FabSwingers.com forum: Getting Trolled :-(

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So ive hidden my profile as the last 2 weeks ive had to deal with a nasty troll.

I deleted my orginal profile, then decided to come back, and the troll got even worse..

It suddenly stopped on saturday, now im nervous about taking my profile out of hidden incase it starts again...

Should I stay hidden a little longer :-/

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Do you mean it's one person stalking you?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

only you know....... the more you react, the more they win

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

And wouldn't he see this thread with your avatar?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have no clue who it is or why they have targeted me ...

Infact I think its someone ive never met :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you reported your troll problem to the site?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

Block and report maybe just an idea

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"So ive hidden my profile as the last 2 weeks ive had to deal with a nasty troll.

I deleted my orginal profile, then decided to come back, and the troll got even worse..

It suddenly stopped on saturday, now im nervous about taking my profile out of hidden incase it starts again...

Should I stay hidden a little longer :-/"

If the trolls reading this am guessing his answer would be no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And wouldn't he see this thread with your avatar?"

Actually didnt think of the pic :-/

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Perhaps make your avatar pic less identifiable sweetie x

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I have no clue who it is or why they have targeted me ...

Infact I think its someone ive never met :-/"

Just block and report to admin, if they keep making new profiles just continue to block them and keep reporting the profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Every message, the person kept on setting up new profiles and also messaging my veris

Who also reported each message...

Im hoping they are gone as admin have blocked them :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you not know who it is, are they messaging you on here or what they doing? Report it xx

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Every message, the person kept on setting up new profiles and also messaging my veris

Who also reported each message...

Im hoping they are gone as admin have blocked them :/"

Use your filters to block new member profiles too. They won't be able to message you when setting up new profiles

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

Aren't you bringing more attention to yourself by making a forum post about your troll?

Forum posts are public so even if you've blocked them they will be able to see this, best thing to do is keep reporting the profile to admin and they will hopefully sort it out for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How can you not know who it is, are they messaging you on here or what they doing? Report it xx"

They kept setting up new profiles then deleted each and every profile after they sent the messages...

Its all extremely bizarre

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"Every message, the person kept on setting up new profiles and also messaging my veris

Who also reported each message...

Im hoping they are gone as admin have blocked them :/"

so what are the messages saying?

Do they not give you an idea of who maybe behind this?

Get your veris to forward the messages to you as you might see a clue in there that gives away who it is as the message wasn't for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did set up filters, thats when the person targeted my veris....

As I said it suddenly all stopped on saturday so if the person was using same email to set up new profiles im thinking admin could block the ip

Fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can you not know who it is, are they messaging you on here or what they doing? Report it xx

They kept setting up new profiles then deleted each and every profile after they sent the messages...

Its all extremely bizarre

Sorry to hear this but as others said don't react or as its said in a lot of gaming forums don't feed the trolls!

Advice I would give is as others have said delete/report messages + stop new members messaging you!

Don't get upset hon I'm sure you have lots of friends on here who can offer u a shoulder and give u support! Good luck x

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

"How can you not know who it is, are they messaging you on here or what they doing? Report it xx

They kept setting up new profiles then deleted each and every profile after they sent the messages...

Its all extremely bizarre

and very specific to you!

you can workout who it is trust me it's alot of trouble to go through for a random person you know the person or have done in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies I missed the post where you had explained that.

Sorry hun no need for jealous tosspots!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Every message, the person kept on setting up new profiles and also messaging my veris

Who also reported each message...

Im hoping they are gone as admin have blocked them :/

so what are the messages saying?

Do they not give you an idea of who maybe behind this?

Get your veris to forward the messages to you as you might see a clue in there that gives away who it is as the message wasn't for you "

The messages were for me, they stated that to my friends, the messages contained very graphic acts of sexual violence towards myself

But im fairly certain they have never met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what you can do, but if the messages are violent threats to you i'd be worried also.

Not only are they making threats but they are taking considerable time to do this and also harassing people you know.

Not sure what you can do really. I've got a couple of stalkers who, don't threaten me but, feel it's ok to keep making new profiles and contacting me despite me saying i'm not interested in them.

This account is not defunct because of it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well what I do know its a criminal offence for threats like that to be made

So think admin had to take notice of this..

I just dont understand people who behave in such away...

Think I posted this thread as a way of venting my frustration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let them get to you OP, block and report. I know its not nice but its just words on a screen, if you've never met they won't know how to track you off here. Let the mods sort them out

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

If you have reported it let Admin check it out

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