especially if it's busy. He's not worth anything else. Good luck Mr ddc | |||
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"Couple of months ago I bought a new van from a showroom that turned out to be clocked 60 thousand miles. Now after a lot of hassle I got my money back. Anyway, when I bought the van he offered to tax it for me so I agreed. I paid £250 to tax a van I had for one month. Turns out the guy didn't send the log book off and I wasn't the registered keeper. So dvla won't refund me my tax money. So I've been calling this guy and every time he lies to me about paying the tax back. Anyway now he has started ignoring my calls. I've got to the point now where I have lost patience and I'm going to his showroom on weekend to bollock him. What would you do?? I'm not a violent person but this guy is kind of asking for it right? His showroom will have cctv though so not sure what to do. ???? " Park across the entrance be very loud about how he fraudulently took payment for tax when he didn't. (Didn't think tax was transferable now these days anyway) Try and wait till there's a few customer's in too | |||
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"Hopefully I can provoke him to hit me first lol " Seriously? Sorry but this makes you sound like a teenager who is unable to handle things in an adult manner. Why on earth do you want to provoke violence? Nita | |||
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"Hopefully I can provoke him to hit me first lol Seriously? Sorry but this makes you sound like a teenager who is unable to handle things in an adult manner. Why on earth do you want to provoke violence? Nita " Lol yeah I agree it is like a teenager but sod it! I've tried the adult way and its been getting me nowhere! This has been going on for months and I've had enough! He's an arsehole who sells clocked cars and vans ripping people off and thinks he can get away with it. Running out of realistic options.... Either leave it and forget about the money and principle. Or go and let him know you can't treat people the way he has and get away with it. I work hard every day for my money in a honest job, I'm not being stolen off! | |||
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"Hopefully I can provoke him to hit me first lol Seriously? Sorry but this makes you sound like a teenager who is unable to handle things in an adult manner. Why on earth do you want to provoke violence? Nita Lol yeah I agree it is like a teenager but sod it! I've tried the adult way and its been getting me nowhere! This has been going on for months and I've had enough! He's an arsehole who sells clocked cars and vans ripping people off and thinks he can get away with it. Running out of realistic options.... Either leave it and forget about the money and principle. Or go and let him know you can't treat people the way he has and get away with it. I work hard every day for my money in a honest job, I'm not being stolen off! " How did you tax it? Didn't you have the new keepers paperwork with a reference number on it? Check on line if it's still taxed on the .gov site? | |||
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"Hopefully I can provoke him to hit me first lol Seriously? Sorry but this makes you sound like a teenager who is unable to handle things in an adult manner. Why on earth do you want to provoke violence? Nita Lol yeah I agree it is like a teenager but sod it! I've tried the adult way and its been getting me nowhere! This has been going on for months and I've had enough! He's an arsehole who sells clocked cars and vans ripping people off and thinks he can get away with it. Running out of realistic options.... Either leave it and forget about the money and principle. Or go and let him know you can't treat people the way he has and get away with it. I work hard every day for my money in a honest job, I'm not being stolen off! " your honest job could be in jeopardy if you lamp him and get nicked.. why lower yourself.. frustrating as it clearly is, use the above advice.. good luck | |||
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"Hopefully I can provoke him to hit me first lol Seriously? Sorry but this makes you sound like a teenager who is unable to handle things in an adult manner. Why on earth do you want to provoke violence? Nita Lol yeah I agree it is like a teenager but sod it! I've tried the adult way and its been getting me nowhere! This has been going on for months and I've had enough! He's an arsehole who sells clocked cars and vans ripping people off and thinks he can get away with it. Running out of realistic options.... Either leave it and forget about the money and principle. Or go and let him know you can't treat people the way he has and get away with it. I work hard every day for my money in a honest job, I'm not being stolen off! How did you tax it? Didn't you have the new keepers paperwork with a reference number on it? Check on line if it's still taxed on the .gov site?" I bought the van from a showroom, it was only 2 years old. He said he could tax it for me, so I agreed. He did pay a year tax, but he didn't send the log book off so dvla won't talk to me about the van or tax. So he needs to claim the tax back himself and give me it. This was weeks and weeks ago and he is ignoring my calls. I honestly have been so patient with this guy and possibly this is why he thinks he can walk all over me. | |||
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"Call the non emergency number for your local police. It's basically theft. And contact your local trading standards too." I'd do this | |||
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"Hopefully I can provoke him to hit me first lol Seriously? Sorry but this makes you sound like a teenager who is unable to handle things in an adult manner. Why on earth do you want to provoke violence? Nita Lol yeah I agree it is like a teenager but sod it! I've tried the adult way and its been getting me nowhere! This has been going on for months and I've had enough! He's an arsehole who sells clocked cars and vans ripping people off and thinks he can get away with it. Running out of realistic options.... Either leave it and forget about the money and principle. Or go and let him know you can't treat people the way he has and get away with it. I work hard every day for my money in a honest job, I'm not being stolen off! How did you tax it? Didn't you have the new keepers paperwork with a reference number on it? Check on line if it's still taxed on the .gov site? I bought the van from a showroom, it was only 2 years old. He said he could tax it for me, so I agreed. He did pay a year tax, but he didn't send the log book off so dvla won't talk to me about the van or tax. So he needs to claim the tax back himself and give me it. This was weeks and weeks ago and he is ignoring my calls. I honestly have been so patient with this guy and possibly this is why he thinks he can walk all over me. " Oh I understand, sorry I misread the first bit. So you gave him the money to tax it? | |||
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"Hopefully I can provoke him to hit me first lol Seriously? Sorry but this makes you sound like a teenager who is unable to handle things in an adult manner. Why on earth do you want to provoke violence? Nita Lol yeah I agree it is like a teenager but sod it! I've tried the adult way and its been getting me nowhere! This has been going on for months and I've had enough! He's an arsehole who sells clocked cars and vans ripping people off and thinks he can get away with it. Running out of realistic options.... Either leave it and forget about the money and principle. Or go and let him know you can't treat people the way he has and get away with it. I work hard every day for my money in a honest job, I'm not being stolen off! How did you tax it? Didn't you have the new keepers paperwork with a reference number on it? Check on line if it's still taxed on the .gov site? I bought the van from a showroom, it was only 2 years old. He said he could tax it for me, so I agreed. He did pay a year tax, but he didn't send the log book off so dvla won't talk to me about the van or tax. So he needs to claim the tax back himself and give me it. This was weeks and weeks ago and he is ignoring my calls. I honestly have been so patient with this guy and possibly this is why he thinks he can walk all over me. Oh I understand, sorry I misread the first bit. So you gave him the money to tax it?" Yeah at the same time as i paid for the van. Basically cause he didn't send off the logbook (incompetent wander!) I've got no proof I paid tax. | |||
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"Hopefully I can provoke him to hit me first lol Seriously? Sorry but this makes you sound like a teenager who is unable to handle things in an adult manner. Why on earth do you want to provoke violence? Nita Lol yeah I agree it is like a teenager but sod it! I've tried the adult way and its been getting me nowhere! This has been going on for months and I've had enough! He's an arsehole who sells clocked cars and vans ripping people off and thinks he can get away with it. Running out of realistic options.... Either leave it and forget about the money and principle. Or go and let him know you can't treat people the way he has and get away with it. I work hard every day for my money in a honest job, I'm not being stolen off! How did you tax it? Didn't you have the new keepers paperwork with a reference number on it? Check on line if it's still taxed on the .gov site? I bought the van from a showroom, it was only 2 years old. He said he could tax it for me, so I agreed. He did pay a year tax, but he didn't send the log book off so dvla won't talk to me about the van or tax. So he needs to claim the tax back himself and give me it. This was weeks and weeks ago and he is ignoring my calls. I honestly have been so patient with this guy and possibly this is why he thinks he can walk all over me. Oh I understand, sorry I misread the first bit. So you gave him the money to tax it? Yeah at the same time as i paid for the van. Basically cause he didn't send off the logbook (incompetent wander!) I've got no proof I paid tax. " It's really annoying isn't it. I'd be bloomin mad too. Just don't do anything daft. | |||
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"I'm just going to turn up Saturday and see what happens. I'm perfectly within my rights to tell him he's a wanker and demand my money back. " Yes I think you are within your rights to demand your money back and given the provocation you're under calling him a walker is probably tempting. In my opinion doing nothing is not an option but if you follow the correct channels (whatever they are) the eventual outcome might be better for you. Good luck. | |||
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"Seriously this guy has done so much wrong , one call to trading standards would sort him out The rules on vehicles taxation changed and if he taxed the van in his name or any other it was both stupid and breaking the law , unless he had a lease agreement with you He has no case and you MUST not use violence" I'm not sure how the tax works if I'm honest, as far as i knew he taxed the van in my name from the start but didn't send logbook off. I did call trading standards originally and they wasn't a great deal of help unfortunately. | |||
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"Seriously this guy has done so much wrong , one call to trading standards would sort him out The rules on vehicles taxation changed and if he taxed the van in his name or any other it was both stupid and breaking the law , unless he had a lease agreement with you He has no case and you MUST not use violence I'm not sure how the tax works if I'm honest, as far as i knew he taxed the van in my name from the start but didn't send logbook off. I did call trading standards originally and they wasn't a great deal of help unfortunately. " I don't think it's possible to tax it in somebody else's name the DVLA would have wanted the v5 details. | |||
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"I'm just going to turn up Saturday and see what happens. I'm perfectly within my rights to tell him he's a wanker and demand my money back. " What are you really looking to achive ? Your money back ? Revenge ? or a wild rant ? Getting your money back is easy ? However going out with a hot head will be counter productive | |||
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"Seriously this guy has done so much wrong , one call to trading standards would sort him out The rules on vehicles taxation changed and if he taxed the van in his name or any other it was both stupid and breaking the law , unless he had a lease agreement with you He has no case and you MUST not use violence I'm not sure how the tax works if I'm honest, as far as i knew he taxed the van in my name from the start but didn't send logbook off. I did call trading standards originally and they wasn't a great deal of help unfortunately. I don't think it's possible to tax it in somebody else's name the DVLA would have wanted the v5 details." A dealer can tax into anyone's name , however doing so after invoice and taking money would be illegal I'll call them for you they are always happy to help from my experience | |||
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"You know him,we don't. What do you think he will do if you threaten him or hit him? He shouldn't get away with stealing your money. Sometimes the correct channels don't work. We had someone go bankrupt owing us £25,000. My husband and his partner paid him a visit and had a word with him and he found £25,000 cash in his house he had hidden from the tax man. Some people need a little nudge to cough up what they owe. " I think suggesting physical threats is foolish and vastly irresponsible There are some genuinely vile people out there who do not play by any rules A person may feel big strong superior however there's always someone stronger more nasty and less moral waiting to finish the job Do not start on this path , your rights in law can should and will resolve this Remember the star wars metaphor regarding the draw to the dark side , hate and anger are YOUR enemy do not be swayed xxx | |||
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"You know him,we don't. What do you think he will do if you threaten him or hit him? He shouldn't get away with stealing your money. Sometimes the correct channels don't work. We had someone go bankrupt owing us £25,000. My husband and his partner paid him a visit and had a word with him and he found £25,000 cash in his house he had hidden from the tax man. Some people need a little nudge to cough up what they owe. I think suggesting physical threats is foolish and vastly irresponsible There are some genuinely vile people out there who do not play by any rules A person may feel big strong superior however there's always someone stronger more nasty and less moral waiting to finish the job Do not start on this path , your rights in law can should and will resolve this Remember the star wars metaphor regarding the draw to the dark side , hate and anger are YOUR enemy do not be swayed xxx" I didn't suggest physical threats,if you read my last post. We live in a world where people think they can get away with stealing from you. We have to remind them that they can't. Some people only need a little talk face to face to get them to realise you aren't giving up. Saying a prayer and hoping for the best won't get you anywhere in this world. | |||
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"Hi thanks for all the above coments, sorry for not replying sooner but work was hectic. To be honest, small claims is not worth my time for £250 and he knows it. And trading standards was no help whatsoever with getting my money back for the van. I got the money back for the van cause he knew he didn't have a leg to stand on. He's not stupid he knows it's not worth my time taking legal action for £250 tax. The guy has not even apologised once for selling me a clocked van or forgetting to send the log book off. He's a complete ****! I'm going to his showroom on Saturday to catch him off guard and tell him what I think of him and his business. And like some have mentioned above I will let every potential customer know what he did. Hopefully I can provoke him to hit me first lol " Small claims is very easy to do yourself but Court fee is £35 or £25 if done online. If he defends it starts getting tricky but shouldn't put you off. I do small claims all day at work | |||
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"Couple of months ago I bought a new van from a showroom that turned out to be clocked 60 thousand miles. Now after a lot of hassle I got my money back. Anyway, when I bought the van he offered to tax it for me so I agreed. I paid £250 to tax a van I had for one month. Turns out the guy didn't send the log book off and I wasn't the registered keeper. So dvla won't refund me my tax money. So I've been calling this guy and every time he lies to me about paying the tax back. Anyway now he has started ignoring my calls. I've got to the point now where I have lost patience and I'm going to his showroom on weekend to bollock him. What would you do?? I'm not a violent person but this guy is kind of asking for it right? His showroom will have cctv though so not sure what to do. ???? " Couldn't you get Trading Standards involved? | |||
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"Got my money and told him what I think of him and his business. " Hope you didn't turn up in the red elephant pants? (on a more serious note well done. ) | |||
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"Got my money and told him what I think of him and his business. " where's my 20? | |||
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"Got my money and told him what I think of him and his business. " Good! | |||
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"Couple of months ago I bought a new van from a showroom that turned out to be clocked 60 thousand miles. Now after a lot of hassle I got my money back. Anyway, when I bought the van he offered to tax it for me so I agreed. I paid £250 to tax a van I had for one month. Turns out the guy didn't send the log book off and I wasn't the registered keeper. So dvla won't refund me my tax money. So I've been calling this guy and every time he lies to me about paying the tax back. Anyway now he has started ignoring my calls. I've got to the point now where I have lost patience and I'm going to his showroom on weekend to bollock him. What would you do?? I'm not a violent person but this guy is kind of asking for it right? His showroom will have cctv though so not sure what to do. ???? Couldn't you get Trading Standards involved? " Trading standards don't help you get your money back, they just look into the criminal side of things and offer some advice. I did call them. | |||
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"Got my money and told him what I think of him and his business. " Good lad | |||
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"Got my money and told him what I think of him and his business. where's my 20? " It's in the post lol | |||
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"Got my money and told him what I think of him and his business. Hope you didn't turn up in the red elephant pants? (on a more serious note well done. ) " I didn't feel they was appropriate on this occasion | |||
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"Got my money and told him what I think of him and his business. Hope you didn't turn up in the red elephant pants? (on a more serious note well done. ) " I didn't feel they was appropriate on this occasion | |||
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"Got my money and told him what I think of him and his business. where's my 20? " You mean 50. It was 20% of £250 | |||
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"Make sure you name his business far and wide on review sites" Yeah he does deserve it! I'm just glad I got my money back, plus the look on face when I was shouting at him was priceless! | |||
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"Make sure you name his business far and wide on review sites Yeah he does deserve it! I'm just glad I got my money back, plus the look on face when I was shouting at him was priceless! " Hehe not just fore he deserves it but think how happy you'd have been if someone would have warned you before you walked in there | |||
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